Sophie Milner #5 A forehead reduction, abdominal liposuction, loads of fake tan and a brand new man!

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"normalise not knowing what you want in your thirties"

oh grow up!

I'm all for choosing not to get married, have kids, buy property, work the 9-5 if that's not what you want - but at least know that it's not. Even if what you want changes over time - fine. But to just drift on through never knowing what you want??
 
Elouise92 said:
I’m really bored of this ‘societal expectations’ lark. As a 31 year old in 2023, I have literally never felt ‘societal pressure’ to get married, have kids, buy a house, whatever. Like where is this supposed pressure coming from?
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I dunno, I definitely think it’s a thing. Relatives asking if you’re seeing someone/if you’re seeing someone if it’s serious/if it’s serious when you’re going to get married. People you work with asking when you’re planning on having kids the minute you get married. Tik Tok trends about engagements, bridesmaid proposals, weddings. It’s everywhere - but, I would say right now it’s equally popular to be like I’m going to do things in my own time, women giving birth later, nonconformity with regards to sexuality and relationships… I feel like she’s putting the pressure on herself because she probably thought she’d be in a much different place and is making a big deal of bucking the trend.
 
Lilliepad said:
I dunno, I definitely think it’s a thing. Relatives asking if you’re seeing someone/if you’re seeing someone if it’s serious/if it’s serious when you’re going to get married. People you work with asking when you’re planning on having kids the minute you get married. Tik Tok trends about engagements, bridesmaid proposals, weddings. It’s everywhere - but, I would say right now it’s equally popular to be like I’m going to do things in my own time, women giving birth later, nonconformity with regards to sexuality and relationships… I feel like she’s putting the pressure on herself because she probably thought she’d be in a much different place and is making a big deal of bucking the trend.
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This is spot on. She definitely thought she would be in a different place in her life right now, I actually don’t believe she doesn’t want to get married for one second. She loves external validation, attention etc so I can’t see her saying no if she has a long term bf who pulled out a big old rock.

Also I swear the saying is normally don’t worry if you don’t have it figured out in your twenties. Which makes sense as you’re learning about yourself at that time.Thirties give you the confidence to make those decisions about your life, whether you stick to that direction or make changes.

TLDR: Sophie is an idiot
 
KarenOG said:
This is spot on. She definitely thought she would be in a different place in her life right now, I actually don’t believe she doesn’t want to get married for one second. She loves external validation, attention etc so I can’t see her saying no if she has a long term bf who pulled out a big old rock.

Also I swear the saying is normally don’t worry if you don’t have it figured out in your twenties. Which makes sense as you’re learning about yourself at that time.Thirties give you the confidence to make those decisions about your life, whether you stick to that direction or make changes.

TLDR: Sophie is an idiot
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She wasn’t single for long after Jimmy, she started using “we” with Hayden very, very early on and that’s all ok, but I think she needs to be true to herself and own that she would love to me married/in a stable relationship but instead she’s trying too hard to play the card of “independent single female”. The whole kids thing- thank god for the child- imagine her talking her of a child! She can’t even do her own laundry, keep her apartment tidy and clean or take care of Henny!!

I feel sad for her at times, she’s trying too much and too hard to convince herself (and at times gaslighting herself) to be someone else.
It’s ok to not have a massive group of friends, it’s ok to love to spend money on materialistic things, it’s ok to be unhappy being single…just own up to it, but instead she’s pretending to be some solo travel, positive girlie when she really is just bitter.
 
it’s not been changed?! said:
Why Sophie spring to mind when this came up in my fyp.
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YES!!!! And we know she’s reported some before- what an asshole move. Just ignore and move on, BUT this video is sooooooo Sophie!!! I can say I am attractive (not in a bragging or arrogant way, but I know I’m alright) and I haven’t experienced half the cat calling in my life she apparently has in the last year alone! She’s a typical crazy girl and it’s just getting worse. She needs to humble herself.
 
The snip of her podcast talking about her views as an 18 year old that it’s embarrassing to be seen in a wedding dress when your 30 so you need to be married before.

I can’t bring myself to listen to her podcast to listen to the context, but it just shows how judgy Sophie has always been. Like most people at 18 might think they need to hit certain milestones before 18, but not because it’s embarrassing because you’ll look too old in a wedding dress at 30.
 
KarenOG said:
The snip of her podcast talking about her views as an 18 year old that it’s embarrassing to be seen in a wedding dress when your 30 so you need to be married before.

I can’t bring myself to listen to her podcast to listen to the context, but it just shows how judgy Sophie has always been. Like most people at 18 might think they need to hit certain milestones before 18, but not because it’s embarrassing because you’ll look too old in a wedding dress at 30.
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I came here for exactly THIS! I cannot bring myself to listen to all of it, but OMG does this seem so pulled out of her ass (maybe her sumo bikini is stuck).
This said- how sad to see she’s clearly not the only one who thinks this way, but misery loves company.

No wonder her self worth is so low. I can’t help out want to shake her and wake her up. You’re 32, stop pretending, stop comparing, stop trying to keep up with others because that’s all she does.

I’m 100% sure she was the reason for the breakup, otherwise we would have heard all about it.
 
KarenOG said:
The snip of her podcast talking about her views as an 18 year old that it’s embarrassing to be seen in a wedding dress when your 30 so you need to be married before.

I can’t bring myself to listen to her podcast to listen to the context, but it just shows how judgy Sophie has always been. Like most people at 18 might think they need to hit certain milestones before 18, but not because it’s embarrassing because you’ll look too old in a wedding dress at 30.
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Reeks of self-hatred like everything else she does, she absolutely hates that she’s aging (32 is still so young??) so she overcompensates by making it her whole personality trait to be going against the brain. Sure because Amal Clooney, Meghan Markle, jLo, Priyanka Jonas all washed up crusty brides lol
 
I don’t like the way she talks about the cat calling but in certain areas it can be really bad and very upsetting. I am very average looking and have lived in a few areas of London and two other major cities, living in Wandsworth (not far from where Sophie lives) it was pretty bad but living in Ealing I was scared to walk down certain streets alone, I even had to contact the local councillor. The other areas I’ve lived it really hasn’t been an issue. It can be a very intimidating experience, but she is 100% using it for clout.
 
hmsizzle said:
I don’t like the way she talks about the cat calling but in certain areas it can be really bad and very upsetting. I am very average looking and have lived in a few areas of London and two other major cities, living in Wandsworth (not far from where Sophie lives) it was pretty bad but living in Ealing I was scared to walk down certain streets alone, I even had to contact the local councillor. The other areas I’ve lived it really hasn’t been an issue. It can be a very intimidating experience, but she is 100% using it for clout.
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You’re right and i don’t think any woman would be dismissing that it’s a horrible and uncomfortable experience, but you’re also right and she’s using it to get attention and also- it happens to EVERY woman, she thinks she’s special and is going the extra mile to make it into something way bigger than it probably is.
Those 19 year old boys she’s saying are hitting on her are probably some college guys just being stupid, her matcha drink was 100% not sent by someone 🤣🤪
 
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