Poor Tamara. Another birthday without any hint of a proposal. She looks devastated, maybe because she had hoped desperately to happen in NY. What FT gave her this time? A "promise" bracelet, randomly bought at the last moment? Why is she waisting her time with that guy. It's crystal clear that he is not going to marry her. As soon she realises that as better. She is not a bad person, just she is really unsatisfied with her situation, hence her behaviour. Tamara, leave this guy and find someone that is going to be ready to commit to you and appreciate you. Many years ago I was in a similar situation and I know how pathetic it's everything.