NickNackLou #8 Nicky nooman unbelievable hooman

[Ajtw09]

She’s moaning that she doesn’t feel well enough to go to London today? Even though she was away at the weekend? If she wasn’t ill, she’d (probably) be at work and therefore possibly not able to go to out later anyway. Because she’d be tired from going to work, or maybe having to do some overtime to get things done, or maybe having to head home straight from work to look after family/cook/clean, etc. It’s not just having cancer/being ill that stops people from bobbing up to London (or going out full stop ), it’s life in general. Sometimes she needs to realise that most people didn’t just go away at the weekend and then turn around and moan that two days later they can’t go somewhere else. She may have cancer but she also needs to check her privilege.

 

[AliceInWanderLost]

so sick of all her plans being ruined because of cancer?! she's out for meals with friends every few days, on overnight trips and weekends away, attending parties and events, hanging out with family and friends, going on "jaunts" to the beach, the shops, amusement arcades - not to mention all the incredible holidays and trips abroad she has been on, simply booking holidays at a whim because she can - yet she potentially isn't able to go on ONE trip to London and her reaction is a massive "behind the scenes" pity post for attention?! ffs she does way more stuff than any average person, and even without cancer, her body would still need to rest - i don't get why she needs a regularly monthly "realisation" where she announces that she has "overdone it" and "pushed herself too far" and needs to "listen to her bod", only to bounce out of bed the next day and continue as normal, and then seem surprised that her body needs to rest! especially when she knows she needs to be well enough to be able to have chemo - why wouldn't you prioritise your health instead of these endless "jaunts" when - despite feigning confusion - she is fully aware that she ends up tired and is placing herself at risk of illness etc by going out and about and spending time with so many different people. it's basic common sense.
"i don't know what's going on!" - it's hardly a great mystery, and the reason she is irritated that people keep asking what's wrong is because she is anxious that people are noticing the inconsistencies in her stories and are becoming aware of her lies! and as for her claims that this is all new and she hasn't experienced this before - if that's the case Nicky, why have you been sharing stories about pain/exhaustion/nausea etc that have now proved were total lies.

fine, she's disapppintment - but whatever she is missing out on that she was "really looking forward to" by being unable to go to London, guaranteed she'll mention it soon enough in the hope of blagging herself a freebie trip or gifted hotel stay etc at a later date, so that she doesn't have to miss out on a single thing - and will actually end up with a far more luxurious/fancy/expensive compensatory trip to make up for it. plus the guaranteed boost in GFM donations that today's post will result in with people feeling sorry for her that she isn't well enough for chemo - as though it isn't very likely a result of her prioritising hotel stays and holidays over her health, which is entirely HER CHOICE but pretty gross to then use it to manipulate people with by moaning that she's disappointed and trying to force out a few years - not to mention how she will currently be lapping up the attention and praise from all the comments about her bravery and beauty and strength, and how she's an inspiration and always will be etc.

it was very obvious from the photos she shared that towards the end of her weekend trip away, she ensured she had "spontaneous" photos taken, featuring her cane as a prop - all taken purposefully for a post just like this one - that even at the time, she was obviously planning to write, hence her being totally able to manage a party/hotel stay/brunch/game of air hockey with no issues, and then quickly snapped a range of photos of her in the sunshine/at the beach/eating ice-cream posed with a cane she isn't using for mobility purposes and is nothing more than a fashion accessory all for the sake of content. her behaviour is totally shameless.

 

[ginnyw]

Wonder if she made that brunch yesterday? I'm guessing yes. In which case, she's not really cancelling 'all' her plans, is she?

 

[Olgivy]

I must admit when she said…

“I don’t know if it’s because I’m poorly”

I was confused…

Because yes, any symptom, or general malaise can be attributed to the fact she has stage 4 terminal cancer, no? This seems obvious to me. But I’ve come to learn she does this from time to time. She acts like she has no idea why she feels unwell, or is shocked to have symptoms. I guess this is denial in full effect…

 

[Saydee]

Stick is back for hospital pre chemo bloods.

 

[BettyCrockerr]

Stick is back for hospital pre chemo bloods.

Naturally.


