Sophie Guidolin #7

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MummaS22 said:
My brother went off the rails. I saw my Mum struggle, however he always came first. She would never post about his struggles in such a public setting. Also 15 is a little different to 18. There is alot more power to control a 15 year old.
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My son was 15yo when it happened to us and there’s not much at all you can do. They can move out, leave home and all the police will do is a welfare check. Parents have literally no power, the police even told me so.
Thankfully for my son it didn’t involve anything like what seems to be happening with Kai.

I don’t agree with how she’s handled some things when it comes to Kai, I just said in this instance I don’t want to judge as from experience I know sometimes you do have to ‘give up’ a little/in a sense (I don’t mean fully give up on your kid) to protect yourself because they can be awful little creatures at that age and you also need to protect siblings from their self destruct mode as well.

As I said, don’t agree with it all, just not judging this instance
 
I won't cast judgement on parents of teens who do go off the rails. As it can happen to anyone but the difference is her and what she's done over the last year. For example who was looking after the kids when they got shipped back from America in the middle of the trip and then on her very long trip go Europe. I came from a bad home myself with no rules or supervision, neglect etc and like clockwork was using hard drugs, drank excessively, getting arrested etc by his age. Out of all of it the biggest takeaway was just genuinely feeling like I didn't have a place in the world and belong. I can 100% see this play out in families who play parent 2.0 and have replacement kids every few years and dispose of the rest. You would hope he could have gone to Nath but I wonder has Nath kind of abandoned them too?
 
AllTheNamesWereTaken said:
My son was 15yo when it happened to us and there’s not much at all you can do. They can move out, leave home and all the police will do is a welfare check. Parents have literally no power, the police even told me so.
Thankfully for my son it didn’t involve anything like what seems to be happening with Kai.

I don’t agree with how she’s handled some things when it comes to Kai, I just said in this instance I don’t want to judge as from experience I know sometimes you do have to ‘give up’ a little/in a sense (I don’t mean fully give up on your kid) to protect yourself because they can be awful little creatures at that age and you also need to protect siblings from their self destruct mode as well.

As I said, don’t agree with it all, just not judging this instance
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This is fascinating. I’m not in Australia so I’m not familiar with the laws. Is 15 the age that parents are no longer legally responsible for their children’s safety? Where I am it’s 18.
 
I think this has been behaviours in the works that she has not addressed . The time she did that live and Kai was a rude little prick to someone asking a question , they all just giggled and Loaphie just acted suprised . If that was my kid he would have been reprimanded on the live and made to send the follower an apology , directly . That’s not to mention a consequence to that kind of behaviour behind closed doors , be it earning their phone back after confiscating it etc . If he acted like that on a live then I could only imagine what he was like in person . The fact she has been off living her life the past 2+ years , always out , rarely seen with kids , men after men after men in and out of their lives. Being introduced to the penty in an area that would have been like going to Hollywood for them with very little supervision, especially the last year . In a home where the two parenting styles were completely different . Any wonder there is trouble in paradise. You can guarantee this is 80% his mothers damage shining through and 20% him being one of them teens that gets a taste of independence and runs with it .
 
EveryDaysASoulDay said:
This is fascinating. I’m not in Australia so I’m not familiar with the laws. Is 15 the age that parents are no longer legally responsible for their children’s safety? Where I am it’s 18.
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You’re still legally responsible for them but you have no rights.
From about 14yo onwards they are classed as mature minors and can make their own decisions, even on where to live and parents can’t do much at all.
As I said, the police will do a welfare check but can’t force them to come home.
The police even told me I could ‘force’ (go there, demand etc, not physical) him to come home but he could report me for abuse.
It’s ridiculous!
 
LNDR said:
Oh wow 🥺 That is freaking heartbreaking 💔. This is a child who like a year ago still had a 7pm bedtime and flipped his grades around when he tried really hard to strive for a A.

For a mother who waxes on and on about how important the “imprint” years are and what an expert on child relationships she is, she has completely dropped the ball with him here. How on earth can she prioritise GETTING MARRIED and showcasing her new marriage and pregnancy annnouncement after just months into yet another new relationship whilst her first born is spiraling 🥺.

Yes I know kids can all go off the rails, even from the best homes. But are their mothers taking them from their home and sisters and stable father figure to marry their latest boyfriend after only MONTHS. She has seemingly abandoned 3/4 of her kids. Oh this is just devastating 🥺.
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I am hearing this.
Whilst I vaguely agree that kids from the best homes can go off the rails, I also feel like from experience with peers, the best families reign that in pretty quickly and don't let it ruin their lives in any regard.

A friend of mine growing up was the son of two doctors, he was found by police breaking into a car and that ended his 8 or so months of wild 17 year old behaviour. He got a record but his parents intervened at that point very heavily and he went on to become an ED-managing RN.

