Long time lurker but first time poster on this thread with a few observations;
1. Of the many threads and people I read on here I don’t think I’ve come across someone so transparently desperate to be in a relationship. The quotes and everything she posts relating to men (including her ex) don’t hide that fact, they make it
even more obvious. She is craving what many of us have on here so she mocks it to make herself feel better but it doesn’t work so she posts some more and the cycle continues.
2. The Rolex is more than likely blag, her post about timeless watches was quite carefully worded thanking them for their service but not one mention of an actual purchase. My guess is she went in and tried a few on but came out with nothing and it was the time they took with her whilst she played fantasy dress up she was thanking them for.
3. Her claims that she is the happiest she has ever been are beyond laughable. She claims it’s other people judging her for being a prostitute but the reality is she is fighting her own hatred of herself for what she is and how she earns her money (she thought she was above it based on her past twitter comments). Someone happy does not rely on drinking heavily and daily to dull the pain. Some people choose to drink every day, Sallie is drinking
because she can’t
not drink, she is an alcoholic and couldn’t manage to even last four days last time. There is also likely additional drugs on top as another crutch to blot it out. If Val’s way of living life is ‘happy’ and right then I want to be sad and wrong.
4. The girls at most stay with her maybe once a week and probably have tea a couple more times inbetween. I think it might have bothered her at first but now she wants and enjoys that arrangement. I know many on here think Lisa is an enabler but she probably knows Sallie isn’t a fit mother so she does what it takes to raise them whilst letting them still have a relationship with their ‘mother’ thinking something might be better than nothing. I don’t doubt she loves Sallie but I think she plays along more for her grandaughter’s sake than Sallie’s (and also because she can’t risk having Sallie’s blood on her hands if she doesn’t- I certainly think Sallie is capable of blackmailing people with the threat of suicide). I imagine Sallie likes to spin the story that she drinks and takes drugs because she doesn’t have her girls but my money is she would still be drinking heavily and taking drugs even if they were there full time, it’s an excuse to get sympathy from friends as removal of children doesn’t happen overnight, she’ll have had plenty of chances to prove her worth as a parent.
Like many of you, I would like to see her turn it round but she chooses not to. I think she somehow believes if we stopped commenting her life would be better but her battle is with herself rather than us and her conscience will be there whether it’s Miami, Tullum or the Wirral.
As you all were