Ruby Thompstone #2 - Claims she needs a break, says all her friends are snakes, how many kid free holida

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Ffs ruby. I do feel sorry for her as having a child with a narcissist isn’t for the weak. But I wish she’d stop posting TikTok’s, it just makes it worse. If you want to raise awareness, then do it. But explain how you got out of that relationship, how to completely switch off from them, she can’t do that because she hasn’t done it herself. She’s clearly still obsessed
 
Yeah the kids were being looked after by Lorenzos mum the other day and I’m assuming it was more than one day because I think it was the same day recently Ruby went on a night out so they probably were at his mums for more than a day but anyway I’m guessing Lorenzo was obviously there too with the kids and I wouldn’t be surprised if he a new girlfriend around them but Ruby shouldn’t be surprised by anything he does she knows what he’s like. She also knows what his family are like but she had no problem leaving her kids with them so she could go clubbing? you’re choosing to leave your children with these people because you don’t want to look after your own kids Ruby you always wants somebody else to take care of them but don’t act shocked when you leave them with family who don’t like you and you’ve had drama with multiple times and they are obviously going to do things behind your back when you’re not around cause they don’t like you and don’t respect you and you should know that by now.

Of course I wouldn’t wish for anybody to have a narcissist in your life but people warned her , gave her advice , she saw all his red flags and when the relationship ended last year after how he treated her during her pregnancy with Frankie and he cheated etc she should of took the time to really heal and move on not just for her mental health but also for the kids sake too it’s not fair on them to be caught between two parents who have a very toxic and immature relationship and are better off not ever being together.

I only feel sorry for the two kids because they’re caught up in this messy drama and they’re exploited it’s not fair. Yeah if you’ve been in a relationship with a narcissist it’s important for you to escape it and end it and if you want to speak out about it then fair enough raise awareness warn people of the signs BUT like what @immaturecow said Ruby hasn’t even done the work yet to heal and move on from Lorenzo so she can’t give good advice yet and knowing her she probably still has feelings for him and would go running back you never know with her what she’ll do because last year look at all the tiktoks she made about Lorenzo and his family all the awful things they said and done but then what did she do? goes running back to him and helps his family bargain food store get customers and followers making herself look like a mug because we all could see they were using her.
 
Pandazdranagirlzz said:
How do we actually know he’s a narcissist? Like we only hear from her prospective.
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This is a fair point we do only hear from her perspective but it’s clear Lorenzo has been a very absent father to those kids he left for months to go on holiday and didn’t care about his kids and people figured out online that what she was saying was true he was away for that long and he wasn’t interested in his kids rarely seeing them but I guess we don’t know everything happening offline to fully know what the situation was like between them.

She had proof of texts his mum sent her in the past that were horrible and insensitive but at the same time I know we only see her side of things so I understand your point there’s only so much we can comment on but from what we have seen and heard from her side of things he seems awful and seems to have narcissist traits if everything she is saying is true but I get that we only can give our opinions we can’t say things with 100% certainty.

She said he cheated on her and treated her badly during her pregnancy , didn’t he send her a screenshot of him on FaceTime with a girl or something like that to get a reaction out of her when she was pregnant so he clearly isn’t a nice person and although everything she’s said is just her perspective and I know there’s always a possibility she could lie or say things out of hurt or whatever but I do think there’s signs there to back up at least some of what she says especially you could see early last year mentally something was wrong and off about her but at the same time she doesn’t help herself when she goes running back to him , obsessing over him and getting all cosy with his family acting like everything is great and all is forgiven begging for people to follow them because it does make you think why would you want to be with someone and around their family working with all of them when you made so many tiktoks going on and on about how awful these people are and the verbal abuse you were being sent etc it’s confusing.

I do understand in some relationships with a narcissist they can get inside your head and manipulate you or make you fall into their love bombing trap so victims they don’t see the signs at first or they have no way of getting out of the relationship/marriage so they’re trapped so in no way am I shaming anyone who’s been in a relationship with a narcissist because it’s not anyones fault for ever falling for a narcissists lies but in Rubys case she’s been aware for a long time of all his red flags ( I know we can’t say for sure he’s a narcissist but whether he is or not he has a lot of red flags) but she still happily went back to him and his family but now here she is again making those posts and tiktoks about how awful they are and it’s annoying now because you never can tell when she’s serious or if she’s just saying all this with no intention of sticking by what she says and then will go running back to him again in a repeated never ending cycle.

I can imagine Ruby is hard work in her own way she makes bad decisions a lot of the time because she’s immature and I wonder if her parents or sisters ever get fed up with her running back to Lorenzo because from what I saw her her sisters never followed or showed any support for the bargain food store and they never followed Lorenzo again either and good for them for having more sense than Ruby. If that’s how she wants to spend her life in back and forth drama then fair enough but I just feel sorry for the kids.
 
