New to the thread and to cut long story short started having perimenopause symptoms age 43. Erratic periods, low mood, poor concentration and told I Was too young to be menopausal and my bmi was too risky to start hrt. Started anti depressants Now 4 years later have had 3 periods in 3 years last one 9 months ago, on 60mg fluoxetine, poor sleep, low mood and poor concentration and motivation. Had bloods done and needed folic acid. Had ultrasound and all normal. But because I don't have hot flushes, it is still seen as mood disorder. Would you ask for hrt now?