I find it sad that she doesn’t seem to enjoy her time or see any worth in her days unless she’s out & out doing something or going somewhere and can get instagram content out of it. She’s terminally ill and is on hench chemo - most people in her position would just be grateful to have a day at home where they can relax and potter around the house and take it easy but shes having a huff because she cant go to london…. Is it not enough to have a day at home with your husband? I honestly think she needs a bit of a reality check and start gettint real here. She seems to be in a state of denial about her situation.

 

[katesbess]

A huge red flag in her moan this morning was when she said ‘I’m not sure if I’m poorly/it’s nothing/chemo/tired’ sorry but you surely must know if you are properly unwell. Mr Gormless had a cold recently so it could be that. Also do you not know your body by now? I’m pretty good any interoception and surely having cancer you get to know your body signals? I get there may be new things going on but not ‘oh is it a cold or chemo or am I just low on coffee’. Yawn.

Of course she knows.shes said before she nos when somethings up.
She is always bloody moaning.and nothing bleeping stops her.she does more than your average fuck9ng person does who's well!
And I'm sorry she is now to blame if she has become poorly.if your push a cracked vase enough it will break quicker than one without a crack. She knows she has a terminal illness if she oushes it of course it will break in some way
At some point you have to take responsibility and not do those things.
She was also practically quoting these pages.talking of cancer getting in the way,stopping her doing stuff,missing and outing. Hey nicky.
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Oh and allthis is sympathy for thus...

 

[AliceInWanderLost]

ah, the obligatory and ever-predictable hospital selfie:

- half undressed to ensure her port is on show, despite having a huge range of accessible clothing
- not wearing a wig to emphasises her chemo hair loss purposefully shaved head
- no make-up to looks as pale and sick as possible - *obvs no-one should ever war make-up unless they want to, but as everyhthing with Nicky, how she dresses and whether she wears make-up/her wig/that irritating beanie etc is always very intentional
- cane being used as a proper for content, as she makes sure to share footage of her walking thru the hospital, camera focused on her feet to ensure the stick is clearly on view

 

[MissB123]

Nat boosting the drama

 

[Florence Nightingale]

ah, the obligatory and ever-predictable hospital selfie:

- half undressed to ensure her port is on show, despite having a huge range of accessible clothing
- not wearing a wig to emphasises her chemo hair loss purposefully shaved head
- no make-up to looks as pale and sick as possible - *obvs no-one should ever war make-up unless they want to, but as everyhthing with Nicky, how she dresses and whether she wears make-up/her wig/that irritating beanie etc is always very intentional
- cane being used as a proper for content, as she makes sure to share footage of her walking thru the hospital, camera focused on her feet to ensure the stick is clearly on view

Sorry my Tourette’s is coming out !! But she us doing my bleeping head in with her perpetual moaning her bleeping twatty undressed top when she has a zip in the middle she could just undo and her bleeping walking stick totally unnecessary and not bleeping needed. She is a bleeping cunty exhibitionist who LOVES THE ATTENTION and I’m sick sick sick of her she’s an embarrassment and lies all day every day, are her bleeping blind and stupid I mean come on look at her she’s a scammer but because she has cancer it’s acceptable I’m just so over her. Can she not be real or sincere or anything genuine please ? Just once

 

[ginnyw]

Sorry my Tourette’s is coming out !! But she us doing my bleeping head in with her perpetual moaning her bleeping twatty undressed top when she has a zip in the middle she could just undo and her bleeping walking stick totally unnecessary and not bleeping needed. She is a bleeping cunty exhibitionist who LOVES THE ATTENTION and I’m sick sick sick of her she’s an embarrassment and lies all day every day, are her bleeping blind and stupid I mean come on look at her she’s a scammer but because she has cancer it’s acceptable I’m just so over her. Can she not be real or sincere or anything genuine please ? Just once

Do you really have Tourette's, Flo? Just curious.

 

[Florence Nightingale]

Do you really have Tourette's, Flo? Just curious.

No I don’t Ginny hope I have offended

 

[ginnyw]

No I don’t Ginny hope I have offended

No, not at all. I was genuinely curious because my husband actually does have Tourette's (not the swearing sort, mercifully!)

 

[Florence Nightingale]

No, not at all. I was genuinely curious because my husband actually does have Tourette's (not the swearing sort, mercifully!)

Interesting I didn’t know there were different types ?

