Niomi Smart #2 Glitch in the Gleam Bot, I'll just have to put Joe's fennel teabag back

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ava2014 said:
I think there was a huge fight between her and Joe because of his brother Freddie and their home situation
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Yeh I think the same, I wonder if she would break off the engagement or just try and go forward as she would be embarrassed having made such a show about it?
 
Honestly for someone who puts on all these airs and graces it’s pretty damn rude if she’s insisted Freddie is kicked out of that flat...wouldn’t dream of doing that to my husband’s siblings, seems horrifically rude of her to assume it’s even her place to comment on whatever arrangement the brothers had! Between her and Joe they have more than enough money to rent another place so idk what the issue is? Also lol at ‘the ring is being repaired’ doesn’t seem like Joe is with her at her Mum’s house right now either? Tbh, someone trying to kick my sibling out of a flat I own would make me seriously question the relationship. Especially if Freddie has unfollowed her, I’m not sure I’d be happy to marry someone who has caused a big rift with my siblings, that might be a deal breaker
 
creme.egg92 said:
Honestly for someone who puts on all these airs and graces it’s pretty damn rude if she’s insisted Freddie is kicked out of that flat...wouldn’t dream of doing that to my husband’s siblings, seems horrifically rude of her to assume it’s even her place to comment on whatever arrangement the brothers had! Between her and Joe they have more than enough money to rent another place so idk what the issue is? Also lol at ‘the ring is being repaired’ doesn’t seem like Joe is with her at her Mum’s house right now either? Tbh, someone trying to kick my sibling out of a flat I own would make me seriously question the relationship. Especially if Freddie has unfollowed her, I’m not sure I’d be happy to marry someone who has caused a big rift with my siblings, that might be a deal breaker
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yeh id imagine at that stage his parents would be questioning it too
 
Are people just guessing she‘s kicked Freddie out or is that confirmed?

I’ve never loved Niomi but I feel like even for me as a viewer, lockdown has exposed her to me in new ways. It‘s like somehow even over the screen, it’s harder to hide her toxic behaviour and little moments of snideness that have come through. Suddenly it’s so much more apparent how controlling and arrogant she is.

I think whatever is going on, quarantine has definitely been a test to their relationship. No escape from each other and I’m sure Joe has his own annoying ways but honestly it’s really really hard to live with someone with eating and exercise disorders... take it from someone who has had those issues myself... and then to live with them in such close non stop quarters. But aside from how difficult it is— because I would actually maybe be sympathetic to Niomi otherwise—I’ve been disgusted by the way she treats him around food, I usually don’t frame things this way but if a man talked to his GF about what she was eating in that way, we’d be out for blood and rightfully so. Like I said, I used to be like Niomi but even then would’ve never ever tried to micromanage my man’s eating and pass off that guilt and shame around food to him. That behaviour is on her and it‘s sad people just accept it as her encouraging others to be healthy when it’s messed up.
 
I'm sure nothing major happened, she's probably having a meltdown over the smallest thing to bait compassion and/or get Joey to change his mind on something. Cryptic yet very public posts are always used in emotional manipulation.

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getawaywithit said:
—I’ve been disgusted by the way she treats him around food, I usually don’t frame things this way but if a man talked to his GF about what she was eating in that way, we’d be out for blood and rightfully so. Like I said, I used to be like Niomi but even then would’ve never ever tried to micromanage my man’s eating and pass off that guilt and shame around food to him. That behaviour is on her and it‘s sad people just accept it as her encouraging others to be healthy when it’s messed up.
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Joe's brother Fred seems like a nice guy. I looked on his Instagram and he posts quite frequently about films he watches and recommends. He recently posted that he was a fan of Uncut Gems, which critiques the idea of suburban marital bliss. A major message of the film is that having marriage, excessive material wealth, and some kids does not mean you have a perfect life or happiness. As you watch the protagonist go about his day, you see all the unethicalness/fakeness required to keep up his facade, and it makes you feel stressed and disturbed. The main character sort of has a moment where he says 'stuff it I'll leave all this behind to be with a woman I truly love.'
Just an idea, I KNOW it's speculation etc etc but we will have nothing else to talk about as she goes silent over the next few days. It does add to my general impression that Fred may be locking horns with Niomi or advising his brother not to marry her somehow.
Also hope someone in the Woodward family has read this thread and seen the bullying allegations.
 
I agree there's something that's happened within the last week or so. Joe always likes her posts. The last post he liked was her wearing the brown dress on the 1st August. He hasn't liked her last five posts, from the ones with her in the blue dress onwards.
 
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