Simone Anderson #3 Orange is the New Beige

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Those long heartfelt messages: IMO, they're done by people really insecure in their relationship and they're trying to overcompensate and make you believe it's amazing when really it's tit.

Never, in my 15 year marriage have I felt the need to profess my undying love for my husband. To his face, or on social media. We're secure enough to know how we feel without the constant lovebombing and OTT affection.
 
chipolatesandwich said:
And super over the top. I call bullshit on absolutely any relationship where they claim they never snap, have disagreements, argue and that everything is a perfect little fairy tale. It never is. She’s love bombing, which a lot of guilty narcissists do.
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errr they fight like cats and dogs. Apparently On their Bali trip after engaged they almost broke up a friend that went on the trip said. Massive fighting. Lives are a lie.
 
Okelydokely said:
Those long heartfelt messages: IMO, they're done by people really insecure in their relationship and they're trying to overcompensate and make you believe it's amazing when really it's tit.

Never, in my 15 year marriage have I felt the need to profess my undying love for my husband. To his face, or on social media. We're secure enough to know how we feel without the constant lovebombing and OTT affection.
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100% this!!

my ex’s current girlfriend proclaims how amazing he is alllll the time, constantly posting… whilst everyone else knows he’s a cheating scoundral
Okelydokely said:
Those long heartfelt messages: IMO, they're done by people really insecure in their relationship and they're trying to overcompensate and make you believe it's amazing when really it's tit.

Never, in my 15 year marriage have I felt the need to profess my undying love for my husband. To his face, or on social media. We're secure enough to know how we feel without the constant lovebombing and OTT affection.
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goodgirl2244 said:
errr they fight like cats and dogs. Apparently On their Bali trip after engaged they almost broke up a friend that went on the trip said. Massive fighting. Lives are a lie.
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100% to both of these

the over the top posts are just a mental Band-Aid to convince themselves that everything is grand.

my ex’s current girlfriend does this, constantly posting about their relationship is and how amazing it is, and how awesome he is, but I know (and friends know) he treats her like tit and cheats on her regularly (she just chooses to be blind to the warning signs).
 
Okelydokely said:
Those long heartfelt messages: IMO, they're done by people really insecure in their relationship and they're trying to overcompensate and make you believe it's amazing when really it's tit.

Never, in my 15 year marriage have I felt the need to profess my undying love for my husband. To his face, or on social media. We're secure enough to know how we feel without the constant lovebombing and OTT affection.
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Omg yes all of this! My hubby and I have been together 18 years married 11, and if I posted something like that he would be so embarrassed! As would I if he did that to me.

Come to think of it have we seen Trent at all lately other than at the party?
 
Blardeblarblar said:
Omg yes all of this! My hubby and I have been together 18 years married 11, and if I posted something like that he would be so embarrassed! As would I if he did that to me.

Come to think of it have we seen Trent at all lately other than at the party?
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Just swimming today - but that could have been an old video…
 
goodgirl2244 said:
errr they fight like cats and dogs. Apparently On their Bali trip after engaged they almost broke up a friend that went on the trip said. Massive fighting. Lives are a lie.
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Oh I’ve heard this too and that apparently she biffed her ring in the pool!

it’s normal for couples to argue to some degree, it’s life. Her perfect act is more transparent than a roll of gladwrap
 
tryharder said:
I think you’ve explained well what you were trying to say and people should perhaps just accept that and leave it alone now.
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I didn’t find it was explained well at all, hence me asking for clarification.
I’m not sure how to say it’s not up to you to declare that people should accept it and leave it alone because we aren’t supposed to police other members and me saying that is policing you policing other members? It’s confusing 🤔

sausagefingertrent said:
Yes!! I’ve just emailed admin. I feel terrible. One of those ones where I didn’t actually “think” before I posted🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🙄🙄
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I think a moderator or admin will need to edit or delete posts because there are several that quote my reply to you and I don’t think any of us can delete them ourselves.
 
usemycode said:
I didn’t find it was explained well at all, hence me asking for clarification.
I’m not sure how to say it’s not up to you to declare that people should accept it and leave it alone because we aren’t supposed to police other members and me saying that is policing you policing other members? It’s confusing 🤔


I think a moderator or admin will need to edit or delete posts because there are several that quote my reply to you and I don’t think any of us can delete them ourselves.
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CW was a bad example to compare against….poor form on my behalf. Just the fact he was shy and disliked the camera all the time and SW portraited this amazing relationship a bit like SA. Again, very poor choice to compare against, I get it, I acknowledge it hence why I reported my comment as soon as I realised what a dick move🤦🏻‍♀️
 
Yeah I don’t buy her “perfect act” at all. 300,000 people don’t need to be privvy to your marriage Simon. She clearly needs ALOT of external validation to feel good about herself. Do you really think your the only one who does laundry on a daily basis? Or cook for your kid? I just can’t understand WHY we get 10 photos of her laundry basket per day, every single day. We get if, you do laundry… along with every other member of the public. Your not special because you do what every other person does 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️
 
usemycode said:
I didn’t find it was explained well at all, hence me asking for clarification.
I’m not sure how to say it’s not up to you to declare that people should accept it and leave it alone because we aren’t supposed to police other members and me saying that is policing you policing other members? It’s confusing 🤔


I think a moderator or admin will need to edit or delete posts because there are several that quote my reply to you and I don’t think any of us can delete them ourselves.
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By all means keep going. Just my opinion that the person has acknowledged it was poorly worded. But go at it if you want.
 
butfirstletmetakeaselfie said:
Yeah I don’t buy her “perfect act” at all. 300,000 people don’t need to be privvy to your marriage Simon. She clearly needs ALOT of external validation to feel good about herself. Do you really think your the only one who does laundry on a daily basis? Or cook for your kid? I just can’t understand WHY we get 10 photos of her laundry basket per day, every single day. We get if, you do laundry… along with every other member of the public. Your not special because you do what every other person does 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️
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I'm surprised there has been no powershop #ad yet. Her dryer bill must be insane.
 
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