 

[ginnyw]

Interesting I didn’t know there were different types ?

Yes - lots of different versions. My husband has the tics but not the swearing. Besides which I do enough swearing for the both of us.

 

[AliceInWanderLost]

Interesting I didn’t know there were different types ?

i don't know if this is a good recommendation in terms of how how the program portrays tourettes generally, but i watched a documentary on channel 4 recently with Scarlett Moffatt, and i learnt a lot about tourettes and tics etc - physical vs verbal tics, really interesting!

 

[threeisthemagicnumber]

So Nic can’t have her chemo - it doesn’t take a genius to work out that she sounded like she has a cold even tho she can’t work that out by herself
The thing is she’s whizzing round doing loads of stuff / mixing with people and keeping herself skinny ( therefore no reserve ) and then thinks chunks of rest means she can then go full circle and party again
She needs to realise like her symptoms that seem to come n go you can’t yo-yo with loads of sleep n loads of partying … got to be a happy medium in order to keep yourself as well as poss whilst on treatment and that might mean missing a few events

 

[Florence Nightingale]

So Nic can’t have her chemo - it doesn’t take a genius to work out that she sounded like she has a cold even tho she can’t work that out by herself
The thing is she’s whizzing round doing loads of stuff / mixing with people and keeping herself skinny ( therefore no reserve ) and then thinks chunks of rest means she can then go full circle and party again
She needs to realise like her symptoms that seem to come n go you can’t yo-yo with loads of sleep n loads of partying … got to be a happy medium in order to keep yourself as well as poss whilst on treatment and that might mean missing a few events

Not sure a bowl of water I mean fruit is going to help much as it’s not really fuel and clearly not taking the anti sick pills because these really helped me and they normally work for her. She’s going to keep getting thinner and have nothing to fight with she could make milkshakes and have full fat milk and add ice coffee or some cream just to pack the calories in. She needs to want to help herself but she’s got rid of her larger clothes now, so clearly not wanting to put some weight on !!

 

[AliceInWanderLost]

Not sure a bowl of water I mean fruit is going to help much as it’s not really fuel and clearly not taking the anti sick pills because these really helped me and they normally work for her. She’s going to keep getting thinner and have nothing to fight with she could make milkshakes and have full fat milk and add ice coffee or some cream just to pack the calories in. She needs to want to help herself but she’s got rid of her larger clothes now, so clearly not wanting to put some weight on !!

okay, so i'm not implying that anyone having chemo should be sitting at home on their own, isolated and not going out - but logically, if she is already aware that her immune system isn't great and she's more at risk of catching illnesses etc, would you not prioritise trying to stay as well as possible, instead of taking every opportunity to mix with as many people as possible, stay in random hotels and eat meals out and generally expose yourself to every germ within a 100+ mile radius?! I genuinely don't get it! it's not as though she isn't aware of the impact these "jaunts" have on her body, because she highlights it every single time it happens - it's hardly difficult to recognise that using all up all your body's energy, having days where you don't eat sufficiently and placing yourself at risk of even stuff like catching a cold will all have an impact - as she has proved to herself multiple times before, with her returning home from holidays/days out etc and almost immediately being admitted to A&E - i don't get her inability to look at the bigger picture! of she doesn't want her chemo to be cancelled, she could put far more energy into resting and eating well, still doing things she enjoys but pacing herself and not bouncing around filming content and posing for photos, at different locations every other day, which would sorely reduce the risk of her body being even more run down and at risk of infection! sure, there is still a chance her bloods wouldn't be great, but the fact it happens alsmot every week and she feigns confusion as to why is entirely farcical! there's a very obvious pattern and it's not difficult to join the dots! trying to ensure her body is able to cope with chemo genuinely seems doesn't seem like a priority to her.

 

[katesbess]

living nick.but you,I think perhaps need to live in rest,for a while to let your body take everything it needs into fighting.you seek to do the bits In between that are the things that is making your bod actually to weak the to do the other and fight the illness. These are the things destroying you.im sorry when someone has a broken leg they don't think oh duck it I still want to do my marathon.they rest for however long it takes for the bones to fuse. She does more than most! And so it's her actions that are tiring her body in order for there to be nothing left to fight.
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It's like someone being given a new liver than drinking that night.