One Day of Winter

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sassmaster3000 said:
She’s not posted in a long while, anyone think somethings going on? Hopefully the pregnancy is okay.
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She’s reposting alot on fb abit hypocritical. I think she’s realised being pregnant AND looking after a toddler is hard work and not all about shoving a camera in Ray’s face. Maybe she’s not being supermum so can’t document her having a maccies infront of the telly 24/7 😂
 

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Me&My said:
She’s reposting alot on fb abit hypocritical. I think she’s realised being pregnant AND looking after a toddler is hard work and not all about shoving a camera in Ray’s face. Maybe she’s not being supermum so can’t document her having a maccies infront of the telly 24/7 😂
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Probably posted that after reading on here about people not understanding Ravens speech! 😏
 
Mrs_emily said:
There are elements of that with some of her outfits and toys. I'm not against kids playing with any toys they want, or wearing whatever, but it comes across like it's been done to make some kind of point in some cases. "Look what good parents we are for not dressing our daughter in dresses!" 🙄
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Yehh I no! Let the girl be a girl if she wants?! Let her play in fancy dress and plastic heels, she tries too hard to use educational toys all the time, jeez let her be young 😒
 
Well judging by her latest post she’s confident her experience from Raven will be enough to see her through with the new baby!

I mean babies are all different aren’t they 🤔 what if this baby isn’t interested in co-sleeping for whatever reason, what will she do then?
 
justfortonight said:
Well judging by her latest post she’s confident her experience from Raven will be enough to see her through with the new baby!

I mean babies are all different aren’t they 🤔 what if this baby isn’t interested in co-sleeping for whatever reason, what will she do then?
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To be fair all babies will happily co sleep, it's us parents that move them away into seperate cots and rooms. As they get older, maybe toddler age, that's when they might choose to move out. Mine hung around till he was 4 then wanted his own room 😂 he always had it, just wasn't interested in sleeping there and preferred being next to me.
 
EmilyChambers said:
To be fair all babies will happily co sleep, it's us parents that move them away into seperate cots and rooms. As they get older, maybe toddler age, that's when they might choose to move out. Mine hung around till he was 4 then wanted his own room 😂 he always had it, just wasn't interested in sleeping there and preferred being next to me.
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This is definitely not true. My daughter has very much wanted her own space from young age. Absolutely hated being held to sleep and co-sleeping just wouldn’t have worked with her. All babies are different!
 
In regards to her last post -

She really does have it very easy in terms of being able to ‘meet ravens needs’ - some people don’t even before adding in an extra baby.

It’s easy to be that flexible when you only work a few hours a week, it’s nearly impossible when you work full time. You’re also far more likely to be totally exhausted and shout ‘no you can’t do the paw patrol colouring!!!’ because you’re that tired and stressed.

Those things don’t make you a bad mum 🤷‍♀️ You still meet your child’s needs.

I don’t know, maybe I’m living in the dark ages, and I want my kids to have a positive childhood but I just don’t believe your entire life should revolve around how a 3 year old wants to do things.
 
justfortonight said:
In regards to her last post -

She really does have it very easy in terms of being able to ‘meet ravens needs’ - some people don’t even before adding in an extra baby.

It’s easy to be that flexible when you only work a few hours a week, it’s nearly impossible when you work full time. You’re also far more likely to be totally exhausted and shout ‘no you can’t do the paw patrol colouring!!!’ because you’re that tired and stressed.

Those things don’t make you a bad mum 🤷‍♀️ You still meet your child’s needs.

I don’t know, maybe I’m living in the dark ages, and I want my kids to have a positive childhood but I just don’t believe your entire life should revolve around how a 3 year old wants to do things.
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I agree. Totally.
Children need to learn that the universe doesn't revolve around them. Imagine the disappointment when they get older.
You're not a bad mother because you say no, or make your toddler clean their mess up, or whack them in front of the TV for half an hour.
Her position is so privileged and sge just can't see it at all.
 
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