yeh I agree, she has always had good skin, I think what makes her look bad is just the fact she always looks so miserable, she used to be so smily and I think that is what makes the difference
Tanya Burr #9 eighty thousand things to flog, one short boyfriend and one missing dog
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littlepup
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There are plenty of legitimate reasons to give up your dog and if people didn't think like this more dogs would have happy homes rather than be stuck in a kennel or chained in the garden.
She may have had a legitimate reason that Covid has now meant didn't happen. I suspect that she was moving to LA for 6 months or something, the house was supposed to be sold, maybe she was moving into rented accommodation she couldn't take a dog to; perhaps it was totally out of spite toward Jim. Who knows.
I'll get tit for this, but I really don't know why people give that much of a tit about the dog then say, she's using it for engagement when she hasn't mentioned her at all, hasn't hinted or teased at anything, hasn't encouraged any chat about it and deleted it all. It's the people who won't let it drop that are creating the engagement.
it is like a mockery of the term infleuncer
who the hell would want to look like this?!Speaking personally, I get why people are interested in the dog. It was a big part of their channel (which is their personal lives) and it has vanished. Why is this strange? It would be the same if when her and jim broke up and she had never mentioned it IMO
littlepup
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I see your point - I hadn’t watched Tanya for years and never really Jim so perhaps I wasn’t as invested but I don’t think they’ll ever address it. Badgering and asking all the time only increases their engagement. Jim I’ll give you. I think he uses it. His post the other day about dogs encourages it, Sarah’s comment etc but I don’t believe Tanya does at all
getawaywithit
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I don’t know where this narrative of “Tanya was moving to LA and got stuck in London because of COVID” or whatever came from. Tanya was not moving. Tanya did not sell the house. All she has done since the divorce is invest even more in the house. She kept it all except for Martha. Tanya was only booking jobs in London. Furthermore Martha was gone LONG before Covid or before any potential move.
Also when you have committed to take an animal and there are no insane behavioural issues threatening your safety then no, there isn’t really a great reason to discard them like a toy you’re tired of. It’s a living thing that you as a full grown adult said you would take care of, not something you decide to pt out of once you think you’d like to move somewhere new or just don’t want to take it on walks anymore. The fact is that the crisis isn’t “dogs in kennels“ or whatever, it’s that shelters and rehoming charities are full of animals that people treat as disposable and that adults can’t own up and take responsibility for when it gets a bit tough or circumstances shift. Obviously it’s preferable to have an animal fully wanted and cared for but there’s another option— step up and dedicate yourself to taking care of your pet.
If you gave away an animal because you got bored and feel sensitive reading people’s judgements then just say that and go.
Also when you have committed to take an animal and there are no insane behavioural issues threatening your safety then no, there isn’t really a great reason to discard them like a toy you’re tired of. It’s a living thing that you as a full grown adult said you would take care of, not something you decide to pt out of once you think you’d like to move somewhere new or just don’t want to take it on walks anymore. The fact is that the crisis isn’t “dogs in kennels“ or whatever, it’s that shelters and rehoming charities are full of animals that people treat as disposable and that adults can’t own up and take responsibility for when it gets a bit tough or circumstances shift. Obviously it’s preferable to have an animal fully wanted and cared for but there’s another option— step up and dedicate yourself to taking care of your pet.
If you gave away an animal because you got bored and feel sensitive reading people’s judgements then just say that and go.
but she has blocked all words like dog etc from her comments, so knows what she is doing, which for me implies she has done something
littlepup
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I’d rather be homeless than give up my dog but there are reasons why people would, Martha could have bitten someone, a friends child, who knows, unless you are Tanya herself or part of her inner circle you don’t know enough to know there wouldn’t have been a valid reason... and ‘I don’t want it anymore’ is a valid enough reason. Might make you an hole yes absolutely, but if she didn’t want her, she didn’t want her. If she rehomed her, that’s the responsible thing to do. Telling someone to step-up just isn’t constructive if they no longer want it.
