Burnt Toast
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I was just thinking that she might want to get legal advice on this specific topic before recording and uploading without consent the next time
Because she does like to get legal advice...
I was just thinking that she might want to get legal advice on this specific topic before recording and uploading without consent the next time
CNot sure it's actually legal to release the recording in public without consent from the other woman tbh...
I'd do that over trying to change it in the train loo!
(caveat - I haven't done that, I wouldn't choose to do that, but if I was going to be on the train for a long time then desperation might sink it.)
I'll have to listen again. My description earlier was from my bad memory and it is important to always be fairOkay I've listened to the recording and I think Sali was in the right here. Someone was sitting on the floor to accommodate her luggage on the seats. I still wouldn't have recorded it though
Hallo and welcome. Yes that describes old GtL so well. It was good to start with I'm sure but it definitely changed. Got taken over by some of the bigger characters and it took quite a bit of courage to post anything that didn't 100% follow the party line. I actually think that was the first place I ever saw what I would now recognise was online bullying - though wouldn't have called it that at the time.In brief, here's a story. For years I was the kind of insecure kid who always assumed everyone knew better than me, and in the attempt to better myself to somehow gain access to the 'cool clubs', I admired from afar the golden status of a few. I've done a lot of work recently on my life perspective and I'm so disappointed to now realise I fell into exactly the kind of trap this place, at its best, mitigates against. When I first found the old GTL group I fell on it in helpless gratitude thinking here was a place that would let me play with the cool kids. But the it turned out to be just the kind of mean 6th form girls on the back of the bus brigade that helped put me in a bad place in the first instance. Whatever the rights and wrongs of the whole situation after 'That Video', I am pleased that there is some balance now. I've just listened to the train tirade and I'm very surprised at it. If someone had given SH, or anyone, permission to speak for them, that's one thing; but if that hadn't happened, to tear into someone like that knowing nothing other than what you assume based on 'having witnessed it all' really distresses me. If I'd be on the receiving end, there have been times in my life when she'd have had me shaking and in tears. I don't think that it is OK at all. So I'm very glad this site exists and thank you, as it enables me to confirm the instinct that's been growing for a while, that she was no longer so interesting to me. I now see the whole situation differently.
Okay I've listened to the recording and I think Sali was in the right here. Someone was sitting on the floor to accommodate her luggage on the seats. I still wouldn't have recorded it though
So do we think there will be a column tomorrow?
Wow - that train recording. She goes from 0-60mph pretty bloody quickly and she doesn’t let it drop. It doesn’t take much for Sali to get her dander up does it - she’s so tightly wound she obviously finds things to get affronted by everywhere. Freaky Friday was just more of that same mis-placed rage. No wonder people have been shocked when they discover that what she was so exercised by was some....opinions. Gasp. I’ve said it before - she can dish it out, but she sure can’t take it.
I think we all agree she's right for telling the person off - it's the way she does it and the fact that she recorded it AND published it I'm uncomfortable with.
But there's an argument for asking polite questions and making a well-reasoned, calm case for your point of view, isn't there? It's a pretty lamentable world if we think any of us are entitled to 'tell off' someone about whose life and circumstances we know nothing apart form what we assume we know...I wouldn't want to suppose it's ever 'ok' to 'tell someone off'....I think we all agree she's right for telling the person off - it's the way she does it and the fact that she recorded it AND published it I'm uncomfortable with.
I think we all agree she's right for telling the person off - it's the way she does it and the fact that she recorded it AND published it I'm uncomfortable with.
Welcome! xThese two instances, to me, are the very definition of bullying. If this is just something that you do, and that’s it, then ok, you are maybe someone having a tit day. But the recording and the sharing in social media, so that it can be mocked by others, elevates it to bullying (and in turn, mobbing). Of women, in both cases. It is not social activism (whatever that is), it is not fierce (if anything it may be narcissistic) and also, I am not ready to criticize anyone by their choice of vehicle until I am ready to go everywhere by bike or on foot. Or until I figure out what to do about my tons of freaking non recyclable skincare and body care empties that make me feel worse every single day - but hey. All these women want me to buy more. More hard plastic. More more more.
But you know what? SH led me to this place a month ago today! And now I am finally posting! Hi everyone
Yeah Clemmie hiding behind fake Tattle accounts defending herself against claims she’s lost touch and is up her own arse whilst secretly holidaying in Mauritius or somewhere is really funny.I can only imagine the Tattle bashing between Clemmie and Sali #sponsoredbyAvonbutnofiltersmidmarks
It would've been more helpful when the woman said there was no room for her bag to say somthing like 'I know, there isn't much room is there, but I really don't think anyone would mind if you put it in the aisle instead' in a non confrontational tone. There are ways of handling things without making it embarrassing for everyone and making yourself out to be some sort of feisty moral guardian.I haven’t listened to it because I hate someone being humiliated , it’s downright rude to withhold a seat from another person but it’s not life or death either. To record it is plain weird and she must have thought about getting Twitter brownie points and ‘well done Sali’ pats on the back.
The more I read about her the more basic and low class she becomes.
Imagine someone did that to her though. She’d be crying bully, get her legal team involved, and her luggage would need therapyI think we all agree she's right for telling the person off - it's the way she does it and the fact that she recorded it AND published it I'm uncomfortable with.
And lush do too as everyone prob is aware. Take 5 pots back and get a free face mask is something they’ve been doing for years. I really like their moisturisers and face masks not just the body stuff they do.(Origins counters take all old beauty containers to be recycled - although they reward u with a plastic sample of something new)
Oh and Mac do for lipsticks too.Imagine someone did that to her though. She’d be crying bully, get her legal team involved, and her luggage would need therapy
And lush do too as everyone prob is aware. Take 5 pots back and get a free face mask is something they’ve been doing for years. I really like their moisturisers and face masks not just the body stuff they do.
Oh and Mac do for lipsticks too.
However I do want to know of mac actually recycles them or not...