Rochelle Humes #10 Roch is out more than the bins, she only sees her kids on a whim

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timelife said:
I think they’ve found what works for them and personally I think a happy spouse makes a happy house…children should not be the first priority, ofc you love and cherish you children but being a parent doesn’t make you who you are, it’s a part of who you are and people forget that…. You cannot pour from an empty cup so self care is important and so is being a good husband and wife. I personally put that first and the rest follows according with an extremely happy household. The most recent comments seem to come from a place of envy if I’m honest…
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Hi Roch 🙄🤣
 
timelife said:
I think they’ve found what works for them and personally I think a happy spouse makes a happy house…children should not be the first priority, ofc you love and cherish you children but being a parent doesn’t make you who you are, it’s a part of who you are and people forget that…. You cannot pour from an empty cup so self care is important and so is being a good husband and wife. I personally put that first and the rest follows according with an extremely happy household. The most recent comments seem to come from a place of envy if I’m honest…
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Each to their own but my kids come first. Them being happy makes me happy. I don’t need to go out every weekend or every night for self care purposes. Yes, you need ‘me’ time as well but she kicks the arse out of it let’s be honest.

And no, I’m not envious of Roch’s life. The opposite actually….
 
EllaBella10 said:
Each to their own but my kids come first. Them being happy makes me happy. I don’t need to go out every weekend or every night for self care purposes. Yes, you need ‘me’ time as well but she kicks the arse out of it let’s be honest.

And no, I’m not envious of Roch’s life. The opposite actually….
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Her life actually seems quite sad and don’t think they’re as happy as she pretends
 
I’m obviously not Rochelle 🙃 just think it’s worth pointing out everyone has their own parenting style and it clearly works for them. I think they seem quite satisfied with their life, what one person values/enjoys will vary from someone else!
 
If we can call this a parenting style then yes i am sure it works for them. Rochelle posts so much about her day to day life and where she is it’s quite clear to see how much time she does spends with them which does not seem to be much time at all. I don’t think any of us envy her as you appear to think. I would like to think she does have time with them away from what we see but everything seems to be geared up for a post, story or reel
 
They are shite parents, I think many many people will agree to that, your kids are only young for a short time, they are both missing out as parents but that's on them. I do believe they will have issues with at least one of the girls in the teenage years which will be the child's cry for help/ attention as there would have been a complete lack of attention leading up to it. I agree with a previous poster about the children as adults, potentially not bothering with Rochelle & Marvin as much as the would like them to, simply because they will be following the behavour of their parents. I don't think anybody following this thread is at all jealous of either Rochelle or Marvin, the opposite probably, as all of the showboating in particular from Rochelle smacks of desperation, the constant need for validation on her part. I do think they are living their champagne lifestyle on a lemonade budget which will trip them up at some point in the future, however of course I don't know anything for certain, this is just my opinion. I do hope for the sake of their children, they wise up and become less selfish and give them the childhood they deserve, because no amount of money, or fancy holidays make up for what all three of their children need which is their parents time and attention.
 
Jealous of what? There are tons of famous, successful women to admire out there. Rochelle has been in 2 manufactured pop groups, has limited intelligence or talent and spends her days posting pics of her posing in designer outfits and making out she's some uber 'boss mama'. Her TV presenting is at best very mediocre and she has problems with basic grammar, 'was you' instead of 'were you' etc. Each to their own but nothing in her life warrants jealousy. Materialism is a very unpleasant trait and she is very shallow at her core. It's so reductive to suggest that criticism of a person is because we are 'jealous' of them. Really, really basic.
 
Phil Anne Throw Pee said:
Jealous of what? There are tons of famous, successful women to admire out there. Rochelle has been in 2 manufactured pop groups, has limited intelligence or talent and spends her days posting pics of her posing in designer outfits and making out she's some uber 'boss mama'. Her TV presenting is at best very mediocre and she has problems with basic grammar, 'was you' instead of 'were you' etc. Each to their own but nothing in her life warrants jealousy. Materialism is a very unpleasant trait and she is very shallow at her core. It's so reductive to suggest that criticism of a person is because we are 'jealous' of them. Really, really basic.
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Quite often critiquing one’s life without know the person on an intimate level and understanding the ins and outs of them and their circle usually stems from insecurities. I’m not saying always but often it does sadly. People can feel intimidated or aware of their own issues but feel that tearing someone else down is the solution…
 
timelife said:
Quite often critiquing one’s life without know the person on an intimate level and understanding the ins and outs of them and their circle usually stems from insecurities. I’m not saying always but often it does sadly. People can feel intimidated or aware of their own issues but feel that tearing someone else down is the solution…
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Calling out a D-List Influencer for posting a lot of inane twaddle is what it is, nothing to do with insecurities or any other psychobabble.
 