Demonising re-homing, if through proper channels, is not good for animal welfare.
totally disagree, if one of these was a reason she could tell us and it would be understandable
I’m her age and so are my friends - I stand by it, her skin laxity is poor and she looks gaunt, she’s young and her skin isn’t great
not wanting your animal is not a legitimate reason to give them up. an animal companion is your family and your dependent, you can't just change your mind.
it's also not like she adopted martha from a shelter cause she cares about animals, she bought a designer inbred dog, least she can do is take care of her/not give her away/act like she never existed.
she CAPITALISED off martha by showing her off, talking about how much she loves her and having us all invested in her. and now she's vanished and we're not allowed to talk about her otherwise we get blocked or comments get deleted???!! this is SO wrong. she used us to sell her books/tv shows/plays/make up that was literally NAMED AFTER MARTHA and then acts like we have no right to ask. influencer culture makes me sick.
this is the one place we can talk about it so it's really frustrating to have people say we need to drop it.
what needs to happen is tanya and jim owning up to whatever the duck they did to martha and stop acting like she never existed. #justiceformartha
it's also not like she adopted martha from a shelter cause she cares about animals, she bought a designer inbred dog, least she can do is take care of her/not give her away/act like she never existed.
she CAPITALISED off martha by showing her off, talking about how much she loves her and having us all invested in her. and now she's vanished and we're not allowed to talk about her otherwise we get blocked or comments get deleted???!! this is SO wrong. she used us to sell her books/tv shows/plays/make up that was literally NAMED AFTER MARTHA and then acts like we have no right to ask. influencer culture makes me sick.
this is the one place we can talk about it so it's really frustrating to have people say we need to drop it.
what needs to happen is tanya and jim owning up to whatever the duck they did to martha and stop acting like she never existed. #justiceformartha
Shutterbug99
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I agree, she does look gaunt. She looks permanently exhausted; worn out and drawn. She is probably hungry a lot of the time. She lost a lot of weight very quickly and probably doesn't eat all that much these days in order to maintain her new slim figure.
Interesting that he knows she is 'doing great.' Implies that he knows of Martha's whereabouts and he is up-to-date on her well-being. I hope he's telling the truth and this is the case!
If Tanya offloaded her to a shelter, then he wouldn't know how she was doing. Maybe she was actually re-homed with someone they know. I don't suppose we'll ever find out, though!
queenfeline
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The only part I don't get is why is Jim being quiet in that theory? Presumably he's been wronged but continues to engage with her on SM etc
Shutterbug99
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That part also doesn't add up for me. Would Jim really continue to like her IG posts and say they are 'great friends' if she had offloaded his beloved pup to a shelter?
sitkx
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I think he’s desperate to be the “good guy” all the time, especially based on his constant condescending babying comments on her Instagram. Maybe he thinks he’s in a much happier place than her and feels pity for her? Or maybe he’s trying to convince himself of that? I always got the “holier than thou” vibe from him
I dont think Martha went to a shelter, I think she was rehomed to a family
Calabria
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could she be with Tanya’s parents or her sister maybe?
Shutterbug99
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Haven't seen any evidence of it, but this would be the best case scenario. I don't follow any of her family on IG or know how active they are on social media, so I guess it is a possibility.
martaS
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I think her parents have 2 dogs, according to the dad's ig. I think if it was as simple as that, she would just say it on her social media. Something like, "Because of my work, I can't really look after Martha right now so she's staying with my parents and I will visit her as often as I can". But she never has, has she?
itsgtothea
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I think she’s rehomed her to one of her ‘in crowd’ friends in London because she thought her acting career would be taking off and she’d be travelling all the time.
It’s a shame because she seems so lonely it must be a kick in the teeth for her and a reminder of all that she doesn’t have (career, dog, real friends)
It’s a shame because she seems so lonely it must be a kick in the teeth for her and a reminder of all that she doesn’t have (career, dog, real friends)
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