NotUrBasicMama #4 Dear Hannah, Dakota has a T in it, best wishes Tattle

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MushyBeans said:
Imagine how much she could have got done this weekend if she hadn’t spent half of it ranting on Instagram.
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Exactly! I get taking a day planning but she’s just wasted the whole weekend feeling sorry for herself and hoping the magic fairy’s going to come along and fix everything well sorry babes you need to pull your finger out your arse and get it done!! And now asking Instagram if she needs planning permission, phone the council/ housing and find out!!! Lazy witch
 
Her reason for them not sharing isn't good enough . Id make them share still both seem spoilt don't get everything you want . Harper can go to the frontroom or summer house thing to cool off .
 
Question, as I’ve no idea how it works. When someone gets a council house, do they just keep it forever, regardless of what they earn? I know was was homeless prior to moving here, but now there are Ben work, and seemingly torn down work. Then are just earn off TikTok, so why doesn’t she move somewhere bigger? I know that’s not as easy as it sounds, but surely she could find a larger house so they can all have the space they need?
I know she said she’d want but that house and convert the attic, but surely the tone it’s needed it now, not in 5 years?
 
leabytottle said:
Question, as I’ve no idea how it works. When someone gets a council house, do they just keep it forever, regardless of what they earn? I know was was homeless prior to moving here, but now there are Ben work, and seemingly torn down work. Then are just earn off TikTok, so why doesn’t she move somewhere bigger? I know that’s not as easy as it sounds, but surely she could find a larger house so they can all have the space they need?
I know she said she’d want but that house and convert the attic, but surely the tone it’s needed it now, not in 5 years?
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I can’t speak for the whole of the uk. but where I am in Scotland I think as long as you pay your rent and your not in arrears with anything and you don’t cause trouble with your neighbours you can stay for as long as you please, she’s said in her instagram stories that she doesn’t want to move because she’s put so much money into the house and garden which I get by why the duck would you do that knowing the likelihood that something like this would happen and you need more space?? Anyone with common sense would know this But she’s living in cuckoo land
 
how old are the kids now, 1,6,12,15? Six living in a 3 bedroom house? Greyson will need his own room, as he can’t share with Dakota for much longer. (I’m pretty sure once one sibling hits 7, the can’t share with the opposite gender. This may be wrong)
So in 3 years, she’ll have 4, 9, 15 & 18, pretty much 4 adults and 2 children. How did she expect this to work when she badgered Ben to have abother baby? Greyson in one, her and Ben in another and 4,15 & 18 year old sharing ONE room? Even without Harpers “ADHD”, sharing with a much younger sibling isn’t appropriate.
I know are said she wants to buy, have an attic room, blah blah. However, that’s pipe dreams. Getting a mortgage is hard enough, but being self employed, makes it harder. What is she actively doing to buy the house?
I’m pretty sure she could do more weddings, and she must earn from socials. Aside from the few videographer weddings he does with Hannah, does he have another job? Again, he’s in a band, but surely he won’t make a great deal from that?
Maybe, they should start saving, rather than going in multiple holidays, spending loads of food, eating out, takeaways? It’s like they think they deserve it all handed on a plate. They have to sacrifice sometimes, and as they seemingly want to stay where they are, they need to start adulting
 
I’d just take greyson out of his room, plop harper in there, and leave Peyton in the other room. Maybe put a small bed in their room to put him in. Why does she have to flip her whole house to suit one kid? (Suspected)ADHD should be worked on rather than change everything to suit one person. That’s a recipe for disaster but I’ll just sit back and say I told you so when it all fails. She’s doing it completely wrong and won’t listen to anyone giving opinions.
 
leabytottle said:
Question, as I’ve no idea how it works. When someone gets a council house, do they just keep it forever, regardless of what they earn? I know was was homeless prior to moving here, but now there are Ben work, and seemingly torn down work. Then are just earn off TikTok, so why doesn’t she move somewhere bigger? I know that’s not as easy as it sounds, but surely she could find a larger house so they can all have the space they need?
I know she said she’d want but that house and convert the attic, but surely the tone it’s needed it now, not in 5 years?
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She should do more research before posting everything with her is about content she doesn't really care about anything but herself . Google says she has to buy the loft space and add it as extra tenant . Then apply for planning permission
Greenhoodie said:
She needs to not worry about doing a clothing brand with Ben , and concentrate on getting her house and kids in order. Her being so chaotic doesn’t help Harper either. She needs to see her GP about her mental health . She screams bi polar to me. .
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Sleep_deprived said:
I’d just take greyson out of his room, plop harper in there, and leave Peyton in the other room. Maybe put a small bed in their room to put him in. Why does she have to flip her whole house to suit one kid? (Suspected)ADHD should be worked on rather than change everything to suit one person. That’s a recipe for disaster but I’ll just sit back and say I told you so when it all fails. She’s doing it completely wrong and won’t listen to anyone giving opinions.
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I would still make them share if they start arguing id take everything mobiles and make up just leave beds have to get on then . Deffo wouldn't be turning my house upside down for one kid .
 
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