Shan_adam #7 No-one watches now Trunchys her friend, but just like her other mates, it’ll go to tit in the end

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Surely she’ll never be able to be a counsellor? With her background, breakdowns and poor habits. There needs to be safeguarding around the job if there’s not. She should have no form of power to anyone and shouldn’t be giving advice to those struggling.
 
I was thinking this too , and last night when she was giving advice to these perhaps vulnerable people. She still needs to get a grasp on her issues . I'm thinking perhaps her grandma and Chloe have called her out on her behaviour, and as she doesn't like being told she is reacting like this .
 
Sorry but if your own child triggers you then she’s defo not ready !! He’s picked up learnt behaviour and that’s not his fault. Why not sit with him and explain instead of it being me me me all the bloody time! Not the kids faults they’ve been through hell and back, and if she is triggered by her own kid then she needs to reach out and tell the professionals now before it’s too late.
 
Romany said:
Surely she’ll never be able to be a counsellor? With her background, breakdowns and poor habits. There needs to be safeguarding around the job if there’s not. She should have no form of power to anyone and shouldn’t be giving advice to those struggling.
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Tbf a lot of counsellors are people who have had their own issues in the past, although if that’s the case you do have to go through a rigorous assessment to ensure you are able to do the job. About 15-17yrs ago I was volunteering as a youth support worker and enquired about a counselling course and was told part of the process included having counselling myself-not sure if that’s changed now, as I said it was many years ago.
 
She's really gone backwards. Been watching this live and the things she's saying are just bizarre.

- She's been begging for gifts so she can afford to go to her management Christmas party next week. She was also claiming to be skint whilst shopping for an outfit for it.

- Took a phone call and then came back all flustered saying "when one door closes another opens".

- Told people to stop sending blue hearts because they remind her of people. Purple and red hearts only...

She really has gone off the rails again. Pushed everyone away again. Full of hatred for others. Thinks she's something she isn't with her "affirmations and meditation" (the silly namaste quote she constantly says from the film Wild Child). She's just nuts.
 
beefcake40 said:
Sorry but if your own child triggers you then she’s defo not ready !! He’s picked up learnt behaviour and that’s not his fault. Why not sit with him and explain instead of it being me me me all the bloody time! Not the kids faults they’ve been through hell and back, and if she is triggered by her own kid then she needs to reach out and tell the professionals now before it’s too late.
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Definitely agree. If your own child ‘triggers’ you the. You are not ready (if at all) to have your child back. She needs to deal with her triggers before they’re back. She can not cope with the children. She likes the money they bring in through benefits but just can’t cope. She’s loves saying social media is her ‘job’ what a professional begger she is now. I truly hope SS are watching. Or someone who knows her address puts a concern in cos I give her 6 months before she breaks down
 
Catinthebag said:
Definitely agree. If your own child ‘triggers’ you the. You are not ready (if at all) to have your child back. She needs to deal with her triggers before they’re back. She can not cope with the children. She likes the money they bring in through benefits but just can’t cope. She’s loves saying social media is her ‘job’ what a professional begger she is now. I truly hope SS are watching. Or someone who knows her address puts a concern in cos I give her 6 months before she breaks down
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Yeah fully agree! She won’t have social media as a job if she continues spiralling tho ! People that was there before won’t wait about again not when she’s basically throwing it in peoples faces.
 
Greenhoodie said:
She kept going on about this woman she's in love with earlier- just concentrate on your kids ! I'm wondering if she's come off some of her medication . Such an attitude on her . Hope the social are watching these videos.
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She can’t be on her own emotionally. She has to have a love interest. Anyone. Then she’ll end it and blame them. Then starts the cycle again! It’s never her fault. Always others. That’s the part that frustrates me the most. She can’t take any blame for anything. Blames her past, her family, her friends. Anyone but the person whose fault it actually is - her!!
 
I can't understand how she can be so self righteous about anything, when she still doesn't have her kids back full time. Her priority still isn't even her kids as she's fixated on this other person . I'm starting to even doubt now if she gave up her kids, like she said because of her mental health or if infact they were taken.
 
I think Shann has been doing very well and has worked hard on herself.....however, I have just saw a wee bit of her live and she is live with her children and she was explaining to Reuben that his Granny and Granda don't want to be in his life at the minute!! I don't know the ins and outs or if he has been explained this all before.....but she just told him it in front of all the viewers in her live!?!
Sorry Shan but u have your children little enough at the moment, put the phone down and spend time with them away from TT, job or no job!!!
I don't know how she will cope having them back full time tbh, she seems quite "het up" when they are there and now 2 dogs as well!
I felt very sad watching her try to explain that to him infront of a bunch of strangers, is nothing private now, everything has to be discussed on TT!!
 
The little boy just asked for a hat whilst on live - she came back in & told him not to, so he started crying then she told him he was manipulating the viewers! Wow how old is he? She’s doing more harm than good at this point surely

Oh also when someone sent a hat he said ooh look & she was like “no that’s for mummy”
 
Lassie21 said:
I think Shann has been doing very well and has worked hard on herself.....however, I have just saw a wee bit of her live and she is live with her children and she was explaining to Reuben that his Granny and Granda don't want to be in his life at the minute!! I don't know the ins and outs or if he has been explained this all before.....but she just told him it in front of all the viewers in her live!?!
Sorry Shan but u have your children little enough at the moment, put the phone down and spend time with them away from TT, job or no job!!!
I don't know how she will cope having them back full time tbh, she seems quite "het up" when they are there and now 2 dogs as well!
I felt very sad watching her try to explain that to him infront of a bunch of strangers, is nothing private now, everything has to be discussed on TT!!
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Why the hell would you tell your child that their family members dont want to see them! That's beyond cruel!
 
I’ve had to switch off. Only saw ten minutes and I just can’t watch. She’s just said she’s on live because her children lie and this is proof so I’m done watching. I think that’s vile to say on a live, I don’t care if she’s stressed. Meanwhile Ruben is having an absolute meltdown because she kept going on, and on, and on about him not using soap, he washed his hands. Get over it. Remind him next time to use soap! I hate to judge and I know being a parent is hard work but I’m sorry she should NOT be on live with the kids and if she can’t even cope with them for an hour after school then she absolutely cannot full time. Im getting serious deja vu here 😞
 
She wants to stay on live because her kids lie .... just wow, I'm do glad those kids are not with her permanently. Poor Rueben she's talking to him like he's an adult . Maybe just chill with them after school for the few hours she has them , rather than act as if they are on mastercard.
 
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