Siobh.Ohagan #18 Hot girl summer was not to be, wasted my money waxing me gee!

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forthegawk said:
I’ve been meaning to mention this for a while, and apologies if it’s been discussed, but I think it’s important to point out that she gets her bread and eggs in Gails in the morning… she doesn’t even boil her own bleeping eggs.
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Does she not boil the eggs? What about egg gate...... when she only had one egg left & was going to throw it out because she has to have two eggs (but then how did she end up with one? Can any mathletes help?)
 
Her treating her Friday like a Tuesday lasted well didn’t it? Honestly I couldn’t give a tit how anyone spends their time but it’s the constant contradictions, they drive me mental. Why bother saying anything? Oh I’m going to be healthy and treat today like a midweek day, get loads done, eat right and train etc and she’s on the piss already 😂 if she was my friend I’d be concerned, she seems to have no willpower whatsoever. You could also argue that she can be healthy and socialise like she could meet her friends for dinner and not drink but that never seems to be the case and again if you want to go have a few that’s grand, but stop with the fitness bullshit then because the two do not go hand in hand.
I’m not saying fitness people can’t enjoy themselves but she’s constantly at it and there’s no discipline. I honestly think she only has these healthy moments and rants etc about training because that’s what the likes of James and Diren and Fliss do. You can dislike them for whatever reason but they do actually prioritise their businesses and make money from them and actually live that lifestyle. They show balance rather than shivs binges.

I understand going with the flow and all but what’s her plan like what’s her goal? Get back to Bali and live alone and do the same thing every day again? I just don’t see the point, she weirdly lives the same lifestyle in different climates, literally zero adjustments/additions and sees nothing wrong with it? Like when you compare London to Bali you’d think your day to day would be poles apart.
this might sound incredibly closed minded but I couldn’t be 33 and not have a plan or direction my life is going in, she seems aimless atm and just existing in different countries and for what? Still alone, no meaningful relationships of any sort, she can allegedly work from anywhere and admits she only works an hour or two a day? What’s the point
 
Gossipgurlll5 said:
Her treating her Friday like a Tuesday lasted well didn’t it? Honestly I couldn’t give a tit how anyone spends their time but it’s the constant contradictions, they drive me mental. Why bother saying anything? Oh I’m going to be healthy and treat today like a midweek day, get loads done, eat right and train etc and she’s on the piss already 😂 if she was my friend I’d be concerned, she seems to have no willpower whatsoever. You could also argue that she can be healthy and socialise like she could meet her friends for dinner and not drink but that never seems to be the case and again if you want to go have a few that’s grand, but stop with the fitness bullshit then because the two do not go hand in hand.
I’m not saying fitness people can’t enjoy themselves but she’s constantly at it and there’s no discipline. I honestly think she only has these healthy moments and rants etc about training because that’s what the likes of James and Diren and Fliss do. You can dislike them for whatever reason but they do actually prioritise their businesses and make money from them and actually live that lifestyle. They show balance rather than shivs binges.

I understand going with the flow and all but what’s her plan like what’s her goal? Get back to Bali and live alone and do the same thing every day again? I just don’t see the point, she weirdly lives the same lifestyle in different climates, literally zero adjustments/additions and sees nothing wrong with it? Like when you compare London to Bali you’d think your day to day would be poles apart.
this might sound incredibly closed minded but I couldn’t be 33 and not have a plan or direction my life is going in, she seems aimless atm and just existing in different countries and for what? Still alone, no meaningful relationships of any sort, she can allegedly work from anywhere and admits she only works an hour or two a day? What’s the point
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This 🙌
She does feck all work, "2 hours a day", money to spare because she throws her money away on first class flights. She can "work" anywhere in the world but goes to the same places & does the same things EVERYDAY, yet she talks like she's some amazing nomad living her best life exploring the world, Croatia for example, she's been to Split before, could she not go to a different part somewhere more remote somewhere "different" after all she does live dIfFeReNtLY

Harping on about no kids or partner holding her back, back from what I get up early go to the gym before my kids wake, I work 9-5, amazingly manage to eat somewhat healthy & keep the house clean YET this muppet with no kids, partner or 9-5 cannot keep her apartment clean, cannot wash regularly & cannot go exploring the world, solo travelling my arse. I'd actually love the opportunity, that's what wrecks my head most, love my kiddos to bits but REALLY wish I'd travelled more before I had them, I know people can travel with kids, but with my job & in particular my husbands job (frontline) we just couldn't go right so feck this we are going to the Swiss alps (bucket list destination for me) or back packing around Asia, she's a waster
 
