NickNackLou #11

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Yeah I know I’d just personally want it to go to family not set a man and his future family up for life but that’s just me

Loads of people like the peace of mind of knowing their spouse is taken care of, she loves him, why wouldn't she want him to have it? Why should he live in misery forever, the poor man deserves another chance of love. Christ what a bunch of misery guts we have here this morning.
 
Personally I’d be happy with my husband getting our estate / my life insurance paying off our mortgage. Regardless of ‘new family’ ‘new wife’ (which IMO are quite unnecessary comments), my husband would be my caregiver should I ever receive a terminal cancer diagnosis and I think it’s also fair to say Alex has supported NNL through a lot. I don’t think the concern of someone moving on in the years after a death should be a reason to withhold money from them.

I do think it’s very sad what she’s going through, but agree with the comments that she needs to now just focus on herself, her family and enjoying what could be the last weeks or months of her life. I can’t imagine how upsetting it must be for Alex right now
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Loads of people like the peace of mind of knowing their spouse is taken care of, she loves him, why wouldn't she want him to have it? Why should he live in misery forever, the poor man deserves another chance of love. Christ what a bunch of misery guts we have here this morning.
Totally agree with this. Should he just be alone forever? It’s not his fault they’re in this situation
 
My dad went into hospital with pretty much identical symptoms from being off treatment . The plan was to get him stable enough for palliative chemo and get his pain meds sorted. He died 7 days later. This is a very real possibility for Nicky. She must be terrified because I know my dad was and he was the strongest person I’ve ever known
 
Loads of people like the peace of mind of knowing their spouse is taken care of, she loves him, why wouldn't she want him to have it? Why should he live in misery forever, the poor man deserves another chance of love. Christ what a bunch of misery guts we have here this morning.
I've an insurance policy to help my husband if I should die. As you say, loads of people do this. He will need all the help he can get, in all areas.
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Ye lads I get it already can yee stop policing what I say please... I heard yas , yas don't agree cool no one's making yas
Okay, we'll stop doing a witch-hunt (or witch-hunt, seeing as this is Tattle) on one of our own now! Moving on.
 
My dad went into hospital with pretty much identical symptoms from being off treatment . The plan was to get him stable enough for palliative chemo and get his pain meds sorted. He died 7 days later. This is a very real possibility for Nicky. She must be terrified because I know my dad was and he was the strongest person I’ve ever known

I'm very sorry to hear about your Dad. I too lost my Dad to this evil disease and I can't bare to see anyone go through it. It always rings alarm bells for me when someone in this stage becomes inpatient because my experience was also the same, he didn't leave and the end was horrific. I am scared for her and very sad. There is alot she does that drives me insane but she doesn't deserve this and I can't begin to imagine how she must be feeling.
 
My dad went into hospital with pretty much identical symptoms from being off treatment . The plan was to get him stable enough for palliative chemo and get his pain meds sorted. He died 7 days later. This is a very real possibility for Nicky. She must be terrified because I know my dad was and he was the strongest person I’ve ever known

The same happened to my Dad and my Grandad too and we lost them both within a week.
 
Grief tourists trying to preach and take the higher ground in this thread of all ones? Think some people are in the wrong place 🤪
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Loads of people like the peace of mind of knowing their spouse is taken care of, she loves him, why wouldn't she want him to have it? Why should he live in misery forever, the poor man deserves another chance of love. Christ what a bunch of misery guts we have here this morning.
You have children so obviously I think it’s different. Not misery guts- just an opinion and I’m allowed it :)
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Grief tourists trying to preach and take the higher ground in this thread of all ones? Think some people are in the wrong place 🤪
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You have children so obviously I think it’s different. Not misery guts- just an opinion and I’m allowed it :)
Also he shouldn’t live in misery no. How are you taking that from me saying I think her family should get support and money too… he will never struggle. I encourage him to move on! 10000 per cent. Don’t know why he needs all her money to do this. Kind of like everyone saying about her begging for money when personally I see her payouts where for THAT reason- so she could love her last years going away etc. If she wanted to! It’s her money basically not his.
 
