PTWM #209 So full of it, leaking out in the car 💩

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FridaK said:
Her tunnel vision for Domestic Abuse is ridiculous. Paediatric Nurses, Doctors and other healthcare professionals don’t have time to sit and watch how parents interact with each other because they are busy providing the medical care to you know, save our kids lives. Cheeky cow sitting in the loft telling people how to do their jobs. There is also that whopping ethical contract that they sign saying they can’t get personally involved. She is a menace to society with this *advice,* she drivels.
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like genuinely they can’t get involved and they’re only there for the care of the child.

also who has the time… just cos she can afford to go private, doesn’t mean everyone can. it’s not the NHS’ job to be refereeing between parents.
 
FridaK said:
Her tunnel vision for Domestic Abuse is ridiculous. Paediatric Nurses, Doctors and other healthcare professionals don’t have time to sit and watch how parents interact with each other because they are busy providing the medical care to you know, save our kids lives. Cheeky cow sitting in the loft telling people how to do their jobs. There is also that whopping ethical contract that they sign saying they can’t get personally involved. She is a menace to society with this *advice,* she drivels.
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She has absolutely NO idea. I don’t work in the NHS but I do work in a school and we deal with similar issues and it’s hard. But what she doesn’t seem to understand is, if the other parent has parental responsibility they literally have rights enshrined in law. As a senior leader in a school, I can’t just refuse to give a parent with parental responsibility information or not allow them on the premises or refuse to communicate with them etc due to a “gut feeling” 🙄

She’s making a big deal out of having to get solicitors, support workers etc involved but if she had a brain in her head she’d know that’s exactly the process and steps to take in a situation like that because you can’t just make an arbitrary decision based on what one parent says and a “gut feeling” if the other parent has parental responsibility.
 
chickhicks86 said:
I don't know much about the ins and outs of parental responsibility for separated parents who have not split amicably but who are these huns professionals who are giving her this advice? What she is advising people to do could well be more dangerous than the DV to begin with.
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The morning after my ex was removed by the police for assault, I dropped our children at high school on the way to work and they were shaken and didn’t really want to be there. I asked that if dad came to collect them at any point, could they please be kept on the premises and was told that no; he has parental responsibility so no one could prevent him from collecting his children whilst I was at work with no access to my phone until 6pm. That’s how the law works unless you get some kind of injunction, I think. It would have to go through court.
 
Oh she’s on her soap box 🥱 couldn’t even be bothered to watch all the clips she just seemed to be slating all professionals, not like they trained for years in their professions or anything 🤦🏻‍♀️ they have to knife by the laws and if parents both have parental rights what can they do. They probs have to deal with so many ppl in situations like that, there wouldn’t be enough hours in the day to manage broken families in the ways in which she is expecting. Yes it might not seem fair to the victims who have suffered DA and facing issues with their ex but if they are both parents then what else can these professionals do break the law for them?!!
 
Lucyinthesky88 said:
The morning after my ex was removed by the police for assault, I dropped our children at high school on the way to work and they were shaken and didn’t really want to be there. I asked that if dad came to collect them at any point, could they please be kept on the premises and was told that no; he has parental responsibility so no one could prevent him from collecting his children whilst I was at work with no access to my phone until 6pm. That’s how the law works unless you get some kind of injunction, I think. It would have to go through court.
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Any parent without restrictions in place can take a child at any point. If you have the money/good reasoning you can have emergency court hearing, otherwise it takes months or more. Even if the social remove kids then give full custody to one parent there will usually be a minimum amount of time set for the other parent to visit.
 
Lovethewayyoulie said:
There stories this morning. Pretending to announce they are separating 🙄😴
Nobody gives a duck rancid, so stop trying to get some clout/content.
Also SHE had to mention the camper van, seen as its been mentioned on here as to whether they still have it as it never gets mentioned/used anymore 😴😮‍💨
HI RACH 👋🏼
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it’s cos she knows that it’s been mentioned here about them splitting up several times. again, as night follows day, she’s on here reading 👋.

where’s the paypal money, Rach?
 
I don’t understand how anyone fleeing DV would go to her. The amount of information she breadcrumbs is enough for people to be found. I wouldn’t trust her as far as I could throw her to not get me found.

Also “we support multi-millionaires”, are they getting all this free Xmas parties and hand me down clothes?

I just wonder what goes through someone’s head to run to Ratshit instead of a reputable firm like woman’s aid etc who have actual strict confidentiality clauses in place and aren’t going to breadcrumb your case for cash 🙄
 
For someone whose life is so full on and busy, she's certainly got plenty of time to sit down and waffle absolute 🐂💩 into that phone of hers. Her Christmas present/meals out/extortionate gifts to her lush staff funds must be needing topped up hence the latest bleeding heart DV stories AKA begging. Wouldn't it be great if she could put that incredibly overactive imagination of hers to good and true use?
 
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