I find mums who take to social media to slag of their child’s dad so weird. Like why are you letting the whole world know you’ve been mugged off yet again? Like you are just embarrassing yourself by making it public the way he violates you🤦🏻‍♂️ I’ve got a dead beat for my child’s dad and I’ve never taken it to social media because it’s strictly embarrassing that I even went there with him in the first place 😂😂😂😂
 
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I don’t understand why she needs to post about it , I get the point people make of spreading awareness of something if it can help others but i don’t think her situation is going to help anybody when she’s made herself look like a mug many times so last person people shoukd take advice from is her when she can’t help someone when she can’t help herself , clearly isn’t over him and there’s still a high chance she’ll run back to him again.

I think she gets jealous when she finds out he’s seeing another girl she lets it get to her and this seems to be when her rants on social media begin and she makes tiktoks to try make it look like she’s moving on and claims she’s getting lots of male attention like she wants to make him jealous which makes me cringe she makes those tiktoks and she shouldn’t be jealous because he’s not a prize and she should be used to him by now he never seriously commits to any girl from what we know about him and seems to always be finding new girls to talk to and be with and that’s probably how he always will be so she should just focus on moving on and this time she really needs to focus and heal because last time she ran back to him and to be honest I could see her running back to him again but for the kids sake I hope I’m wrong cause this drama isn’t fair on them.

I understand if someone treats you badly , disrespects you and isn’t there for the kids you have together that must be very hard and feel unfair that they don’t take care of their kids but posting all this private business and drama on social media is immature and I don’t know what she expects anybody to do when this situation should be private and figured out behind closed doors because making TikToks about him constantly what is her end goal with that? no matter what she says or does if he doesn’t want to be a committed boyfriend to her and present dad in his kids life then thats unfortunately just the way it is and I know that’s so sad for the kids but sometimes you can’t make someone grow up and act right.

She doesn’t want to accept that and I think part of the reason is because she doesn’t enjoy being a mum she acts bitter sometimes towards her kids for having to take care of them and would happily allow someone to take care of them 23 hours a day and she’d have no problem seeing them for just an hour because she doesn’t seem interested in being a parent most of the time so I think it annoys her that she’s left with two kids she doesn’t really want the responsibility of while he gets to leave and do what he wants. I’m not saying she doesn’t have the right to be annoyed about that because of course it’s not fair when one parent can just leave and the other is left with all the responsibility but she doesn’t seem maternal at all and for years she was shown all his red flags from him and his family but she happily would run back so she knew to an extent what she was getting herself into and last year she had an opportunity to heal and move on but she didn’t really want to because her life revolves around Lorenzo.
 
Oh no Ruby, isn't it the consequences of your OWN actions!!!!

She didn't seem to give a toss about the what ifs when she was palming her kids off to Lorenzo's mum, despite the nasty texts and screenshots she shared the last time things went west between them. But then again, if it ensures her some time away from the kids she wouldn't, would she?

I feel like in this day and age the term narcissist is thrown around way too easily. I myself, like others on this thread, have dealt with narcissists first hand. It is utterly soul destroying. My own personal opinion is that Lorenzo isn't a narcissist at all, yes he may have tendencies, but the lines between how this equates to him being a full blown narcissist are very blurred. I think he is a flash, immature little prick who can't make his mind up, and loves the fact all he's got to do is snap his fingers and Ruby will come running back to him. His parents (specifically his dad) seem fine with treating her badly too, the mother of their grandkids. I think that says it all.

She knew what he was all about when she had Delilah, yet laid down with him again and produced Frankie, whilst she genuinely thought this would solve all their problems & she would become a big family influencer and live a Molly Mae Hague type of lifestyle.

I hate to say it, but I don't have a lot of sympathy for her. She brings the majority of these dramas on herself.

I wonder how long it'll take her to put 'single mummy' back in her tiktok + insta bios 😂😂😂
 
This girl genuinely makes no sense. Goes on about how she’s trying to ‘raise awareness’ but literally all she’s doing is making petty indirect videos towards him and his family. Sorry.. how is that anywhere close to raising awareness🤣. He doesn’t sound like a nice person but to be quite honest neither does ruby.. he might not be a good dad, but she isn’t up for mum of the year award either.. they were not ready for these babies in the slightest and it really shows. It’s clear that they both have other priorities. This might sound harsh. But Ruby wanted the ‘cute happy family’ narrative on social media. But since it didn’t go her way, she’s now trying to play the ‘single mum who was done wrong’ card to get all the attention that way instead.
 
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