Niomi Smart #4 where did Joey goey?

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CheshireLove said:
I think you’ve hit the nail on the head. It seems she thinks she’s sacrificed a lot for him and it appears to feel it wasn’t reciprocated.

Personally, I would have been really down given the number of times Joe didn’t show up when he said he would, flights delayed, working away etc etc. Would have driven me bonkers.
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Me too. Fair enough, that can happen but it seemed frequent with him. She was left waiting for him.
 
I did feel for her sometimes when Joe was working a lot and left her, especially when they moved to India and she was sat alone in a hotel. At the same time though, Joe had an actual real job, probably with deadlines and crunch times, and times he had to work late. I can't imagine being under pressure from work and having a sulky influencer at home, who couldn't possibly understand why sometimes you can't just blow off work to go for an acai bowl with your girlfriend.
 
Nina2312 said:
I like Niomi and I feel for her.
But I hope that this break up will open some of her followers eyes that no one's life is perfect. she spent almost all of her time painting this picture of her life that some of her audience felt horrible about theirs
I Know I sometimes did and my life is actually great.
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this is very much not meant as a personal attack but I’ve seen several people comment that she made them feel bad about themselves. IMO if an influencer or anyone posting about themselves makes you feel bad it’s an issue you need to work on, nothing to do with them. Learn to take social media with a pinch of salt.
 
Chocolate2008 said:
this is very much not meant as a personal attack but I’ve seen several people comment that she made them feel bad about themselves. IMO if an influencer or anyone posting about themselves makes you feel bad it’s an issue you need to work on, nothing to do with them. Learn to take social media with a pinch of salt.
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Yep. If someone online can make you not feel as worthy then you need to unfollow them... that is your insecurity problem, not theirs.
 
openbook1 said:
Yep. If someone online can make you not feel as worthy then you need to unfollow them... that is your insecurity problem, not theirs.
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People have said they unfollowed her because her posts made them feel tit.
I think the point was more, why did she want to brag to her audience, it's as if she was doing it so people would be jealous of her.

i can imagine she's the same as a friend. Imagine you complain to her about soemthing your boyfriend did, she'd be so unrelatable, telling you how amazing Joey is, and they never argued. You'd question yourself and your own relationship, wondering why it wasnt as perfect as theirs.
 
Chocolate2008 said:
this is very much not meant as a personal attack but I’ve seen several people comment that she made them feel bad about themselves. IMO if an influencer or anyone posting about themselves makes you feel bad it’s an issue you need to work on, nothing to do with them. Learn to take social media with a pinch of salt.
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Don't worry about it I know it's not personal.
I just think that sometimes you can't help but feeling down watching some YouTuber's videos or scrolling down instagram.
I'm not saying it's her fault even though I wish she'd share more of her real authentic life and feelings with the ups and downs and not always painting it to be perfect but I do know that SM does not reflect real life.
She has young followers that look up to her.
But then she maybe thinks that by doing that she's spreading positivity.
Sorry for my English
 
earlgrey said:
I did feel for her sometimes when Joe was working a lot and left her, especially when they moved to India and she was sat alone in a hotel. At the same time though, Joe had an actual real job, probably with deadlines and crunch times, and times he had to work late. I can't imagine being under pressure from work and having a sulky influencer at home, who couldn't possibly understand why sometimes you can't just blow off work to go for an acai bowl with your girlfriend.
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Lockdown could've easily made Joe realise that it wasn't the relationship for him, if he didn't spend loads of time with Niomi
 
Omg, I was just going to go check her youtube channel, as I haven't since lockdown started and they had to come back in England. I was on Tattlers for another influencer and stumbled upon Niomi's thread. I have nothing against her, but I had the feeling I might learn some things about her since she tries so hard to project this portrait of perfection. And omggg I need a recap. How can a couple, whose moved to India and looked so in love, I didn't even know she was engaged, are now not together ???
 
earlgrey said:
I did feel for her sometimes when Joe was working a lot and left her, especially when they moved to India and she was sat alone in a hotel. At the same time though, Joe had an actual real job, probably with deadlines and crunch times, and times he had to work late. I can't imagine being under pressure from work and having a sulky influencer at home, who couldn't possibly understand why sometimes you can't just blow off work to go for an acai bowl with your girlfriend.
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I did wonder about that a number of times as well. Did Niomi broke up? Do we know what happened ? Is it a case of post lockdown break up ?
 
To be honest, I´d be bitter as well ! 😅 Having to cancel everything and tell everybody..! It also does not seem like Joe would do any of it as it seems that he just up and left..!

Chocolate2008 said:
this is very much not meant as a personal attack but I’ve seen several people comment that she made them feel bad about themselves. IMO if an influencer or anyone posting about themselves makes you feel bad it’s an issue you need to work on, nothing to do with them. Learn to take social media with a pinch of salt.
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I agree...! If it was someone "too" real, we would say that she complained a lot, etc. and then we would be mad that she was complaining living such a privileged life..! but anyways, people are affected by outside information in different ways..!

But IMO, in the end - they did follow his schedule and life plans.... The big life events and also the daily bits - he was always SO absent (their only real experience of living together and doing stuff together was during lockdown in a 4 years relationship??)... my husband and I both have real jobs, with people that report to us and depend on us, but we have to make time, otherwise the relationship is gone.. At times you have to impose yourself limits at work, otherwise it consumes you ! And I think he never did that, because she was not his priority, his work seems to be at the moment (nothing against that if that´s what your going for, but then you should not be in a relationship)... I get that the tiny bit of their life that we saw through her vlogs the meals and activities were all her (and she IS controlling to the extreme as well), but IMO, it was her trying to make up for the lost time... I would be VERY upset if my significant other was this absent...

anyways.. I could be totally wrong, obviously this is just pure speculation...!
 
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