I'm sure we all have acquaintances with stories that end well and some that end poorly... drugs, violence, criminal records, jail time and a lifetime of struggle.

I've heard of loving, great parents losing sleep over their kids behaviour. Literally unable to sleep worrying about their kids safety and life trajectory. Feeling despair, losing weight themselves with worry, unable to hold down their jobs due to the stress.

But here she is... Falling in lust, planning a wedding, floating around the penty, getting work done to her physical appearance, interviewing magazines, continuing to put hours into her SM, asking random QandAs about behaviour, and conceiving a baby.

Thus, I find it hard to believe she is currently investing anything into learning how to support him to get him back on track to lead a positive, independent life.
 
What's insane is that every night in multiple cars are broken into and stolen in casuarina... he'd know they're all millionaires down there... LOL is that why she's left casuarina???
 
hehheh said:
I am hearing this.
Whilst I vaguely agree that kids from the best homes can go off the rails, I also feel like from experience with peers, the best families reign that in pretty quickly and don't let it ruin their lives in any regard.

A friend of mine growing up was the son of two doctors, he was found by police breaking into a car and that ended his 8 or so months of wild 17 year old behaviour. He got a record but his parents intervened at that point very heavily and he went on to become an ED-managing RN.

I'm sure we all have acquaintances with stories that end well and some that end poorly... drugs, violence, criminal records, jail time and a lifetime of struggle.

I've heard of loving, great parents losing sleep over their kids behaviour. Literally unable to sleep worrying about their kids safety and life trajectory. Feeling despair, losing weight themselves with worry, unable to hold down their jobs due to the stress.

But here she is... Falling in lust, planning a wedding, floating around the penty, getting work done to her physical appearance, interviewing magazines, continuing to put hours into her SM, asking random QandAs about behaviour, and conceiving a baby.

Thus, I find it hard to believe she is currently investing anything into learning how to support him to get him back on track to lead a positive, independent life.
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This 🙌 And if she’s not careful, it’ll only be a matter of time before Ryder is up to no good as well.
 
Ironic that Sophie's son is sexualising girls bodies, after all those times over the years that Sophie has stated, and at times gone off at followers, that by being 'comfortable' with her own body and allowing her kids to see her exactly the way she promotes herself (hiding nothing), her kids are being taught not to think of women's body parts sexually. Now Kai is sharing pics of girls posing just like his mother does, except it's entirely sexual and inappropriate at 15. Not modelling for a shoot or down at the beach in a bikini. I'd be outraged if it were my son. Like I've said previously, my mum used to go out driving around in her nightie in the middle of the night to drag my brother home. She didn't care if he hated her for a while if it saved him from doing something that could ruin his life. Years later he thanked her for the things she did. He said he knew it meant she loved him and he thinks he would have gone down a much worse path if she hadn't. That time time of her life was consumed with sleeplessness and anxiety. Sophie seems to be waiting for someone else to fix it for her.
 
therealsmilf said:
We've literally seen her put her children last over and over the last 2-3 years. She's moved him away from his sister's, father (step or not), family home. She's spent weeks away from all her children on fancy holidays. Kai was humiliated over the bikini birthday post, she chose to go ahead with her wedding (and another baby) without him. Maybe Kai was going to go off the rails anyway but her parenting and crappy behaviour has absolutely not helped and probably contributed.
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This! 💯💯 I don’t normally judge the parents when it comes to teenagers but comeee on
 
papi’s mistress said:
Someone’s been reading here today! In between all of her interviews today. Glad she found the time. Love her addressing social media being a bad place yet again and also… her vitiligo which was discussed here a few pages back
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Yes us ‘trolls’ are evil didn’t you know?!
It’s her choice to read here.
 

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Bopip said:
Ironic that Sophie's son is sexualising girls bodies, after all those times over the years that Sophie has stated, and at times gone off at followers, that by being 'comfortable' with her own body and allowing her kids to see her exactly the way she promotes herself (hiding nothing), her kids are being taught not to think of women's body parts sexually. Now Kai is sharing pics of girls posing just like his mother does, except it's entirely sexual and inappropriate at 15. Not modelling for a shoot or down at the beach in a bikini. I'd be outraged if it were my son. Like I've said previously, my mum used to go out driving around in her nightie in the middle of the night to drag my brother home. She didn't care if he hated her for a while if it saved him from doing something that could ruin his life. Years later he thanked her for the things she did. He said he knew it meant she loved him and he thinks he would have gone down a much worse path if she hadn't. That time time of her life was consumed with sleeplessness and anxiety. Sophie seems to be waiting for someone else to fix it for her.
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Also ironic that she never reads here or what she claims to be “ nasty comments” yet Kai has made that insta private now 😂 she seems more concerned about making out her life is perfect than the tit her son is getting up to . Can’t sell $700 courses when your kid is as much of a train wreck as you
 
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