Rebeccaloves__#51 You do you, it depends what you value

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There is a saying, 'when people show you who they are believe them.'

And for some of her followers who may not have looked that closely, on the surface her sad beige parenting style probably does look like it aligns with their values, and she does say she's living seasonally etc

But the truth is: she buys and sells second hand clothes for the money in both instances. It has nothing to do with sustainable, ethical living although it is a good mask for her tightness.

She never, ever donates anything.

She lives seasonally as long as its summer.

She's not practising slow living by taking her children out of school...because if she truly believed that she'd home school them. But she'd never actually do that at this age because it's too much work so she'll use school like optional child care. Instead waiting until they are old enough to be able to read/write/have basic maths and then take them out. It will absolutely not be in their best interests because nothing ever is, but instead so she can travel and validate all on instagram as aspirational.

She's banned the word 'fat' but absolutely practises disordered eating still. And worse pushes it on her kids. The way they eat isn't for their health but so Becky and her kids don't commit the cardinal sin of getting fat. Evidenced by the fact she doesn't give a flying duck about giving them unregulated drugs to get them to sleep (again not in their best interests, but Becky's own).

She's worried about smart phone ownership and what it will do to their mental health but not what sharing every aspect of her and their lives since birth will do to their mental health. The fact that strangers know their full names, birth dates, school, address and house layout doesn't bother her. The fact that they can never just be, but are instead made to perform for the gram over and over again doesn't bother her. Make it make sense.

And also Becky, you're worried about smart phones when without one you were groomed at 13.

Temu is such a bad call, but not at all shocking to us. She doesn't actually care if child labour was used so that her children can have the perfect piece of tat because its not her children being damaged 🤷‍♀️ and were not talking white boden esque, Blyton living children so in Becky's mind, 'do they even really count?'

Truth is there is no logic to Becky, just what she wants to protray but not actually live by...she pretends like a child. And that is at the crux of all of these issues...disordered eating, unable to form a coherent opinion, putting herself before her children, not giving a tit about the rest of the world, jumping on bandwagons...some of us were groomed at 13 Becky, and it really shows.
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Also want to add, I realise fellow tattlers have said this all before...I'm not adding anything new. I'm just incensed.

Perfect summation of her. Word perfect, but particularly "she pretends like a child". A giant cheapskate baby with no real responsibilities playing at house.
 
I have no words!!!! This is disgusting. Even the after just shows how much stuff they have that they don’t need.
why has Freya got so many coats? Why do they still have their Bugaboo?? They never use it.
she has a problem!!
 

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Wowsers 😱😆😆😆

I normally check her account in the morning to see what 💤 delights she's posted/then go straight onto to tattle to read the comments - I did see the Temu square on her grid yesterday but couldn't be arsed to click on it but after getting home from work etc I kinda nodded off. But imagine my absolute bleeping delight, this early Tuesday morning, seeing she's lost followers 🤣🤣🤣 In the words of McDonald's...

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... Indeed I bloody am 🤣🤣🤣

As for the reel about slowing the smartphone movement down, good luck with that fucker. My kids are now 18 and 21, they didn't get a mobile phone until they hit high school. No frills, basic pay as you go models. No kid at primary needs a bloody mobile phone. She's really out of the loop with the real world isn't she, praying for things to be different for her kids 🤣🤣 Grabby, it's only going to get worse especially with artificial intelligence in the frame. She can't really say much because err hello, you've lived your life through various forms of social media... Twitter, blogging, Instagram etc

I don't believe the bollox about Valentine's day either, it's a tradition... a ritual {like every bleeping thing else}. Those bleeping heart garlands in the kitchen and lounge fireplace, stripey straws would've been dusted down and put out as soon as they returned home from Cali. We've just got the pink & red themed breakfast tray in bed loving crafted by Benpeeado, ♥ biscuits, pink tulips on display and the {not so} free ranged kiddos dressed in heart themed onesie reading 'love is...' books

So F has taken over the mantle of loving anything seasonal 🤣🤣🤣
 
I have no words!!!! This is disgusting. Even the after just shows how much stuff they have that they don’t need.
why has Freya got so many coats? Why do they still have their Bugaboo?? They never use it.
she has a problem!!
I think she needed more than a shoe rack, perhaps a large wardrobe too.

No child needs that many coats!

As for the bugaboo, I reckon she’s still hanging onto the idea of having a third. I suspect she already knows she wouldn’t be in the running for another free pushchair from them.
 
I suspect the snug is a pretty good representation of the entire house.

She provided carefully curated corners for the gram but has probably had to remove a whole load of crap to achieve it.

She’d have made better use of her time by cleaning and tidying her home rather than gallivanting off to Cali for three weeks.

It would have had a greater impact on their health!
 
I honestly feel like I can smell that room from the photos. A mix of musty, dusty, old mud on the shoes and prams, likely tinged with a waft of dog poo that's never been cleaned too.

Her 'after' shots look how my befores would look and as for her 'before' pic, I think she needs to go on one of those extreme hoarder TV programmes.
 
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