Paige Henley x #2 You can’t help stupid

I have before been in a similar situation as Paige and took him back after affair. I was not the same woman again I was a nervous wreck, all I thought about was if and when he was going to do it again. It makes you so unwell. She won’t be having this happy relationship she portrays online, I just know it because I’ve lived it. Nathan is to blame for it all and she knows this deep down. She can justify it all she wants, I did, but when you look in their eyes, you know it was their choice.
 
I have before been in a similar situation as Paige and took him back after affair. I was not the same woman again I was a nervous wreck, all I thought about was if and when he was going to do it again. It makes you so unwell. She won’t be having this happy relationship she portrays online, I just know it because I’ve lived it. Nathan is to blame for it all and she knows this deep down. She can justify it all she wants, I did, but when you look in their eyes, you know it was their choice.

I can see how she doesn’t want a broken home for her daughter but two separate happy homes are surely better than one toxic one? I don’t understand how she can forgive it.
 
I think it became more about ‘winning’ and putting Izzy in her place then forgiving Nathan
A lot of it is to do with ego and control, not love. She probably deep down doesn’t even want him, but the subconscious feeling of not being the chosen woman has made her take him back. It feels great in the first few weeks of accepting them back, ‘honeymoon period’, but after you’re still left with what they have done to you. They will never realise just what they have done to you. Trauma doesn’t store as a date and time in the mind and body, it’s always there while the man has moved on and forgotten about the affair the second you take them back. Paige needs therapy if she keeps him or if she doesn’t. They both do.
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I can see how she doesn’t want a broken home for her daughter but two separate happy homes are surely better than one toxic one? I don’t understand how she can forgive it.
It’s nearly 2025, being a single mother is more normal than still being with your baby dad. They have a broken home because she’s taken him back. Ottalie has a safe home with her mum, she doesn’t need anymore more.
 
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A lot of it is to do with ego and control, not love. She probably deep down doesn’t even want him, but the subconscious feeling of not being the chosen woman has made her take him back. It feels great in the first few weeks of accepting them back, ‘honeymoon period’, but after you’re still left with what they have done to you. They will never realise just what they have done to you. Trauma doesn’t store as a date and time in the mind and body, it’s always there while the man has moved on and forgotten about the affair the second you take them back. Paige needs therapy if she keeps him or if she doesn’t. They both do.
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It’s nearly 2025, being a single mother is more normal than still being with your baby dad. They have a broken home because she’s taken him back. Ottalie has a safe home with her mum, she doesn’t need anymore more.

This is literally my favourite reply in any Paige thread because I was in this exact situation too for over 2 years and it took me a long time to let go and accept that I didn’t want him, I wanted my suffering to mean something and I wanted to be the ‘chosen one’ in the end. Never seen anyone word it as well as this before; it’s definitely what Paige is doing too in my opinion and it’s sad because I know firsthand the damage it causes - I’m still in therapy over it and nowhere near the woman I was before!
 
This is literally my favourite reply in any Paige thread because I was in this exact situation too for over 2 years and it took me a long time to let go and accept that I didn’t want him, I wanted my suffering to mean something and I wanted to be the ‘chosen one’ in the end. Never seen anyone word it as well as this before; it’s definitely what Paige is doing too in my opinion and it’s sad because I know firsthand the damage it causes - I’m still in therapy over it and nowhere near the woman I was before!
It’s literally like a twisted version of self harm.
 
Pre the dandruff and grease ☺️ yummmy
Her posing with all of sonny’s stuff is actually sooo icky. Like it’s the beggiest she’s ever been I think? Surely she sees how much of a leech is makes her look to be doing all these videos in his cars and stuff. She’s there for money, the props and the cooked dinners. There’s no way she genuinely likes him. I think he’s fallen hard for her though, because she’s probably so hot and cold with him (works every time tbf). And like her mate said, old enough to be her dad 😅 not far off!
 

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Pre the dandruff and grease ☺ yummmy
Her posing with all of sonny’s stuff is actually sooo icky. Like it’s the beggiest she’s ever been I think? Surely she sees how much of a leech is makes her look to be doing all these videos in his cars and stuff. She’s there for money, the props and the cooked dinners. There’s no way she genuinely likes him. I think he’s fallen hard for her though, because she’s probably so hot and cold with him (works every time tbf). And like her mate said, old enough to be her dad 😅 not far off!

What have they all done to their faces, surely you don’t need that much Botox (if any) in your early 20’s! They’re going to look haggered at 40!!
 
Pre the dandruff and grease ☺ yummmy
Her posing with all of sonny’s stuff is actually sooo icky. Like it’s the beggiest she’s ever been I think? Surely she sees how much of a leech is makes her look to be doing all these videos in his cars and stuff. She’s there for money, the props and the cooked dinners. There’s no way she genuinely likes him. I think he’s fallen hard for her though, because she’s probably so hot and cold with him (works every time tbf). And like her mate said, old enough to be her dad 😅 not far off!
She’s made countless digs at Paige about N paying for her stuff and lifestyle Aswel! Hypocrite
 
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