Selena Gomez

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I know this thread isn't about justin/Hailey, but does anyone else think it's odd that Justin posts so much about Hailey, but she hardly posts him? Her Instagram is always pushing her beauty products. Justin's rarely mentioned, and when he is it's like one line, whereas he'll post a paragraph about her

Part of me thinks she might feel insecure posting him because people will turn it into "you're using Justin for likes"

(But then again I'd say she was using his success when she tried to trademark Bieber for her beauty products but Justin stopped it)
 
GrilledCheese said:
I know this thread isn't about justin/Hailey, but does anyone else think it's odd that Justin posts so much about Hailey, but she hardly posts him? Her Instagram is always pushing her beauty products. Justin's rarely mentioned, and when he is it's like one line, whereas he'll post a paragraph about her

Part of me thinks she might feel insecure posting him because people will turn it into "you're using Justin for likes"

(But then again I'd say she was using his success when she tried to trademark Bieber for her beauty products but Justin stopped it)
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I feel like she used social media more for business purposes to be honest.
It’s not that weird - a lot of celebs don’t want to be open about their lives.
 
GrilledCheese said:
I like her but she needs to get a grip. Which popular singer hasn't been turned into a meme?? She should just avoid Instagram if she's going to take offense to a light hearted joke
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They’re literally lighthearted memes as well, and it means that everyone is talking about her/spreading her image which is only good in terms of her popularity? If it was a hate train I’d get it but the blanket thing was harmless and majority of people were praising her for reaction to Chris Brown. She needs to come offline and just let someone handle her socials and then she’ll relax.
 
GrilledCheese said:
I know this thread isn't about justin/Hailey, but does anyone else think it's odd that Justin posts so much about Hailey, but she hardly posts him? Her Instagram is always pushing her beauty products. Justin's rarely mentioned, and when he is it's like one line, whereas he'll post a paragraph about her

Part of me thinks she might feel insecure posting him because people will turn it into "you're using Justin for likes"

(But then again I'd say she was using his success when she tried to trademark Bieber for her beauty products but Justin stopped it)
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kyle marisa roth and crazy days and nights have some great justin/selena/hailey stuff
one blind is that hailey manages justins social media and writes his posts / chooses pics which I am sorta believing just cos he doesnt strike me as someone into posting on social media
just my op tho so
 
Anyone who CONSTANTLY says things like “I’m a kind person” , “my heart is so pure I wish people knew my heart” and plays the victim every single time , that is the type of person who probably isn’t an nice and innocent as they try to convince you they are. I’m not saying she’s all bad cause nobody is perfect and I’m not trying to take away from the good things she’s done or achieved but the poor little me I’m so innocent and nice act I see right through it. Nobody can convince me she’s over Justin either.
 
account70032 said:
Anyone who CONSTANTLY says things like “I’m a kind person” , “my heart is so pure I wish people knew my heart” and plays the victim every single time , that is the type of person who probably isn’t an nice and innocent as they try to convince you they are. I’m not saying she’s all bad cause nobody is perfect and I’m not trying to take away from the good things she’s done or achieved but the poor little me I’m so innocent and nice act I see right through it. Nobody can convince me she’s over Justin either.
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I don't think she is either. And I don't believe Justin is hung up on her like the stans so vehemently believe.

Every time the selena/hailey stuff calms down, she posts something to whip up a storm again. That Samantha Jones sound she used not long ago? She knew exactly what she was doing. She's not a dumbass.

I actually feel very sorry for Hailey. Imagine knowing no matter what you do, people are going to side with Selena regardless because she's so 'sweet and wholesome'.

Her being so far up Nicola Peltz Beckhams hole is a good indicator of the kind of person she is, I think. Birds of a feather.

As a big (understatement) Taylor Swift fan, sometimes it saddens me to know she probably enables and approves of Selena's behaviour and entitlement. Unless she's daft enough to be manipulated, too. She's a smart cookie though so I don't see it.
 
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wthamidoinghere said:
I don't think she is either. And I don't believe Justin is hung up on her like the stans so vehemently believe.

Every time the selena/hailey stuff calms down, she posts something to whip up a storm again. That Samantha Jones sound she used not long ago? She knew exactly what she was doing. She's not a dumbass.

I actually feel very sorry for Hailey. Imagine knowing no matter what you do, people are going to side with Selena regardless because she's so 'sweet and wholesome'.

Her being so far up Nicola Peltz Beckhams hole is a good indicator of the kind of person she is, I think. Birds of a feather.

As a big (understatement) Taylor Swift fan, sometimes it saddens me to know she probably enables and approves of Selena's behaviour and entitlement. Unless she's daft enough to be manipulated, too. She's a smart cookie though so I don't see it.
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Sorry this is long I can’t sleep so I’ve time to write lol
I agree I don’t think he’s hung up on her and the more time has gone by the more I see his point he made when he said he wouldn’t of moved on and married Hailey if he was still in love with Selena cause if people think about it if he was in love with Selena no matter what he never would of wanted to lose her and by moving on quick getting married he would of known she might not forgive him for that and he could lose her in his life and that was a risk he was fine with taking. Yeah he moved on too fast in my opinion I think it’s a bit odd to go from breaking up with your on and off ex of 10 years to getting married someone else a couple months later and in my opinion I think mentally it would of done him good to stay single for a while but it’s his life his choice what he does.

I’ve heard blind items and if any are true then maybe at the beginning of his marriage he probably felt all different emotions about Selena cause he didn’t heal before he moved on that was his mistake but the fact is there had to be a reason he was ok with moving on. Selena was hurt by him moving on fast understandably and I’m sure he’s in the wrong for some things none of them are innocent people but she spent years dragging their breakup out and I think it’s cause 1. She’s not over him , 2. Her ego still can’t handle that he chose someone else over her cause for years she was always the girl he ran back to and 3. She’s not fully happy in her life , can’t let go of him and hasn’t moved on.

