Nicknacklou #13 We have now entered Black Mirror territory

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AllTeeAllShade said:
It could for sure be just her drumming up engagement for the inevitable port-accessible clothing range. If that's not the case, and she is sadly dying now, it is absolutely terrifying how fast she's deteriorated. I've followed her for years, and seemed to breeze through cancer for so long. I can't believe how quickly it all seems to have gone downhill.
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To be honest shes been deteriorating for about 18 months now really, maybe nearer 2 years. Shes rattled through treatment lines, she’s had endless issues with her bloods etc
 
i dont think she should have put him on her page. its clearly wasnt his choice.
he never wanted to gram life. from the off. and used to be alot more vocal in saying no. dont film,and or dashing out the way quickly.
and to make him carry on this after shes gone. and especially if that means bringing out a product and all that entails. nah. that would be so awful for him.
let him grieve and then live in the way he wants to. privately. off the internet. no interviews. no camera in his face. just offline. and i think because his complete offline presence hed also be alot more vulnerable to social media and all that tit thats currently bringing to many.

i do not want to see her husband after shes gone in his grief. its not fair.
 
clancyjan said:
I think it’s likely she’s at EOL now, she’s had the syringe driver for over a week now and district nurses daily. In my experience with my mum the syringe driver is the beginning of the end and she will sleep a lot. I could be totally wrong. She should step away from SM and just be with her family.
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This is exactly my experience with my dad - his hospice at home nurse told me that once the syringe driver is in place it’s the beginning of the end - he died peacefully less than 24 hours later.When I wrote this there were comments saying people have friends/family that had syringe drivers for years but they’re missing the point - they were not EOL. Syringe drivers used in EOL are due to pain, agitation, anxiety etc not being controlled with oral or injectable meds. Saying this I still get mind fucked when u then see her pissing about in a sainsburys wheelchair and stuffing her face at family get togethers standing up and posing with no issues - nothing ever makes sense.
I stopped following her months ago and occasionally dip in to have a nosy on her posts and follow this page. I deal with chronic pain that has driven me to taking an overdose 4 years ago when I couldn’t cope with the pain any longer, I have to use a wheelchair and aids to get about and NNL really effected me numerous times with her go grab life and how she said she was in terrible pain yet couple of hours later she’d be out at an expensive restaurant etc it made me feel like I was a failure, like something is wrong with me not being able to switch my pain on and off like that and for my own sanity I stopped following her. Regardless of her antics I am pleased she’s stopped posting and with the syringe driver in place she’ll have a peaceful passing with her family by her side
I thinkit’s so sad that she had such a huge platform that she could have used to help others but the only person she was intent on helping was herself and sadly that will be her legacy
katesbess said:
i dont think she should have put him on her page. its clearly wasnt his choice.
he never wanted to gram life. from the off. and used to be alot more vocal in saying no. dont film,and or dashing out the way quickly.
and to make him carry on this after shes gone. and especially if that means bringing out a product and all that entails. nah. that would be so awful for him.
let him grieve and then live in the way he wants to. privately. off the internet. no interviews. no camera in his face. just offline. and i think because his complete offline presence hed also be alot more vulnerable to social media and all that tit thats currently bringing to many.

i do not want to see her husband after shes gone in his grief. its not fair.
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i reckon she just put him on to announce when she’s passed he’s not at all interested in selling his soul to gymwear or deodorant companies otherwise he would have joined her in her adverts many months ago
 
I reckon they’ve had an agreement that he will update the page when she has died, it was probably a horrible conversation which they compromised at him just being added to her insta. I can imagine him going along with it to appease her. Given the lack of updates over the last few days (which reading between the lines I presume she is either dying or dead) and his lack of comms, I reckon he is very uncomfortable with the idea of running the account. I think we will see an update of her death in the next few weeks, potentially an update of some fundraising and then we will never hear from him again.
 
I know it's morbid but do we think it will be a post written by nicky 'if you are seeing this post it means I am no more' but continue to tappy tap this link and #ad or Alex will be expected to put something together? I expect she will have planned it out and be in drafts ready to go. Then Alex will do another post in time thanking everyone for the support, then that should be it for the page I think.
 
I notice that even though both Chloe and Georgie started off the day posting, neither have posted on their stories in hours and hours ?. I don’t pay close attention to either them but that’s off for them isn’t it? I think even if not today, their silence in the future might be indicative of when something happens and then they’ll be all over it when an office announcement is made
 
Justmebeingnosey said:
I know it's morbid but do we think it will be a post written by nicky 'if you are seeing this post it means I am no more' but continue to tappy tap this link and #ad or Alex will be expected to put something together? I expect she will have planned it out and be in drafts ready to go. Then Alex will do another post in time thanking everyone for the support, then that should be it for the page I think.
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Oh my god I think you're right. I can so imagine her having done an "if you're reading this I've passed away" post. I hope for Alex's sake he's not been roped into doing too much social media after she's gone. My guess is that they added him to the account to plug her clothing range-- or whatever the project is-- after she's gone. But hopefully after that he'll be able to grieve in peace. I feel awful for him, he must be going through hell now. Annoying as we find her, he seems to sincerely adore her.
 
