Strawberry Hayes/Charlie Hayes #2 Her pronouns are Paypal/Scrounger

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Sazza25 said:
Her TikTok has massively angered me, my child is non verbal autistic, he struggles so bad with food, it's a very beige diet he has, as I see it im just so happy to see him eat something! She's an ignorant bleep and I'm raging
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She’s just doing it to increase engagement. She’s desperate for money now she gets no coin for her tired fanny & exploiting her son on the internet.
 
Her post has really annoyed me as someone who worked with kids for many years. She seems to believe children with severe autism/arfid seem to become that way or ‘worse’ by parents introducing unhealthy foods in the first place which is simply untrue. There’s a reason doctors actually advise parents to just give kids the ‘safe’ food they beg for if it means they go to sleep with at least one thing to eat rather than nothing..

Majority of children I know with Arfid rejected any kind of foods from the moment they could and any ‘unhealthy’ foods that they were introduced to would be so their parent could know their child has ONE thing in their stomach at least instead of starving. Does she not realise Arfid/autism kids will literally starve themselves rather than eat? Her logic of ‘just give them water it’s what humans need’ sounds outdated and shocking. You can’t just force them to deal with it, we could all force feed kids with our own hands, then what? you’ve forced them food congrats … annnd given them an extremely negative/traumatic relationship with food..
 
lilsky666 said:
Her post has really annoyed me as someone who worked with kids for many years. She seems to believe children with severe autism/arfid seem to become that way or ‘worse’ by parents introducing unhealthy foods in the first place which is simply untrue. There’s a reason doctors actually advise parents to just give kids the ‘safe’ food they beg for if it means they go to sleep with at least one thing to eat rather than nothing..

Majority of children I know with Arfid rejected any kind of foods from the moment they could and any ‘unhealthy’ foods that they were introduced to would be so their parent could know their child has ONE thing in their stomach at least instead of starving. Does she not realise Arfid/autism kids will literally starve themselves rather than eat? Her logic of ‘just give them water it’s what humans need’ sounds outdated and shocking. You can’t just force them to deal with it, we could all force feed kids with our own hands, then what? you’ve forced them food congrats … annnd given them an extremely negative/traumatic relationship with food..
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Thankyou!!!! My son would deffo starve himself, he mainly lives off ham sandwiches, pizza, bbq hula hoops and chicken nuggets, at least his fed
 
Sazza25 said:
Thankyou!!!! My son would deffo starve himself, he mainly lives off ham sandwiches, pizza, bbq hula hoops and chicken nuggets, at least his fed
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I actually thought of you & your son when I watched the vid! Kind of hoped you hadn’t seen it because it’s so bleeping enraging.

It’s essentially the same as when people call a meltdown a tantrum isn’t it. Just say you’re an ignorant duck and be done
 
goldie341 said:
I actually thought of you & your son when I watched the vid! Kind of hoped you hadn’t seen it because it’s so bleeping enraging.

It’s essentially the same as when people call a meltdown a tantrum isn’t it. Just say you’re an ignorant duck and be done
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Fucks me off so much how people are so ignorant towards autism, partly why I cut a lot of family off, they didn't even try to understand❤️ thankyou for thinking of us though it's appreciated ❤️
 
Sazza25 said:
Fucks me off so much how people are so ignorant towards autism, partly why I cut a lot of family off, they didn't even try to understand❤ thankyou for thinking of us though it's appreciated ❤
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As a clinical psychologist, you’re right. Fed is absolutely best. Don’t pay her any mind, she has zero formal education on the matter and is a desperate skank 😂
 
Sazza25 said:
Thankyou!!!! My son would deffo starve himself, he mainly lives off ham sandwiches, pizza, bbq hula hoops and chicken nuggets, at least his fed
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same my kid will just not eat if he doesnt have his usual.
it’s so ignorant, I’d cry if I could get him to eat a veg or fruit, or even a sausage roll. Can’t even get him to drink unless it’s out of a particular bottle and it has to be the colour of his squash.
 
Fed is best - that saying doesn’t just apply to the whole breast/formula milk debate.

If your child’s eating and drinking something, it’s better than starving/dehydrating and becoming extremely unwell. I’m sure all parents of ARFID children would love their children to eat a variety of foods and not have the constant worry and stress of their child’s diet being so restricted, but I’m also sure they’d rather their children live off of their safe foods than starve to death.

She’s so bleeping ignorant and self righteous, I cannot stand her.
 
All this is exactly what she wants. I see a lot of us here are SEN parents and we all deal with the same worry and guilt over their diet without her trying to add on. I have one child who will try anything and everything and one who would rather starve than eat a lot of things. Same parents, same upbringing, both autistic, how does she explain that one? She has a child who is a good eater, that's just luck. I hope none of you take what she's spouting to heart and see it for what it is, a desperate ploy to make money instead of getting a real job.
 
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