Syd and Ell #15 Syd’s personality trait is being Ocean’s mum, Luxury stationary? Ell, are you ok hun?

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account70032 said:
Please correct me if I’m wrong cause I’m no expert but would the constant travelling/being in different time zones affect a baby’s routine/sleep pattern? I know all babies are different when it comes to sleep so it’s not abnormal for a baby to go through a stage of not sleeping through the night but I wouldn’t be surprised if all the travelling has played a part in messing up Oceans sleep pattern and if that’s the case that just shows yet again how selfish these influencer parents are.
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I thought the same thing when she mentioned ocean’s sleep is bad and then went onto say shortly afterwards that they were going on holiday/had been on holiday. It must have some affect as even us as adults most of the time feel the slight change in time zones when we go abroad
 
Why does she feel the need to slag off her baby online? Sorry but that's what she's doing, basically complaining about her? She's sharing way too much of her also. She could address it in a Q&A or something, eg. Ocean is struggling with her sleep but we're working on it. But it's all 'the devil' this and 'I've had no sleep because of this girl'. I think it's awful tbh
 
lilyflower96 said:
I’m sorry but how can she say that going on holiday for Christmas alternate years will be a big part of her Christmas present. That holiday is for YOUR wants not hers ffs 🥴.
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Nooo because that’s exactly what I was thinking and my parents were the same, every year a holiday abroad for Christmas when actually at a younger age I didn’t even appreciate the holidays I just wanted to be able to hang with my friends and get the stuff they was getting but I’d have to wait until my birthday for them
 
Syd really thinks she’s done something here doesn’t she
 

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Nooo because that’s exactly what I was thinking and my parents were the same, every year a holiday abroad for Christmas when actually at a younger age I didn’t even appreciate the holidays I just wanted to be able to hang with my friends and get the stuff they was getting but I’d have to wait until my birthday for them
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Exactly yeah when she’s like 5 is she really going to be putting ‘a holiday to Dubai ’ on her Christmas wish list 🤣 just because she’s been brought up having to do it doesn’t mean it has to be carried on!
 
So syd is basically doing the cry it out method??? I didnt like how she worded what she said "it's like a game to her" she's 9 months old?! She isn't trying to manipulate you syd, she's a literal baby who wants comfort and to feel loved. I understand having a kid is hard but come on. They're only small for such a short while. She'll be absolutely gutted when ocean is older and doesn't have that strong connection/bond with her all because syd wanted 8 hours of sleep.. like she has a full time job to get to. Poor kid is basically learning no one is gonna come so why bother crying
 
Good luck to Syd if she thinks sleep training is going to help Ocean sleep through at 9 months. Give it a few weeks and it will be something else that’s keeping Ocean awake at night. Like someone rightly said already, this is what babies do. They are unpredictable with their sleep but that’s because they are constantly developing, learning new things, teething, hitting milestones...the list goes on. When this happens, sleeping for them takes a backseat. They cry because that’s their only way to vocalise how they are feeling.

I don’t understand why influencers have a need to mute their babies. Imagine someone ignoring you every time you spoke when their was something you felt uncomfortable with…damn
 
Suddenly an expert on babies I see 🤦‍♀️, they definitely still do need milk at 9 months more so than food 😬. A baby is not a fashion accessory, they have wants and needs, so yes when you have a baby unfortunately their needs come before yours (even if it means not having enough beauty sleep).
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Just noticed in a previous video that ocean isn’t well /has a cold anyway, so no wonder why she’s not sleeping great, poor baby probably just wants comfort to help feel better 🥺.
 
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Ocean isn’t even a bad sleeper if Syd is complaining that it took 2 hours to settle her ONCE. Considering how much travelling they’ve done with her in different time zones and any illnesses she may have had, I’d say she’s a pretty good sleeper. And seeing as she doesn’t have to get up for work, she can just nap with her the next day if the night was a struggle
 
Can’t believe she’s doing CIO. Fair enough give them a minute or two to see if they settle themselves, but the thought of that poor baby crying for 40 mins makes me feel ill.
I do remember the 8-10 month separation anxiety/regression being especially awful, but they aren’t doing it on purpose 🥺. As somebody above said, once they get over this, she’ll have illness/teething/brain developments/learning to walk etc. etc. waking her up in the night too. It’s all just a phase, for her to get a sleep coach in after a couple of night’s bad sleep is just insane behaviour
 
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