Chattymamabear
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Talia Oatway & Aaron Chalmers (Geordie Shore)
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Littlemissproblem
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Does anyone know who Ray Chalmers is she’s tagged in her story? Seems to be staying at theirs?
Imhereforthebanter
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On a side note, is there anything that Talia won’t promote 
her insta stories are just a daily ad feed..so cringe
her insta stories are just a daily ad feed..so cringeI was thinking the same thing. She promotes any old tit that no-one's ever heard of!On a side note, is there anything that Talia won’t promote
Whataneyeopener!!
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Looks like Talias filming today. Assuming for OGs as the others have been? Maybe we’ll find out the gossip!
Wow I just found & read this thread...so a few things I have tea on & can add. Talia was a Geordie Shore fan (and weirdly enough a big Marnie fan) well before meeting Aaron. She 100% went to Spain with the mission of cuffing Aaron, she was enough of a stalker before hand & knew all the right things to say/do. Luckily for her, Aaron was in a huge mood to give a massive "fu*k you" to Marnie at the time - which clearly backfired. This was immediately after GS 15 filming & Marnie said she didn't want to be in a relationship w/ him; also he learnt that Marnie was about to do a reality dating show which i guess he wasn't happy about. So right off the bat I don't think he had the right intentions going into that relationship, especially since a week before he was professing his love for Marnie & wanted to be with her.
Also, there are pictures online of him cheating on Talia like a month after they started dating and we all know he cheated on her again w/ Marnie on S16 of GS...Talia knew all of this and still stayed with him. At that point I could only assume she just wanted to be the trophy girlfriend and looked past it bc of the money.
I just never ever saw any chemistry or love between them on OGs - he didn't look at her that way at all & you could tell he didn't think she was "the one" and was just going through the motions of being in a relationship bcuz it had already gone on that long. And when he spoke about her, it was never about how much he loved her, it was always about what she did for him aka cooking, preping his meals and cleaning...i think he saw her as an employee & eventually a surrogate more than a partner and someone he loved.
I found this out a while ago, but there was an unaired scene in geordie OGs season 1 ep 3 where he filmed w/ James Tinsdale & he was told about the marnie pregnancy news...and apparently he was upset by it (im not sure why it wasnt shown). What did air was the scene directly after that when he went home & was wearing an orange long sleeve shirt..if you look at his face in this scene you can tell he was still off & upset. It's sad to say but I don't think he has ever let go of the whole Marnie thing & I think in a lot of ways he has let it consume him. When they saw each other again for OGs 1 media day, I watched some BTS video/interviews MTV released & if you look closely at him and his body language towards her, its obvious he still has feelings for her. Whereas its clear to me that Marnie doesnt share the same feelings whether she was single or not. She did a IG live a couple months ago & said that she does still speak to Aaron - but i don't think its often or one-on-one, maybe just in a group chat.
I do think Aaron is full of himself, and i think it stems from insecurity. Like i remember when OGs was announced he quoted the article and boasted that its yet another cheque for him - which is so gross imo. And if what ive seen is true, he isn't nearly as wealthy as he claims and owes A LOT more than he has. I think he blew all his GS money and likely blew all his MMA money and is panicking now
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They literally have broken up and gotten back together 100 times so tbh i knew it eventually would be done for good like it is now. And you could tell based on their SM when they had heavy arguments...like i thought they'd broken up again around his bday too. And its clear there has been a rift between her and his family for a long time - his family all unfollowed her and vice versa so who knows what that was even over.
She's staying with his brother and his brothers wife right now and his brothers wife blocked aaron on SM...im not sure if she left on her own or he kicked her out..either way he is most def very immature and she's an absolute twit. It was a toxic relationship from the start and just got worse and worse. Its clear they both resented each other for different reasons
Also, there are pictures online of him cheating on Talia like a month after they started dating and we all know he cheated on her again w/ Marnie on S16 of GS...Talia knew all of this and still stayed with him. At that point I could only assume she just wanted to be the trophy girlfriend and looked past it bc of the money.
I just never ever saw any chemistry or love between them on OGs - he didn't look at her that way at all & you could tell he didn't think she was "the one" and was just going through the motions of being in a relationship bcuz it had already gone on that long. And when he spoke about her, it was never about how much he loved her, it was always about what she did for him aka cooking, preping his meals and cleaning...i think he saw her as an employee & eventually a surrogate more than a partner and someone he loved.
I found this out a while ago, but there was an unaired scene in geordie OGs season 1 ep 3 where he filmed w/ James Tinsdale & he was told about the marnie pregnancy news...and apparently he was upset by it (im not sure why it wasnt shown). What did air was the scene directly after that when he went home & was wearing an orange long sleeve shirt..if you look at his face in this scene you can tell he was still off & upset. It's sad to say but I don't think he has ever let go of the whole Marnie thing & I think in a lot of ways he has let it consume him. When they saw each other again for OGs 1 media day, I watched some BTS video/interviews MTV released & if you look closely at him and his body language towards her, its obvious he still has feelings for her. Whereas its clear to me that Marnie doesnt share the same feelings whether she was single or not. She did a IG live a couple months ago & said that she does still speak to Aaron - but i don't think its often or one-on-one, maybe just in a group chat.
