Curiouslycuriousstill
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I just think it would be funny if my husband tried to make me laugh doing something so silly but to be fair he wouldn’t waste the money our kids would love it though.
i get that people have different senses of humour and find different things funny - and tbh, if my partner randomly wandered into the room dressed as a lobster, i would likely find it funny, purely because it would be such an odd situation - and i can certainly see that it would appeal to children. Nicky seems incredibly childish, so maybe she genuinely did find it funny - but it seemed far meow as though it was all pre-planned and staged for content, whether Nicky knew it was going to happen or not, I think Mr G is well aware that the things ghat make Nicky happy as providing her with content she can share on IG, as it's the attention and comments and likes on her reels that really boosts her mood. same with Mr G turning up at the hospital to visit wearing a shirt matched with his slippers - i don't doubt that it cheered Nicky up, but more because it was an opportunity to take photos for her stories than because she truly finds it funny, in the way she claims.I just think it would be funny if my husband tried to make me laugh doing something so silly but to be fair he wouldn’t waste the money our kids would love it though.
Could not agree more with this!As an introvert, I hate that being loud and zany is conflated with having a personality. Ugh. I really dislike being around people like that. They rarely have anything of substance to say. It's all surface
Me too. I find I feel actually unwell and need to retreat to recover.As an introvert, I hate that being loud and zany is conflated with having a personality. Ugh. I really dislike being around people like that. They rarely have anything of substance to say. It's all surface
Yes, me too. Introversion is much-underrated and much-misunderstood. People always think it means that you hide away on your own, and whilst that is part of it, the introverts that I know choose their company carefully and with the right people, can be talkative and fun. But it has to be the right people. I actually love being an introvert and as I've got older I'm far better at saying 'no' to the wrong sorts of situations and gatherings. Nicky is clearly an extrovert of the highest order.Me too. I find I feel actually unwell and need to retreat to recover.
She only has a private room never seen her on a ward.i get that people have different senses of humour and find different things funny - and tbh, if my partner randomly wandered into the room dressed as a lobster, i would likely find it funny, purely because it would be such an odd situation - and i can certainly see that it would appeal to children. Nicky seems incredibly childish, so maybe she genuinely did find it funny - but it seemed far meow as though it was all pre-planned and staged for content, whether Nicky knew it was going to happen or not, I think Mr G is well aware that the things ghat make Nicky happy as providing her with content she can share on IG, as it's the attention and comments and likes on her reels that really boosts her mood. same with Mr G turning up at the hospital to visit wearing a shirt matched with his slippers - i don't doubt that it cheered Nicky up, but more because it was an opportunity to take photos for her stories than because she truly finds it funny, in the way she claims.
realistically though, whatever the real reason it cheers her up - whether because it creates content or she genuinely finds it entertaining - it doesn't bother me if it happens into their own home. the idea that he wsd planning to turn up to visit her in hospital in a lobster costume would have been an entirely different matter and I would have seen it as crass and inappropriate, on a ward of sick people and busy nurses etc - in exa the same way Nicky's reels filmed in her usual cancer ward are highly inapp, when she dresses up in stupid costumes and ropes the nurses in to dance in her reels, or ot hold the camera while she dicks around in a wheelchair and sparkly cape. tbh, i think both Nicky and Alex are far too used to her being on the teen ward, where all the staff cater to her dramatic and childish behaviour, where Alex dressing up as a lobster likely wouldn't faze them, become what Nicky wants, Nicky gets - regardless onf the impact on any of he other patients.
that may be the case, but it doesn't mean her behaviour doesn't impact other patients or disrupt the ward! when her dad was dicking around in that wheelchair, he didn't stay in her room - he was in the corridor, and potentially getting in the way of the nurses, while potentially upsetting other patients - and given the way she has filmed eels of herself in the hospital corridors, whether walking with her drip stand, or during her "escapes" to costa, or being wheeled around wearing that sequined cape, it wouldn't surprise me if she was planning to film a reel of Alex in his lobster costume - and even if he was genuinely planning to surprise her, she would have immediately grabbed her phone to create content, which likely wouldn't have only remained in her room - or certainly would have involved her asking nurses to film her reaction etc. having her own room doesn't mean her antics don't impact other patients - and certainly not the staff trying to do their job!She only has a private room never seen her on a ward.
I couldn’t agree more she’s a attention seeking insufferable pain in the arse who just doesn’t carethat may be the case, but it doesn't mean her behaviour doesn't impact other patients or disrupt the ward! when her dad was dicking around in that wheelchair, he didn't stay in her room - he was in the corridor, and potentially getting in the way of the nurses, while potentially upsetting other patients - and given the way she has filmed eels of herself in the hospital corridors, whether walking with her drip stand, or during her "escapes" to costa, or being wheeled around wearing that sequined cape, it wouldn't surprise me if she was planning to film a reel of Alex in his lobster costume - and even if he was genuinely planning to surprise her, she would have immediately grabbed her phone to create content, which likely wouldn't have only remained in her room - or certainly would have involved her asking nurses to film her reaction etc. having her own room doesn't mean her antics don't impact other patients - and certainly not the staff trying to do their job!
What's costa?that may be the case, but it doesn't mean her behaviour doesn't impact other patients or disrupt the ward! when her dad was dicking around in that wheelchair, he didn't stay in her room - he was in the corridor, and potentially getting in the way of the nurses, while potentially upsetting other patients - and given the way she has filmed eels of herself in the hospital corridors, whether walking with her drip stand, or during her "escapes" to costa, or being wheeled around wearing that sequined cape, it wouldn't surprise me if she was planning to film a reel of Alex in his lobster costume - and even if he was genuinely planning to surprise her, she would have immediately grabbed her phone to create content, which likely wouldn't have only remained in her room - or certainly would have involved her asking nurses to film her reaction etc. having her own room doesn't mean her antics don't impact other patients - and certainly not the staff trying to do their job!
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Exactly.and wards especially the emergency ones are pro actively tried to keep very low,very quiet,calm. Families are asked to be quieter than usual.just to keep that level of peaceful calm as they can. It's some thing every role in the wards is reminded of daily from porters to doctors they would have all been agog at her audacityI couldn’t agree more she’s a attention seeking insufferable pain in the arse who just doesn’t care
She actually looks very ill now. I don’t think she’s got long left.I really can’t see her getting back on chemo now and I think she’s in denial about that.
What he she referencing now ? All coming crawling back ?! Is that a subtle dig ?That voice is starting to grate on me...they all come craaawling back! Do they aye?