If this relationship doesn’t last , I could see her absolutely losing it and having a breakdown. She’s SO desperate to always have a boyfriend , it’s all she thinks about and focuses on is finding a man and as soon as she gets one she rushes everything trying to force love that isn’t there and trying to make her relationship look perfect and it makes me cringe. I don’t think she’s over Louis and what I mean by that is I think she still is annoyed and bitter that he didn’t propose to her , marry her and give her the life she wanted so badly to be the girlfriend/wife of an NFL player, she was rushing everything wanting him to propose she was being delusional and painting this life for herself with him and ignoring all the red flags about him and now I think she’s trying to force what she didn’t get with Louis with every guy she dates.
Don’t get me wrong Louis clearly led her on and love bombed her which was wrong of him and he should of just stayed single cause he clearly wasn’t interested in settling down and being committed and anyone could see that but Saffron was and still is too immature and delusional to see reality a lot of the time and instead lives in her own world with all her yes men around her , her friends and family who suck up to her and feed her delusions most of the time. Of course if you’re in a relationship and you’re both serious about each other and both of you care and put in equal effort, it’s completely normal to want to marry the person you’re in a relationship with and having those hopes is normal but what’s not normal is Saffrons behaviour and desperation trying to force things to make her life look perfect because she’s insecure and can’t let things just happen naturally so instead she rushes and forces things and then when it doesn’t work out or she gets hurt , she only has herself to blame because she doesn’t make mature and wise decisions a lot of the time.
Yeah nobody is perfect and I’m sure all of us at least once in our lives have ignored a red flag about someone whether it’s someone you date or a friend and we honestly didn’t realise someone had a red flag or their behaviour was strange until it’s too late but that’s ok as long as you learn from that mistake and you know better the next time what to avoid or look out for but the problem with Saffron is she has no common sense and her desperation takes over everything that she wouldn’t listen to anyone who did try talk sense into her.
I don’t understand why she’s in such a rush! she’s only 24 and even if if she wasn’t 24 , there’s nothing wrong being single at any age , you don’t need a partner to be complete and fulfilled in life and you don’t need to reach certain goals at a certain age and it’s fine if you have different goals in life. Wendy is a lot to blame for the way Saffron thinks and behaves because Saffron has said before that Wendy makes fun of her for being single and is always pressuring her to have a boyfriend so I get that Saffron has been raised to believe she must have a perfect boyfriend and husband in order for her to have this perfect life that Wendy is desperate for all her kids to portray but I think that’s such a sad thing to do to put this pressure and expectations on your kids. It makes sense why Saffron has always been so rude to Ana about her never having a boyfriend or a long term boyfriend , Saffron has said some hurtful and mean things to Ana and it shows that Saffron thinks that being single is something to be embarrassed and insecure about when it isn’t at all!
This new boyfriend I wonder if he’s aware he’ll need to be thinking about engagement rings asap cause Saffron will probably be expecting a proposal by Valentine’s Day. I know we can’t say too much right now about the relationship as we can only judge from what we’ve seen but I won’t be surprised if the relationship is mostly just lust or a way for him to grow his social media. I’m not saying I wish for that to be the case I wouldn’t wish for anyone to be used but it just wouldn’t surprise me if that’s the case.