Stacey Solomon #80 Longest shortest pregnancy ever.

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Saw this reply to the story on Fb page of the local paper.

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Chipsandcheese said:
Now we’re on to talking about how ‘my milk came in today’ and how emotional that is.

As a mother myself (without the huge following she has) I would never share something like that purely because:

A) who the duck needs to know that?

B) it’s massively insensitive to anyone who can’t have children and desperately wants them and will never experience that.

She really does not give a duck.

Maybe it’s just me that gets unusually riled about this but it’s one thing boasting about your big house or fancy holiday but when you shove your fertility in peoples faces again and again it really pisses me off.😡
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I’m absolutely with you on this!.
My baby turns 3 months old tomorrow, and there is SO MUCH that I could gush about on social media… but I purposely don’t, because I’m always trying to be mindful of others 🤷‍♀️
 
Louber said:
God she's a dose of shite 🙄 so she dropped the foal then, neeeiiiggggghhhhhh!!!!!! It probs flew out alright.... like a little money-making pegasus 💸💸

Anyway...

I get that she has zero sensitivity towards anyones feelings. She has proven that time and time again. But God she really is so tone deaf with the over sharing 😬

I had 3 kids, very fortunate that we had no struggles and everything went well. My 1st was a little surprise in our early 20s and then over the years we added 2 more. That should have been the end of it. 3 kids, no troubles, financially just about doable, delighted! When no 3 was very little we had another wee surprise.... actually huuge bleeping shock 😲 and now have 2 babies just over a year apart. Life is bloody nuts, most days I haven't time to scratch my arse tbh.. it's both joyous and very bleeping hard all.the.time my relationship with my husband has suffered as he finds it intensely stressful with so many demands on us all the time. Our toddler is gorgeous, brilliant but intense as duck and has some minor medical needs that require some extra attention and adds to the general upset and emotional unpredictability that toddlers bring. It's so full on and I sometimes find myself being swallowed up by life as a mom.

I have a couple of good friends who are struggling to conceive or struggling to maintain a pregnancy. No matter how hard it is or how in love I am, I water that tit waaay down. They deserve a bit of protection. Their only desire is to be pregnant/have a baby. Like it is all consuming. I have other friends who I can be honest with, I don't bemoan how no4 is my last baby and everytime I put the little clothes away, a part of me feels sad, or how when I'm up breastfeeding at night, I'm not even that bothered by being woken up, I just feel aware that this doesn't last long, they won't need me in this way for very long more. I'm aware of how bleeping unbelievably lucky we are to have 4 kids who are all ok.

Stacey just shut the duck up, legs AND mouth this time please. She is like a chronic yeast infection......no getting rid of her

How much of an attention seeking, money grabbing, selfish bleep does she have to be to monetise everyone her rot box unveils!?
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I take my hat off to you, 4 kids can’t be easy. I’m just about managing with 2 😬 But the way you write is very engaging, you have a way with words. Everything you say is spot on!

Stacey was obviously of the 90’s/00’s era when it was ok to be a flash celebrity and make people feel tit about themselves, but this is the 20’s now and you’re not allowed to trigger people. You can’t show off anymore, you can’t flaunt your wealth and you can’t make people wish they had your life or else you’ll be accused of damaging people’s mental health. You CERTAINLY can’t advertise the fact that your baby “flew out” because that will trigger people who have endured 36 hour labours! (I personally haven’t, but I know some people who have!)

How come regular people know the Do’s and Don’ts yet someone like her who has an agent/manager/social media advisor is blissfully unaware?! (Or blissfully ignorant) 🙄

Sorry, I came on here to compliment you and ended up going on my own little rant 😂
 
LoonyLeopard said:
I take my hat off to you, 4 kids can’t be easy. I’m just about managing with 2 😬 But the way you write is very engaging, you have a way with words. Everything you say is spot on!

Stacey was obviously of the 90’s/00’s era when it was ok to be a flash celebrity and make people feel tit about themselves, but this is the 20’s now and you’re not allowed to trigger people. You can’t show off anymore, you can’t flaunt your wealth and you can’t make people wish they had your life or else you’ll be accused of damaging people’s mental health. You CERTAINLY can’t advertise the fact that your baby “flew out” because that will trigger people who have endured 36 hour labours! (I personally haven’t, but I know some people who have!)

How come regular people know the Do’s and Don’ts yet someone like her who has an agent/manager/social media advisor is blissfully unaware?! (Or blissfully ignorant) 🙄

Sorry, I came on here to compliment you and ended up going on my own little rant 😂
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Aw thank you so much ❤ what a fab compliment, I love a big, anonymous rant to help me unwind at the end of the day! Very cleansing isn't it 😉😂

I will never understand why her nut job die hards are so into her.. what is the appeal? She hasn't a single redeeming quality in my eyes.