Hairylairy said:
This 🙌
She does feck all work, "2 hours a day", money to spare because she throws her money away on first class flights. She can "work" anywhere in the world but goes to the same places & does the same things EVERYDAY, yet she talks like she's some amazing nomad living her best life exploring the world, Croatia for example, she's been to Split before, could she not go to a different part somewhere more remote somewhere "different" after all she does live dIfFeReNtLY

Harping on about no kids or partner holding her back, back from what I get up early go to the gym before my kids wake, I work 9-5, amazingly manage to eat somewhat healthy & keep the house clean YET this muppet with no kids, partner or 9-5 cannot keep her apartment clean, cannot wash regularly & cannot go exploring the world, solo travelling my arse. I'd actually love the opportunity, that's what wrecks my head most, love my kiddos to bits but REALLY wish I'd travelled more before I had them, I know people can travel with kids, but with my job & in particular my husbands job (frontline) we just couldn't go right so feck this we are going to the Swiss alps (bucket list destination for me) or back packing around Asia, she's a waster
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I don’t have kids yet but I completely agree with what you’ve said. I am well aware of the different freedoms I have compared to my friends who do have kids but on top of that Shiv has financial freedom (so she would have us believe) and she has the freedom of working remotely yet it seems so wasted.

All these places she goes to but what does she actually see? What does she actually do? There’s so much more to Bali than the expat hive of Canggu 😭 Granted she saw more of Croatia but that’s only cos she’s on a 25K step minimum a a day mission.

Sure she says she’s committed to fitness and Bjj but I’m sure there’s so many more exciting opportunities to explore fitness around the world - jungle gym in Tulum is one that comes to mind off the top of my head.

We are on lockdown still here in Bangkok and I am just itching to get on a train or a boat to explore some of the places I haven’t seen yet.
And it got me thinking the U.K. is so well connected for travel, she could be exploring a different city every weekend with a nationwide gym membership like Pure Gym or Virgin Active (if she has to keep up appearances) and ensure she still gets her fitness.

I’m not fully up to speed with restrictions in the U.K. now but as a PT she could be organising a meet and greet (LOL I’m laughing at the suggestion too) or workouts in the park ala Joe Wicks and even charge a bit for it.
She could be doing outdoor lives in places around the U.K. showing that you don’t always need the best gyms to work out in. She could be doing a walk from one end of the country to another, like the novel “Wild” style.

There’s so much she could be doing to build her brand or even just sort her head out. She’s got the following which is the hard part, she’s got some sense of social media and making content . Again, it just seems like it’s all so wasted.

I can only conclude she is either shitting money and so she doesn’t need to entertain the idea of additional income or she really is just lazy and couldn’t give a duck.

I know sometimes the time isn’t right or your mindset isn’t right, I’ve certainly overcome that recently but this has to be going on 2 years now of the same content but getting progressively worse?
 
If you think about it she actually doesn’t post any fitness content either? All she does is show us a two min snippet of a workout she’s done, not one you could even copy or do yourself really, and then pics of what she eats? Instagram is her equivalent of a diary like she literally just tells us what she does every day (feck all) and the odd furnace add, that’s it? How can she call herself an athlete or her account a fitness account? Not only does she not show us any sort of fitness content worth watching, the nutrition side is a joke. Fair enough she has some socialising posts on it that aren’t going to be health conscious cause that’s real life but they’re all her getting hammered or her firing through a dominoes regularly.
I honestly think if she had a good friend or someone to talk to she wouldn’t post half as much rubbish as she does because it’s all mundane things you’d chat about with a friend like what she did this morning and what she had for lunch and what book she recommends etc 🙄😂
 
She lives a less exciting life than people that have kids. No doubt about it.

She distinguishes her higher self from people that have kids by midweek and middle of the day drinking. Thats about all I can think of.

People with kids travel, go to the gym, eat out, attend events. They have a full and wholesome life. Not a vacuous pit of non purpose and that makes them happy.

I'm posting this as someone with no kids (yet) but many of my friends have and they have wonderful lives creating wonderful memories.
 
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