geminigossiper99
Chatty Member
The boobs thing I mean whatever… they can’t help having saggy boobs, I for one would feel uncomfortable with them hanging out and would think they look ugly, but when we unpack it, is that simply because society has told me they look unattractive? But then the other side is, it most likely is to do with the male gaze, perkier boobs are seen as more attractive as are wider hips due to fertility blah blah…
as for Lidia being chubby- I think she is. It’s not that deep. Some people may also describe me as chubby.I look slimmer than her and I’m also taller & my BMI says I’m v overweight lmao such is life, it’s up to you how you interpret the word ‘chubby’- it doesn’t have to be derogatory. Much less harsh than ‘medically over the recommended weight for her height and age’ hahahahahah
But isn’t it obvious that’s she’s very insecure? She edits her pictures to make her look 2 sizes smaller, she obviously has a problem with her weight if she wants everyone to think she’s a lot skinnier than she is. For you, something might not be that deep but when you’ve struggled with eating problems or eating disorders like my self, the word chubby to me is very triggering as I wouldn’t want anyone to perceive me as ‘chubby’ it’s just about being mindful that she’s a young girl who obviously has problems and to call her chubby I could imagine she would really be hurt. I’m by no means saying you’ve never struggled with ED’s or anything, I’m just speaking from a personal experience. Something you might not find a big deal could be someone’s huge insecurity