I agree with your points here! I didn’t say this place makes mums feel bad. I said overall it’s been the perfect antidote and a much needed reality check and that you make new mum’s feel GOOD (whether it’s intentional or not, you do)
said sometimes I feel the mum guilt creeping in when certain things get pointed out and I’m like oooh
tit I do that too. But I keep coming back so ive obv decided the good Outweighs the bad! .
And there was no “causes” to my musings, it’s been strange being a silent observer of a community for years (think I started reading well before I made that account) and never offer any thoughts. I’ll see myself out