Justmebeingnosey said:
I know it's morbid but do we think it will be a post written by nicky 'if you are seeing this post it means I am no more' but continue to tappy tap this link and #ad or Alex will be expected to put something together? I expect she will have planned it out and be in drafts ready to go. Then Alex will do another post in time thanking everyone for the support, then that should be it for the page I think.
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i have honestly been resisting the urge to say this, because I didn't want it to seem insensitive, but i do think it's likely she will have prewritten a goodbye style post, saved in her drafts for Alex to share once she's gone - and that it will include an #ad for women's best. it genuinely wouldn't surprise me in the slightest, given that the post discussing her funeral plan and also quite a few reels with devastating health updates have all been used to advertise women's best. 🤷🏻‍♂️
 
Jumping on here because I didn’t realise she had a thread in all honesty. I met Nick on my honeymoon last year, she was honestly really lovely to me. I didn’t know who she was it was only until I saw her tag the same hotel as me I realised she had a whole instagram following. I know there are people who dislike her, and don’t agree with her choices. Her quietness has concerned me the past couple of days, if she is deteriorating I hope she’s spending the time with her family and as is as comfortable as she can be❤️
 
I don't think she will be back on. She's been silent for too long now, not even a post of the cat laid on her to protect how she may look or sound. I feel she's far too poorly.
Although I thought before when she said she was having a calm peaceful time was her saying the end was pretty near, then we had laptop planning sainsburys shopping and doughnut eating so I guess anything is possible. But to go from being soooo active to silent for this long is so unusual, I really hope she's just being present with family. I can't imagine how hard it is for them all.
 
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itsonlymexxx said:
This is exactly my experience with my dad - his hospice at home nurse told me that once the syringe driver is in place it’s the beginning of the end - he died peacefully less than 24 hours later.When I wrote this there were comments saying people have friends/family that had syringe drivers for years but they’re missing the point - they were not EOL. Syringe drivers used in EOL are due to pain, agitation, anxiety etc not being controlled with oral or injectable meds. Saying this I still get mind fucked when u then see her pissing about in a sainsburys wheelchair and stuffing her face at family get togethers standing up and posing with no issues - nothing ever makes sense.
I stopped following her months ago and occasionally dip in to have a nosy on her posts and follow this page. I deal with chronic pain that has driven me to taking an overdose 4 years ago when I couldn’t cope with the pain any longer, I have to use a wheelchair and aids to get about and NNL really effected me numerous times with her go grab life and how she said she was in terrible pain yet couple of hours later she’d be out at an expensive restaurant etc it made me feel like I was a failure, like something is wrong with me not being able to switch my pain on and off like that and for my own sanity I stopped following her. Regardless of her antics I am pleased she’s stopped posting and with the syringe driver in place she’ll have a peaceful passing with her family by her side
I thinkit’s so sad that she had such a huge platform that she could have used to help others but the only person she was intent on helping was herself and sadly that will be her legacy

i reckon she just put him on to announce when she’s passed he’s not at all interested in selling his soul to gymwear or deodorant companies otherwise he would have joined her in her adverts many months ago
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Sorry but you don't no this.
You don't no what he stance is now. Of course she has t "quite said.
Stopping treatment can mean all sorts. And it can last for longer that you mention.
Just like palliative can be years.
And yes my friend was terminal and had to have a syringe drive because he reacted so severely to the chemo he just could not orally take it in. And needed the medication badly. So he went on one. Still here.still palliative.still terminal. Has been at what we all thought eol bleeping twice and pulled through.and it's been horrific both times!
Stopping active treatment can mean many things to the individual.
Also another lady was on eol driver. Driver came out she was going for another 129 days before die in the end. She needed 24hour medication though,hence the driver for a time.
A driver is a scary thing. And people saying it means eol fuels that fear. When actually being put on a driver doesn't always mean your going to die. It's for consistent medication over 24hours. So is incredibly helpful.expecially when people are anxious,weaker etc. It's also incredibly helpful for getting people home. Instead of in and out of hospital. Some people can be incredibly hard for managing pain, getting them on an even keel when they are up and down healthwise is hard. And them being in and out of the hospital setting just becomes distressing. And makes the whole illness feel worse. A driver keeps them stable.gets them home.
It's one of the most commonly asked ,and biggest worries for people so let's not fuel that.
Of course It could well be for nn.
But people have examples of otherwise.
 
Justmebeingnosey said:
I don't think she will be back on. She's been silent for too long now, not even a post of the cat laid on her to protect how she may look or sound. I feel she's far too poorly.
Although I thought before when she said she was having a calm peaceful time was her saying the end was pretty near, then we had laptop planning sainsburys shopping and doughnut eating so I guess anything is possible. But to go from being soooo active to silent for this long is so unusual, I really hope she's just being present with family. I can't imagine how hard it is for them all.
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When did she last post on instagram?
Was she this quiet when she was last in hospital?
I honestly don't remember
It is a bit odd...she posted a whole bunch last time
Food shopping, about her fake tan..the birthday parties and seemed fine and then boom silence
All I can think is maybe doing so much was just too much for her body.
Heavy duty pain killers make you so tired
All you want to do is sleep.
 
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