Sunbeamsjess #4 Can never commit to a schedule personally, but pay me on Patreon and fund the uncertainty

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Both look like they need a good wash.




The price of the villa she stayed in. Sickening 😂

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queenamber said:
The price of the villa she stayed in. Sickening 😂

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so she def hasn’t been cut off by her mom at all lol. I guess Jess paid for her own flights or whatever, but imagine covering the cost of a villa like that for your 30 year old unemployed “self-employed” daughter to go on vacation. maybe it’s a rich people thing where it’s nothing to them to casually spend thousands on behalf of their adult children, but I just don’t get it. of course Jess has no incentive to work for anything when she has everything handed to her.
 
Does Zak come from money? Does he have his own money? Because if I were in his shoes, I would be so embarrassed! I am basically unemployed, living in my gf's mother's posh house for free, all life expenses paid, have a baby with said gf and go on fancy holidays on their dime as well.

It's one thing for Jess to benefit from her parents' wealth but for her bf to have no steady income is another. Does he not have any pride as a provider at all? He doesn't have to earn crazy money but there's something very gratifying in being able to raise your kid with money you earned.
 
eelaii said:
Does Zak come from money? Does he have his own money? Because if I were in his shoes, I would be so embarrassed! I am basically unemployed, living in my gf's mother's posh house for free, all life expenses paid, have a baby with said gf and go on fancy holidays on their dime as well.

It's one thing for Jess to benefit from her parents' wealth but for her bf to have no steady income is another. Does he not have any pride as a provider at all? He doesn't have to earn crazy money but there's something very gratifying in being able to raise your kid with money you earned.
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I suspect it was more her than him that initially instigated this pattern of him being a kept spouse/SAH dad. Sounds like she encouraged him to quit his work (cooking, videography?) to focus on helping her with her own. I can see how inertia on this subject set in with COVID and the baby and now it's like there are possible arguments that he's worth more at home helping her or caring for the baby than he is working full-time, though I know they have outside support. I personally don't think working outside of the house for work's sake means much and don't find it a point of pride. But he does need to be able to support himself and contribute to the child if this relationship ever goes sideways.
 
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consumerism makes u free said:
I suspect it was more her than him that initially instigated this pattern of him being a kept spouse/SAH dad. Sounds like she encouraged him to quit his work (cooking, videography?) to focus on helping her with her own. I can see how inertia on this subject set in with COVID and the baby and now it's like there are possible arguments that he's worth more at home helping her or caring for the baby than he is working full-time, though I know they have outside support. I personally don't think working outside of the house for work's sake means much and don't find it a point of pride. But he does need to be able to support himself and contribute to the child if this relationship ever goes sideways.
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I understand. Being a stay at home dad or him being the primary caregiver is perfectly fine. But by the looks of it, both of them don't have a steady income of their own. It would not be so inappropriate if one of them at least earns a steady income.

I know there are very lucky people that don't have to work and still live a cushy life too but they are still productive. Zak and Jess don't seem to get anything done despite having so much opportunities, money and help. Their house renovations, the organizing, it's all in shambles because they both move in glacial pace.
 
Mr.Mistoffelees said:
She said in her instagram story they've already booked to go back to that extortionately priced place...

Oh to be born rich and read books for a living.
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It was obviously lovely but when you're that bleeping rich I'm failing to understand what was so exceptional about it versus any other incredible place in any other incredible destination they could afford to let. If I had that kind of money I'd want to explore my options.
 
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