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That's between them, though. If I were terminally ill, I would want all my estate to go to my husband and I'd want him to find happiness in another relationship too, because I love him. It'd be a no-brainer for me
Yeh same. But like I said, the insurance money in my opinion should go on Nicki and not just her husbands financial future. If I was her husband I’d be encouraging her to use the money for herself and holidays instead of begging. Or some to family. Just my opinion. If they had kids obviously that would be different. Also- you can’t come on a gossip thread about a public Instagram and say no one can have opinions on things or it’s between “them”…
 
Yeh same. But like I said, the insurance money in my opinion should go on Nicki and not just her husbands financial future. If I was her husband I’d be encouraging her to use the money for herself and holidays instead of begging. Or some to family. Just my opinion. If they had kids obviously that would be different. Also- you can’t come on a gossip thread about a public Instagram and say no one can have opinions on things or it’s between “them”…
I meant, since It must not have been clear enough for you, that whatever arrangement they've got is obviously the one they want. If she wants to "set up his new family" (what a perverse way to look at things), then so be it.
 
Tbh these threads always descend to this but I think it's very bad taste talking about someone's 'new family' (if he ever does) when the poor woman is still here! Especially as she was diagnosed whilst going through IVF. Last thing she needs to be thinking about.

Also life insurance isn't Nic's money and never was, it's an insurance companies payout based on rotten luck. She isn't giving away anything herself.
 
Tbh these threads always descend to this but I think it's very bad taste talking about someone's 'new family' (if he ever does) when the poor woman is still here! Especially as she was diagnosed whilst going through IVF. Last thing she needs to be thinking about.

Also life insurance isn't Nic's money and never was, it's an insurance companies payout based on rotten luck. She isn't giving away anything herself.
Would she not have nominated the beneficiary? (I'm not in the UK)
 
This thread has taken a very bizarre turn today….


anyway, it is perfectly normal and the usual arrangement that when your spouse dies you as their husband or wife are the beneficiary of their estate, if the shoe was on the other foot in this situation im sure no one here would be suggesting that if Alex died then Nicky should be happy for his parents to get his money/house etc and leave nicky with nothing?
 
It’s none of our business what finances are in place it’s between them I’m flabbergasted reading some of these comments especially saying Nicky & Alex’s money goes to her family absolute nonsense. Excuse me but I think he’s been paying the mortgage and bills for a number of years and is just as entitled to the money. With regards to having empathy for Nicky it’s quite difficult at times to feel like that because of her behaviour and it’s true she has been more than happy to take take take and from her never attending any events unless they are about her speaks volumes. It’s fact not fiction. Her cancer doesn’t and shouldn’t excuse her selfish and greedy choices nobody has forced her into her current lifestyle as a “Digital Creator” but her personality has changed dramatically making other terminally ill patients feel worthless well that has been very hard to read. Nothing is real with Nicky and if it’s true she is on SM today and doesn’t update her 🐑 that is really a crappy thing to do but she is the master of manipulation isn’t she. If you want to have empathy and feel sad that’s ok but if, because of everything you detest her then that is ok too. Let’s all remember we are all on Tattle for a reason right ? If some don’t want to be a hypocrite that’s ok but all the summarising is not necessary about her mortgage etc it’s just not worth all the petty arguments. Peace out guys xx
 
I meant, since It must not have been clear enough for you, that whatever arrangement they've got is obviously the one they want. If she wants to "set up his new family" (what a perverse way to look at things), then so be it.
So be it indeed fishy
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It’s none of our business what finances are in place it’s between them I’m flabbergasted reading some of these comments especially saying Nicky & Alex’s money goes to her family absolute nonsense. Excuse me but I think he’s been paying the mortgage and bills for a number of years and is just as entitled to the money. With regards to having empathy for Nicky it’s quite difficult at times to feel like that because of her behaviour and it’s true she has been more than happy to take take take and from her never attending any events unless they are about her speaks volumes. It’s fact not fiction. Her cancer doesn’t and shouldn’t excuse her selfish and greedy choices nobody has forced her into her current lifestyle as a “Digital Creator” but her personality has changed dramatically making other terminally ill patients feel worthless and that has been very hard to read. Nothing is real with Nicky and if it true she is on SM today and doesn’t update her 🐑 that is really a crappy thing to do but she is the master of manipulation isn’t she. If you want to have empathy and feel sad that’s ok but if because of everything you detest her then that is ok too. Let’s all remember we are all on Tattle for a reason right ? If some don’t want to be a hypocrite that’s ok but all the summarising is not necessary about her mortgage etc it’s just not worth all the petty arguments. Peace out guys xx
tldr x
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I meant, since It must not have been clear enough for you, that whatever arrangement they've got is obviously the one they want. If she wants to "set up his new family" (what a perverse way to look at things), then so be it.
How is that perverse but you are the one calling her a money grabber when it’s her money (in previous comments) to grab??? Which is my point. The money was so she doesn’t have to work in her final years doing the gram which you slag her off for. She can’t win can she. Anyway ignoring you now hunni.
 
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