How can so many people be taken in by this dell boy?! Making a mug out of them all while rattling off a few 🥲🥲 and drip feeding them a load of nonsense about her concealed pregnancy, all the while her eyes are glued shut and she's laughing away like an imbecile. I'm tempted to join that fan group for the shits and giggles, but it would grind my gears too much!!
 
raspberryjuice said:
She’s going to be in such a panic now. How is she going to find a filter that makes Rex and Roess’ hair look white blonde without making the latest baby’s hair look grey?? She’s definitely going to prioritise that over anything else. Don’t expect a name post til she’s found one.
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What's going to happen is that now she has the blonde child she wanted from the beginning Rex and Rose will become red heads, seemingly overnight.
 
Louber said:
God she's a dose of shite 🙄 so she dropped the foal then, neeeiiiggggghhhhhh!!!!!! It probs flew out alright.... like a little money-making pegasus 💸💸

Anyway...

I get that she has zero sensitivity towards anyones feelings. She has proven that time and time again. But God she really is so tone deaf with the over sharing 😬

I had 3 kids, very fortunate that we had no struggles and everything went well. My 1st was a little surprise in our early 20s and then over the years we added 2 more. That should have been the end of it. 3 kids, no troubles, financially just about doable, delighted! When no 3 was very little we had another wee surprise.... actually huuge bleeping shock 😲 and now have 2 babies just over a year apart. Life is bloody nuts, most days I haven't time to scratch my arse tbh.. it's both joyous and very bleeping hard all.the.time my relationship with my husband has suffered as he finds it intensely stressful with so many demands on us all the time. Our toddler is gorgeous, brilliant but intense as duck and has some minor medical needs that require some extra attention and adds to the general upset and emotional unpredictability that toddlers bring. It's so full on and I sometimes find myself being swallowed up by life as a mom.

I have a couple of good friends who are struggling to conceive or struggling to maintain a pregnancy. No matter how hard it is or how in love I am, I water that tit waaay down. They deserve a bit of protection. Their only desire is to be pregnant/have a baby. Like it is all consuming. I have other friends who I can be honest with, I don't bemoan how no4 is my last baby and everytime I put the little clothes away, a part of me feels sad, or how when I'm up breastfeeding at night, I'm not even that bothered by being woken up, I just feel aware that this doesn't last long, they won't need me in this way for very long more. I'm aware of how bleeping unbelievably lucky we are to have 4 kids who are all ok.

Stacey just shut the duck up, legs AND mouth this time please. She is like a chronic yeast infection......no getting rid of her

How much of an attention seeking, money grabbing, selfish bleep does she have to be to monetise everyone her rot box unveils!?
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you sound lovely ❤️ it all sounds full on for you so I hope you’re not bottling things up IRL and do have people to speak to, but your compassion for your friends who are struggling is spot on xx
 
Louber said:
God she's a dose of shite 🙄 so she dropped the foal then, neeeiiiggggghhhhhh!!!!!! It probs flew out alright.... like a little money-making pegasus 💸💸

Anyway...

I get that she has zero sensitivity towards anyones feelings. She has proven that time and time again. But God she really is so tone deaf with the over sharing 😬

I had 3 kids, very fortunate that we had no struggles and everything went well. My 1st was a little surprise in our early 20s and then over the years we added 2 more. That should have been the end of it. 3 kids, no troubles, financially just about doable, delighted! When no 3 was very little we had another wee surprise.... actually huuge bleeping shock 😲 and now have 2 babies just over a year apart. Life is bloody nuts, most days I haven't time to scratch my arse tbh.. it's both joyous and very bleeping hard all.the.time my relationship with my husband has suffered as he finds it intensely stressful with so many demands on us all the time. Our toddler is gorgeous, brilliant but intense as duck and has some minor medical needs that require some extra attention and adds to the general upset and emotional unpredictability that toddlers bring. It's so full on and I sometimes find myself being swallowed up by life as a mom.

I have a couple of good friends who are struggling to conceive or struggling to maintain a pregnancy. No matter how hard it is or how in love I am, I water that tit waaay down. They deserve a bit of protection. Their only desire is to be pregnant/have a baby. Like it is all consuming. I have other friends who I can be honest with, I don't bemoan how no4 is my last baby and everytime I put the little clothes away, a part of me feels sad, or how when I'm up breastfeeding at night, I'm not even that bothered by being woken up, I just feel aware that this doesn't last long, they won't need me in this way for very long more. I'm aware of how bleeping unbelievably lucky we are to have 4 kids who are all ok.

Stacey just shut the duck up, legs AND mouth this time please. She is like a chronic yeast infection......no getting rid of her

How much of an attention seeking, money grabbing, selfish bleep does she have to be to monetise everyone her rot box unveils!?
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I just scrolled though her Instagram there, it really is obscene in a way. Constant exposed bump pictures, like way more than any person would ever need to post surely!?
It just comes across as vulger and insensitive.

She has 6 kids, not everyone is so lucky, and yeah she should be able to share her good news etc. but there is sharing and then ramming it down peoples throats without a care for how you make others feel.

I strongly urge people who follow her to unfollow her. She has an open profile (mind boggling with all the children pictures she posts) so you don't have to follow her to see anything she posts.
 
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