timelife said:
Quite often critiquing one’s life without know the person on an intimate level and understanding the ins and outs of them and their circle usually stems from insecurities. I’m not saying always but often it does sadly. People can feel intimidated or aware of their own issues but feel that tearing someone else down is the solution…
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Nothing to be sad about here. It’s highly patronising to use psychobabble to try to imply that we must be insecure, nothing of the sort, i have a very nice life, we can voice our opinions when people choose to put everything and I mean everything in the public domain and offer our own critique of said lifestyle
 
Psychobabble 😂 this really does confirm a lot. I presented my opinion as does everyone else it seems but for some reason suggesting an alternative to the herd and offering an different light on the matter isn’t welcome…
 
You’re not only presenting an opinion but trying to offer analysis as to why we have the opinion we have. The tone of your responses comes off as passive aggressive, seemingly given an impression that you feel superior to the ‘herd’. We are critiquing a celebrity here not making making assumptions about you as a person which you are doing to everyone who replies to your comments
 
timelife said:
I’m obviously not Rochelle 🙃 just think it’s worth pointing out everyone has their own parenting style and it clearly works for them. I think they seem quite satisfied with their life, what one person values/enjoys will vary from someone else!
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Think you should go back and read the past 9 threads. The woman is so far up her own backside you can't see where she begins. She thinks she's this big boss mamma when infact she's a small F'all.
 
Twixchick said:
You’re not only presenting an opinion but trying to offer analysis as to why we have the opinion we have. The tone of your responses comes off as passive aggressive, seemingly given an impression that you feel superior to the ‘herd’. We are critiquing a celebrity here not making making assumptions about you as a person which you are doing to everyone who replies to your comments
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Correct phrase used there is “seemingly given an impression that you feel superior”. I gave an alternative spin on things I’m not sure why it bothers you so much that I have my own thoughts about it 😂 . The previously tattler and I left it as “agree to disagree” about parenting. I suggest you do the same and move on
 
timelife said:
Quite often critiquing one’s life without know the person on an intimate level and understanding the ins and outs of them and their circle usually stems from insecurities. I’m not saying always but often it does sadly. People can feel intimidated or aware of their own issues but feel that tearing someone else down is the solution…
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They are open to criticism IMHO because what she over shares on insta,doesn't match what she posts. You need to have a very good memory to be a liar. She's embarrassing 🤦‍♀️🙄
 
timelife said:
Maybe she did get a bit cross and frustrated but what parent hasn’t?… I think that’s a bit unfair to say that especially if you’re solo parenting for a period of time- it gets to us all surely?!

Again cannot comment about the poster as noone family is perfect and I’m sure there is jealousy amongst them as there is with most families to some degree
timelife said:
I think they’ve found what works for them and personally I think a happy spouse makes a happy house…children should not be the first priority, ofc you love and cherish you children but being a parent doesn’t make you who you are, it’s a part of who you are and people forget that…. You cannot pour from an empty cup so self care is important and so is being a good husband and wife. I personally put that first and the rest follows according with an extremely happy household. The most recent comments seem to come from a place of envy if I’m honest…
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I think parents being present in a child’s life is far more important than any parents work schedule/social life.

not being there 90% of the time is not great parenting.
you say how do we know she isn’t with the children…she documents it. They are at school all day and the in the last 10 days she has been to Paris and been out at night for 8 of those days.
I’m all for parents putting themselves first, but not every single day. Children need to have a bond and a relationship with their parents. Passing them off to a nanny 8 days out of 10 is too much.
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timelife said:
Quite often critiquing one’s life without know the person on an intimate level and understanding the ins and outs of them and their circle usually stems from insecurities. I’m not saying always but often it does sadly. People can feel intimidated or aware of their own issues but feel that tearing someone else down is the solution…
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does this mean you know Rochelle personally then? Saying as from what you have seen you think she’s a great parent and has parenting skills much like your own?
 
timelife said:
Quite often critiquing one’s life without know the person on an intimate level and understanding the ins and outs of them and their circle usually stems from insecurities. I’m not saying always but often it does sadly. People can feel intimidated or aware of their own issues but feel that tearing someone else down is the solution…
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Go back to being a boss babez now chell on and no one wants your weedy husband you can have him
 
timelife said:
I understand your point. However IG is a snap shot of everyone’s lives, the best parts forward for all to see. It’s a representation of what you want the world to see and believe about you… just because you saw her having a date night or taking her god daughter to Paris for her 18th (something we have done for our godchildren btw to Dublin!) it doesn’t mean she isn’t with them…she is probably more present as she’s not on her phone posting about it 😂 Also who’s to say the children haven’t seen wicked already or gone with friends for a birthday party etc? For the letters part, I can’t comment on as there’s not enough context to know what that really means if I’m honest. Children whine for many reasons even when you know there’s nothing wrong with them 😅
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You may be right and they may spend lots of time with their children and be wonderful parents.
The issue is like you say what they choose to show on social media. If you take the snapshot it suggests they hardly see the kids and are more interested in their image and brand. If that's not the image she wants to portray then she needs to change her content! After all it's only her who is creating this narrative.
 
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