Olivia Hammond (Oliviaclairem)

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I mean I get the impression that even if he was at home she wouldn’t let him do anything. She comes across to me as a helicopter parent and it shows with no boundaries with Beau
 
Aww I feel sorry for her. She's defo in the 'cool girlfriend' trap. It's okay martin go and play your gig this might be your big chance to get discovered and i know how importwnt it is to you, it's okay martin go and get snookered at Glastonbury while I'm heavily pregnant and looking after a toddler, i know how important the sesh is to you, it's okay martin go to work your job is so much more important than me 👍
 
In my experience it’s usually girls from a worse off upbringing who put up with being treated like a complete doormat, Olivia has the means and the cognitive ability to see how tit this bloke is and still puts up with it. He is wanting to live his life uninterrupted but check in on family life when it suits him.
 
I really hope she doesn’t end up with severe PND when she crumbles with how much of the load is being put on her/realises how absent he’s being and how badly he’s treating her. I suffered postpartum and my husband was a godsend, if he even dared try to leave me in the postpartum trenches like that, so soon after birth, AND with a toddler, let alone to play in a crappy band I’d probably be in prison by now 😂 I’m angry for her and I don’t even really like the woman!
 
Lauren88 said:
In my experience it’s usually girls from a worse off upbringing who put up with being treated like a complete doormat, Olivia has the means and the cognitive ability to see how tit this bloke is and still puts up with it. He is wanting to live his life uninterrupted but check in on family life when it suits him.
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The thing is yes she grew up with money but her parents were clearly not around much. She went to boarding school and has spoken about how the nanny practically raised her. Even now her parents aren’t there for her, they moved to Portugal when Beau was born. I think that speaks a lot for itself about possible issues she could have in her adult relationships :(
 
vegirl said:
You’re telling me the first time Olivia’s mum met her second grandchild was at, essentially, a wake? Is that not a bit weird?
My parents don’t live abroad but I know 100% if they did and I gave birth they’d be back immediately. It’s so weird.
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Came on here to say the exact same thing 🫣🤯 not like they aren’t short of money and couldn’t have flown back to support their daughter. I mean look at the size of that ring!
 

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Takeshi2126 said:
Came on here to say the exact same thing 🫣🤯 not like they aren’t short of money and couldn’t have flown back to support their daughter. I mean look at the size of that ring!
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Exactly. Gonna go out on a whim here and say her obsession with birthing children and having her “family” comes from a place of deep insecurities that the family she loves love her back. She’s trying to replace the love she clearly never got from her mum. It’s why she helicopter parents them to intensely
 
vegirl said:
Exactly. Gonna go out on a whim here and say her obsession with birthing children and having her “family” comes from a place of deep insecurities that the family she loves love her back. She’s trying to replace the love she clearly never got from her mum. It’s why she helicopter parents them to intensely
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This makes a lot of sense actually! And probably the reason she takes her partner’s behaviours as normal because she is insecure and all she cares about is to have “perfect little family” even if he is mostly not present 😬
 
I feel so sorry for her, she seems to have no support network at all. Martin does a gig when she only gave birth a week ago and not one person showed up to help her out that night. I know her parents live abroad but is there no one else in her family who lives close by? No one in martins family to pop in? None of her friends to come over for the evening and watch the baby and cook her dinner whilst she puts Beau to bed? Sad 🙁
 
Mooms said:
I feel so sorry for her, she seems to have no support network at all. Martin does a gig when she only gave birth a week ago and not one person showed up to help her out that night. I know her parents live abroad but is there no one else in her family who lives close by? No one in martins family to pop in? None of her friends to come over for the evening and watch the baby and cook her dinner whilst she puts Beau to bed? Sad 🙁
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I agree. I do feel for her. It must be an absolute handful dealing with beau and the baby too. Its bad enough just trying to get my 9 month old to bed at the best of times
 
Mooms said:
I feel so sorry for her, she seems to have no support network at all. Martin does a gig when she only gave birth a week ago and not one person showed up to help her out that night. I know her parents live abroad but is there no one else in her family who lives close by? No one in martins family to pop in? None of her friends to come over for the evening and watch the baby and cook her dinner whilst she puts Beau to bed? Sad 🙁
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Completely agree with this 🥺
 
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