This, 100%. She's so self-absorbed that she could have put her son in danger due to her stubborn determination to make the whole experience follow her idealized plan. I can only imagine how emotionally exhausting it must be to have someone like her in your life.If she really wants help she should find a psychiatrist and show them her birth story video. It highlights her stubbornness, inability to see anything beyond her own wishes, denial of reality, unwillingness to accept responsibility for her actions.