I do think Aaron is full of himself, and i think it stems from insecurity. Like i remember when OGs was announced he quoted the article and boasted that its yet another cheque for him - which is so gross imo. And if what ive seen is true, he isn't nearly as wealthy as he claims and owes A LOT more than he has. I think he blew all his GS money and likely blew all his MMA money and is panicking now
part 2
They literally have broken up and gotten back together 100 times so tbh i knew it eventually would be done for good like it is now. And you could tell based on their SM when they had heavy arguments...like i thought they'd broken up again around his bday too. And its clear there has been a rift between her and his family for a long time - his family all unfollowed her and vice versa so who knows what that was even over.
She's staying with his brother and his brothers wife right now and his brothers wife blocked aaron on SM...im not sure if she left on her own or he kicked her out..either way he is most def very immature and she's an absolute twit. It was a toxic relationship from the start and just got worse and worse. Its clear they both resented each other for different reasons
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Wow. This is good tea!
To cat lady
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had they started talking before she went to Spain?or did she coordinate a random meeting where he was based on his insta lol
They originally were not supposed to be going on the trip together, but she somehow managed to finesse her way on his trip (her girlfriend was dating Aaron's mate who he was going on the trip with at the time). Aaron and his friend booked the trip first and Aaron posted about it on SM, and then a week later Talia just coincidently booked tickets to Ibiza too lol ...but right before the trip he obviously found out who was going and they started speaking right before the trip - and im positive she was laying it on thick right off the bat. She was hardcore stalking him on SM all throughout May months prior to ever meeting him. While he was filming S15 of Geordie Shore (a month before meeting him), she was also tweeting random creeping stuff like "I LOVE HIM"...like what?? i don't know but she just creeps me out - who does that? Like I said I think her intentions were blatantly obvious
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And it's really hard for me to feel sympathy for her now because after years with him and countless red flags she still tries to sneakily trap him by getting pregnant with a baby. Like he shows no interest in her & treats her like hired help, he cheated on her countless times, he would have drug binges & disappear, and he clearly isn't over his ex...and this twit thinks after all that its time to bring a child into the world with him *eye roll*.
quite ident
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But he said on Geordie OGs they were trying, I remember because he said they were trying but like not properly trying until Emma sent the clearblue and it happened right away.
She didn't trap him if he was fully aware he was trying!!
Yes he did say they were trying! So what does he expect will happen when having unprotected sex
That's fair enough a point, and maybe "trap" isn't the correct wording but I couldn't think of a better one off the top of my head. My point is that he quite clearly was not mentally ready to have a child and Talia continued to push for this while he was disappearing, out binge drinking and on drug binges. She took the clearblue test knowing all of these red flags and without telling him. Of course he is a willing participant and partially responsible as well; but it's quite obvious he didn't want it to happen and she knew exactly what she was doing. Even in the most recent season, Aaron repeatedly said he doesn't want more children & Talia's response was always like "yes, we're having at least 2 more"...I think that's not a healthy way to go about things for either of them and it's quite clear why their relationship was toxic. One person (Aaron) doesn't really want to be in the relationship & is basically floating by with one foot out the door, but just going along w/ what their partner says - and the other person (Talia) has a partner who is seemingly uninvested in the relationship & exhibits countless dangerous red flags, yet her first thought is to produce a child with this person. Clearly not only were these two on different pages, but they weren't even reading the same book.
I do think that the initial "trying" for a baby was done to appease Talia & I don't think Aaron wanted it to happen in reality - but that is 100% his own fault for going a long with it if that's the case. Talia knew that the clearblue method would work immediately and I do think she at the very least should've been honest about that. But at the end of the day I think they're both in the wrong and at this point there's a child involved for life and that should be the priority.
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The Clearblue method does not "work immediately"- it just identifies your most fertile days to give you the best chance of conception. There is never a guarantee. Talia got pregnant quickly but it often isn't that straight forward. I have friends who have been trying for over a year with no success, sadly, and I'm willing to bet that Aaron thought it would take them some time to conceive during which he might have come round to the idea a bit more.
Yes, I agree, I think that since it hadn't happened up until that point Aaron didn't expect it to happen that quickly (or at all) - like I said i think he was just going through the motions of their relationship without fully committing to it for the long run. I think he didn't want to be in the relationship, but by that point they were obviously in too deep seeing that they live together and he was an adoptive father to her daughter. My opinion is that they clearly already had a broken relationship for years now, and the birth of the baby probably just heightened the stresses...also I did hear that Talia was really putting a lot of pressure on him to get a bigger house (and he didn't want to for reasons I won't say publicly on here) - which explains why their house went both on & off the market immediately right when they split lol
To cat lady
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Do we have any proof he goes on these drug binges? I thought he was really into his health
quite ident
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I actually bought the clear blue after he said that it worked for them straight away , I had been trying for my second for a year and was getting very upset. I conceived on the clear blue the second try and am now 20 weeks pregnant.
Yes I think you are right he was just going with the flow and she did put the pressure on and does want more, he does seem to adore his son though, maybe just not her!
yeah exactly
Well, she posted proof and has inferred it a couple times as well on SM. You can tell a lot of the time based on his behaviour and mannerisms that he has been using. I don't think its necessarily a daily thing (especially if he's fighting); but he def binges from time to time. I think it's strange how much he wants to go back to the Geordie Shore partying days all of a sudden - like he tweeted something recently saying he'd do anything to have those partying/club appearance days back. I just find him very contradicting & confusing a lot of the time bc depending on the day he says something different so I don't know the truth.
But apparently they are filming a GS 10 year reunion season at the end of the year or early next year...so i guess he'll get what he wants for a short period of time. Although i think its going to be more holiday style, rather than binge drinking style lol
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Whataneyeopener!!
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Aaron’s on one tonight 
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