It is minimising cheating when anybody who brings up Katya cheating on Neil gets shouted down with claims of sexism. I dislike her and Seann. Thankfully, Seann is off my screen. Katya isn't so obviously people talk about her more. It's also not slutshaming to point out that she had a choice to cheat and she made that choice. People are allowed to blame women for cheating the same way men get blamed for cheating yet whenever anyone tries to point out a woman cheating, people start with the "it takes two to tango!!". Yes. And she tangoed! Therefore, I'll blame her for it just like I blame Seann.