It's just like be real, why either lie or be sneaky. I get not wanting to showcase everything til you know it's serious, but just a hint or I'm seeing someone but we're seeing how it goes no pressure would do the job, rather than screaming eww boys, eww marriage, eww kissing, playing hard to get.
I still can't get over, they expect people to be vulnerable and honest for the sake of their podcast and its the basis of their podcast dilemmas, making them money, yet we don't know much about their dating life etc, it's so hush hush. After all these years you'd think they'd want to open up to the very people that put them in privileged positions.
Like we don't really even know these girls, well these days because they are even more closed off about things or just don't open up even if it's just a bit. Even if it's not deep, things about them and their interests of opinions about life matters would be far more interesting then what we get now.