Snapshoteye #9 Situation ongoing

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I never saw the live (only the end clip where I panicked) but thanks @Gemgem88. The thing is Paul is an absolute slug and so transparent, but whenever my ex claimed that he was going to kill himself id just ring the police. Everytime. Police and crisis would turn up at his door and his parents would be furious. I told the police he broke up with his girlfriend.
 
Theonethatgotaway said:
A small snippet.. this is after Paul said he wants to end his l!fe
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Oh I am sorry, piss off Paul piss off RIGHT NOW.

“I am too soft and naive for this world” DELETE THE PISSING APP!!! What the hell did he do before social media? He seriously needs to wake the f up and stop being so bloody dramatic. I am sick to death of hearing him making himself out to be the victim all the time. He needs to open up his small beady eyes, take responsibility for ALL the wrong he has done and already been called out for rather than spinning a huge web of lies to sound like the victim who does no wrong!!

You know who are really naive ham man?

Vulnerable women. The type of woman YOU pry on.

Underage or girls far too young for you. The type of girls YOU have had relationships with, have been messaging, and liking photos of on Instagram…and even had a bloody child with.

So don’t even start about you being too soft or naive, you’re literally 41 and talk about wanting to roll down a hill and eat bloody chocolate for breakfast. You’re going to more than likely get ripped a new one for that, and then your creepy/pervy behaviour.

You’re not innocent. You’re not a victim. You’re not poor Paul with the world against him.

You’re an ADULT, with a CHILD who makes mistake after mistake after mistake and you refuse to take ANY responsibility for your actions at your big age. And tbh I don’t even think they’re mistakes, you know exactly what you’re doing.

Sort yourself out and get yourself some help, you are making things hard for yourself for attention.
 
Summernights said:
Exactly this, those who are seriously sewicidul don’t shout about it before doing it
@nurseren did the right thing though
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She definitely has, he needs help, I just know he isn’t there… yet. I’m not fully caught up

TheycallmeCoco said:
It’s really both concerning and disturbing how he brought up someone’s miscarriage, like that is some sort of ammunition to use against someone. As someone who has experienced 4 losses, I’m appalled😣
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If he said that he can honestly go duck himself.

What a disgusting, heartless, narcissistic human
 
Gemgem88 said:
I’ll carry on…

I have to type something to post…
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Im usually a really understanding person and will listen to anyone’s story but what he was doing in that live is blaming others for his own actions he’s threatening to “disappear” so others feel guilty for things he has caused himself but please to anyone on this thread don’t apologise or feel bad for feeling sorry for him in any way it’s unfortunately how he is he can draw people in and make them feel sorry for him it’s a huge part of narcissism and gaslighting. I dated a narcissist and he would also threaten to hurt himself the exact same way Paul does and if he did ever hurt himself he would point me as blame especially if we had argued I would that feel terrible (even though he was 100% in the wrong and playing awful mind games) that I would cave in and apologise and try to do everything I can to make him “feel better”

police being called is perfect because he does clearly need help he needs to see professionals
 
@nurseren you did the right thing. Tbh we all know he’s calling bullshit, but having the police show up to his door should should give him a taste of reality that he can’t just say and do what he wants on social media.
He undeactived his TikTok just to go live to say he’s naive and all that poor me bullshit, for what? He never even spoke to anyone. So then went to Instagram to get attention from those who are up his arse. If social media is making you feel so bad, come of it?
His dad needs to slap him on his big boiled ham head.
 
ownitbabs said:
@nurseren
His dad needs to slap him on his big boiled ham head.
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To be fair, his dad is probably totally out of his depth with the situation, if he even knows what's going on. He's more than likely in his late 60s, not tech/SM savvy and unaware that Paul is talking to hundreds of strangers via his screen. Paul always sneaks away to do it....bathroom, bedroom, out on a walk(and even when he went live in the car he was in the back seat)...clams up the minute his dad walks in. In effect, Paul is making his dad into another victim of his manipulative behaviour.
 
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