Notsosmugnow #2 Renewing her vows and displaying her minge, Cat’s giving big time cringe.

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grumpic said:
The current Y4s didn’t sit them because of Covid.
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Ahhhh well that sounds about right!!! She missed out on swimming lessons with school because of god damn shitting covid!
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leeeeleeee said:
Not to WK but gosh absolutely many parents (mums in particular) need reminding 😢. It’s so bloody hard and it’s easy to just feel crap and like you’re a terrible parent and ruining your kids by doing things like working and not giving them your full attention, being tired all the time etc

Sorry to be “that person” but what does WK mean? 🙈
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I can’t believe she’s off on holiday alone again! She has the nerve to complain about everything but I’ve never known a parent to have as much time to themselves as she does.

No Cat, I’m not jealous at all. I really love spending time with my daughters. If I had your disposable income, I would be doing lovely things with them instead of going off on my own on jollies and to write crap books. And I don’t have to write lists to prove anything to anyone.
 
leeeeleeee said:
Not to WK but gosh absolutely many parents (mums in particular) need reminding 😢. It’s so bloody hard and it’s easy to just feel crap and like you’re a terrible parent and ruining your kids by doing things like working and not giving them your full attention, being tired all the time etc
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Tried to post this earlier but it didn’t show. What does WK stand for?
 
do you know what, right at this moment, when i'm exhausted, trying desperately to get a thousand actual things done while the kids are at school, and it's raining, i am a bit jealous she's sunning herself in peace.

but i know deep down that as exhausting and cold and wet and frustrating things like school runs and dinners and cleaning and bathtime are sometimes - i'll know i was there, for almost every single day with my kids, and i won't have that heartbreaking regret that i missed out. and i feel for cat, because no matter how many lists she writes now, those missed moments (not even a night away, literal weeks?!) will haunt her.
 
frostily said:
but i know deep down that as exhausting and cold and wet and frustrating things like school runs and dinners and cleaning and bathtime are sometimes - i'll know i was there, for almost every single day with my kids, and i won't have that heartbreaking regret that i missed out. and i feel for cat, because no matter how many lists she writes now, those missed moments (not even a night away, literal weeks?!) will haunt her.
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Plus you won't have the guilt that your kids are in therapy because of you.
 
frostily said:
do you know what, right at this moment, when i'm exhausted, trying desperately to get a thousand actual things done while the kids are at school, and it's raining, i am a bit jealous she's sunning herself in peace.

but i know deep down that as exhausting and cold and wet and frustrating things like school runs and dinners and cleaning and bathtime are sometimes - i'll know i was there, for almost every single day with my kids, and i won't have that heartbreaking regret that i missed out. and i feel for cat, because no matter how many lists she writes now, those missed moments (not even a night away, literal weeks?!) will haunt her.
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I don’t think it would haunt her though. I honestly don’t think she cares enough.

People forget that children actually grow up. My eldest is an adult now and thank god I was good to them and they are happy. Children grow up and everything you have done and said is brought back up.

What would my eldest be saying to me now if they had years of my online presence to trawl back through, where I said how miserable they made me, if I’d been talking about how I couldn’t wait to get away from them?

It’s not just internet posts. Children pick up on everything. Yes, we all have times when we are tired, or stressed and not coping, but that’s not what I mean. Children know when you are under stress and those times are forgiven and understood if you have a good, solid relationship with them. It’s the sustained way that people like Cat speak about parenthood that’s damaging. That will be spilling over from the internet to their real lives.

Like all relationships, you get back from your children what you put in. The relationship with your children is ultimately the most important of your life. It shapes them. These influencers should remember that.
 
monkey12345 said:
My heart is bleeding for her… went on holiday without children to Cyprus , crashed car and she can’t really afford to pay for repair .. but she took a stray cat and paid for all his blood test, food , vet etc … she is never happy
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Wow, shes so tone-deaf. She tried crowdfunding for the cat, wouldn't be surprised if she starts a gofund for her holiday car repair next. 🙄
 
Hens Teeth said:
Yes, let me just whip out £200 for a jumpsuit…get in the real world! Her page should be called ‘verysmugnow’
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And it’s so ugly. Not flattering at all. She can’t afford to pay for treatment for a cat she took in, she can’t afford to pay for a car she damaged … but £200 on a jumpsuit for a girls holiday and £2000 for a new phone, no problem!
 
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