Hailey marrying him that fast after everything with Selena comes across odd I don’t understand how she felt secure doing that but that’s her choice. Not saying Hailey is innocent but I do think Selena enjoyed all that drama not too long ago egging her fans on and playing the victim with people hating on Hailey cause I think Selena wants to haunt Justin in a way not wanting him to forget her it’s weird lol and in the end Selena acts like the nice innocent girl who took time out of her day to be nice to Hailey after playing a big part in Hailey getting hated on in the first place.

Selena seems to get very hands on and close to her friends boyfriends/husbands and I’ve seen her multiple times refer to herself as being in a throuple with different couples and maybe the girlfriends don’t care fair enough but I think selena can come across desperate and a bit jealous. Sometimes I wish someone in her life would give her good advice that she’d listen to cause she doesn’t come across well sometimes. I know she’s had it tough health wise but so have a lot of people and that can’t be an excuse for some of the weird things she’s said and done.
 
I think, if the blind items are to be believed, her substance and alcohol abuse would have been toxic as duck. Coupled with Justin's own addiction issues. He very likely knew that no matter how much he loved her at one stage, they were terrible for each other. She would have kept welcoming him back with open arms if he hadn't moved on and god knows where they'd both be at now if he hadn't. I believe Hailey and Justin are the real deal while I know many do not. He's the most stable he's been for years in his personal life by all accounts and he seems to want to stay largely out of the spotlight. Selena does not and never will.

Also, people like selena who make a career out of being a mental health sufferer and a victim are glamorising mental illness and I cant be told otherwise. My 13 year old daughter thinks it's bloody cool to be mentally ill because of people like her in the public eye making a dime off of their trauma.
 
wthamidoinghere said:
I think, if the blind items are to be believed, her substance and alcohol abuse would have been toxic as duck. Coupled with Justin's own addiction issues. He very likely knew that no matter how much he loved her at one stage, they were terrible for each other. She would have kept welcoming him back with open arms if he hadn't moved on and god knows where they'd both be at now if he hadn't. I believe Hailey and Justin are the real deal while I know many do not. He's the most stable he's been for years in his personal life by all accounts and he seems to want to stay largely out of the spotlight. Selena does not and never will.

Also, people like selena who make a career out of being a mental health sufferer and a victim are glamorising mental illness and I cant be told otherwise. My 13 year old daughter thinks it's bloody cool to be mentally ill because of people like her in the public eye making a dime off of their trauma.
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Yeah I agree with you completely that’s a good point too and I remember seeing a video of her and Justin in 2017/2018 in some building that is known to sell drugs apparently and why else would two celebrities of all places be in that area in that building acting all suspicious it’s a bit weird. Not hating on anyone for having an addiction that can happen to anybody it’s sad but like you said if those blind items are true aswell as other things that have been posted then her substance and alcohol abuse aswell as any addictions he had would of just made them even more toxic for each other instead of them getting help they would of just been helping bring each other down. So true they would of continued that toxic cycle and maybe he had to push himself to fully move on so there was no way back. I’m not saying he did it the right way I don’t know how exactly they ended things between them and I’m sure she was hurt by it all but it has been years and from all I’ve seen I don’t think she’s over him at all and I find that embarrassing.

Not saying Hailey and Justin are innocent and have never done wrong but I don’t think it’s fair for anybody to say he doesn’t love her cause nobody is in his head nobody knows how he feels or what their marriage is like and although I get people can look at things she’s done and say she was obsessed she was desperate to be with him and marrying him helped a lot to give her the career she has now thats true I get that his name helped her a career a lot but the fact is regardless of all that he married her and they’re still married years later so there has to be love there even if it was friendship at first he was ok to lose Selena to be with her.

I agree cause yeah mental illness is nothing be ashamed of and raising awareness of help out there is good but when some celebrities glamorise it or use it as way to get away with things playing the victim I don’t like that. In interviews from right after she had her kidney transplant I know this will sound bad but sometimes it was like she was loving the attention and getting sympathy from Justin running back to her at the time. There’s just something very off about her and I don’t like it.
 
I don't think Justin seems happier. He seems closed off from everything. All the videos of Justin and Haileys arguments are very telling

I also don't think he would get a divorce even if he didn't love her like he thought he would. He said marriage didn't fix all his issues like he thought it would, and he's also said that he wants to make his marriage last for the sake of his siblings, so they can grow up and see a marriage can last without divorce
 
GrilledCheese said:
I don't think Justin seems happier. He seems closed off from everything. All the videos of Justin and Haileys arguments are very telling

I also don't think he would get a divorce even if he didn't love her like he thought he would. He said marriage didn't fix all his issues like he thought it would, and he's also said that he wants to make his marriage last for the sake of his siblings, so they can grow up and see a marriage can last without divorce
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To be fair Justin has been through the fame ringer since his mid teens, I think he’s a home bird now and doesn’t like leaving the house/being anywhere paps are/out and about for that reason alone. It’s clear to see the whole fame thing makes him very anxious now, which would make anyone unhappy when they can’t go anywhere without having a camera shoved in their face or hidden in a bush.

Also, I maybb remembering wrong but I’m sure both Hailey and Justin have debunked the “argument” videos, as well as the fact it would be absolutely absurd to think a married couple of 5 years never argue. Also, the general couple don’t have a camera following them whenever they’re out of the house. If a camera followed me and my partner out and about whenever we bicker and no one ever got to see what happens behind closed doors I’m sure everyone would say we shouldn’t be together either 😆
 
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