NickNackLou #11

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ginnyw said:
'Would anyone like to take me out for ice-cream tomorrow?' This is the weirdest response to being ill in hospital ever. Is she seriously trying to blag more free stuff? And why the f-ing buggery bollocks does her husband not know how to keep his tongue in his mouth? What's WRONG with the man?
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guaranteed she's hoping that hinting at being taken out for ice cream will result in a #gifted visit from an ice cream van, handing out freebie ice creams to the whole ward in Nicky's honour - probably with lightning bolt sprinkles. she must be aware she isn't well enough to be taken out for ice-cream, although given the way she has ignored advice and jetted off on holidays in the past, i'msure she would be happy to go out on a jaunt, against medical advice, if an ice cream palour reached out with a freebie! 🙄🙄

i don't get why she is gleefully describing being pushed around the hospital car park in a wheelchair as Mr G and her dad - "my boys" 🤢 - as "escape artists", implying that they have smuggled her off the ward in secret, despite the previous story explicitly stating that she got "full permission" to go. outside. 🤦🏻‍♂️
 
Chronic illness influencers often want to depict themselves as the specialest patient. Simultaneously a naughty little wee girl :sleep: and the nurses’ favourite darlingest pet. It’s really common (and creepy) among the chronic-but-not-terminal, ED crossover crowd. Not surprised to see similar behaviour from NNL.

All of that aside, I do feel sorry for her. I wish for her own sake and her family’s sake she’d log off now and focus on real world support. I know that’s unlikely - but I don’t take any pleasure in seeing her suffer, no matter how annoying she is.
 
At this point, I feel more concerned than infuriated. Not because her behaviour isn’t infuriating, but because she seems to need some more specialist care that, judging by her hospital content, she isn’t getting. Has she seen a counsellor? Or a therapist?? Because her ecstatic joy isn’t real. I see fear and very genuine terror and something like denial, and that doesn’t make me angry anymore. It just makes me sad. She’s gone from 35 to 5 in a very short space of time (drastically more than normal).
 
She's not delusional.she just upppigg the anti. Illness influencers all do this. We don't understand because we don't have that bleep mindset. But it's a symptom of the type of people on these platforms not the mentally unwell. She's not delusional.or lying to herself. She's hamming it up like she always does. We've seen her act fine when she needs to and her brand is this bright shining star through the worse times. Nick is the woman she all wants us to think as " she judt kept smiling throughout it all she always tried to see the big ball of joy." It her brand. Bowel babe was leaking in her gut and she was dancing. She couldn't walk yet stuck on a sequin skirt.
Mrs hinch posts pictures of her CHILD In hospital or hints at ND.
Charlotte Dawson does the whole dead dad,bit of a dork jumping around showing her naked child and joking about his errection.
One cancer influencer post about her body naked. How she's lost confidence due to cancer etc etc.
Oldie lock and his bf is plastering there tiny ill children all over YouTube. Showing the surrogate having a scan.
Mum's showing their children in distress
In the bath. Cracking eggs on their heads is the current trend for reaction.
Some will go moral high ground vegan.
All will post themselves in hospital if itnever occurs.
Show their holidays.
Meals
Them on the toilet.
Dad deaths.
Baby deaths
Dog deaths
Births
Food
Special occasions
Parents death
Ill family
Pictured of them in bed in a morning.
Having a shower
On the bleeping loo
This is the sm culture.
This is nick.
One shows domestic abuse.
Food pantry
A child who shat on the walls
A child having a autism meltdown
A non verbal child unable to say "mum"
Social servicd visits.

I don't no what personality type this is. But it's there. And sm doesn't make them,more attracts them.
Nick has hyped up like it fueling it.the worse she gets the more she thrives on the attention.
She DOESalsi lie about symptoms and her state.
But she loves the look at me.the ill.the sick enough feeling. She's almost competitive with it.
But they all do it on there
Just last month a couple faked the woman's death to film relatives reaction to her loss!
It's sick. But it's not delusional.she tells us again and again what's wrong with her like she's passed some.sort of "sickest" exam.
You don't reveal and do what she does in the way she does it without being a twit.
Munch syndrome maybe. But if you were telling your story to help or heal she wouldn't be doing it in such an ego'd manipulative calculated way.
 
OMG what a brilliant essay, katesbess, summing up so many sides to the beast. I think it's Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

But a new manifestation because social media never existed before. Usually so much of their dysfunction stays hidden, but the camera reveals new and shocking insights. Time to update the DSM-5 (the psychiatrist's professional manual).

You're right. Nicky's not unique, just more extreme than most. Can't be put in a nutshell but if you had to: arrested development.

PS: I have a textbook on NPD by Otto Kernberg, who taught at Columbia Uni in NY ("Borderline Conditions and Pathological Narcissism") - anyway, he pointed out that they're really not even as mature as a normal toddler, who is capable of real love and empathy - and at least some "reality testing". Sufferers of NPD aren't capable of that.

They're infantile but attempting some facsimile of being an adult. They're stuck in infancy -- when the child can't see its mother as a separate individual person - she's like an extension of himself. The narcissist has never "individuated" and they can't see other people as individuals either. BIZARRE. But real. Their world isn't real - they don't live in reality - it's some confused dream-like creation of their stunted minds.
 
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Elpis said:
You're right. Nicky's not unique, just more extreme than most. Can't be put in a nutshell but if you had to: arrested development.
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They're infantile but attempting some facsimile of being an adult. They're stuck in infancy (...)
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I have been thinking about this for some time. She was trying to have IVF, right? I can't imagine her as a mother, when she behaves like an infant herself most of the time.
 
Saz007 said:
Her latest 2 posts beggar belief tbh, firstly that she’s that cheerful and well enough to post about it all and secondly that she’s that happy to go for ultrasounds and chest X-rays , there’s definitely something mentally wrong there.
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I think she loves the attention-its the niki show after all.. like others have said, whenever I’ve been in hospital poorly I hardly picked up my phone, didn’t have the strength do so, but the difference is niki craves the attention from the sheep, i don’t understand how so many think this women is their friend, they are sending a stranger money, it’s so bloody bizarre
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BettyCrockerr said:
Is she going to actually follow through here and tell us all what the outcome of this 3am emergency CT/MRI scan was?! Is there another reel incoming? She is ridiculous
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My daughter is a nurse she said- when patients in hospital require scans they are slotted in between the outpatient appointment scans, she said it’s not unusual for patients to be scanned during the nights as the machines are ready and available. But of course niki has to stir the drama pot using the word emergency.
 
Alex taking the wigs to hospital, the food draw, constant showing of leg, setting up her toiletries as though she's in a hotel, it's all fake. This is the problem with her, she's always looking for content to keep her followers interested, and uses it as an avoidance technique to avoid what's actually happening. If you watch the way Alex has his hand behind her or how he holds her hand whilst they are going for ice cream, there is definitely a change in the roles and he's taken on carer. I shoukd imagine away from Instagram there's alot of tears, demands, tantrums and childish behaviour. There is no way NNL will be coping with this hospital stay and all sunshine and light.
 
Dix99 said:
Alex taking the wigs to hospital, the food draw, constant showing of leg, setting up her toiletries as though she's in a hotel, it's all fake. This is the problem with her, she's always looking for content to keep her followers interested, and uses it as an avoidance technique to avoid what's actually happening. If you watch the way Alex has his hand behind her or how he holds her hand whilst they are going for ice cream, there is definitely a change in the roles and he's taken on carer. I shoukd imagine away from Instagram there's alot of tears, demands, tantrums and childish behaviour. There is no one NNL will be coping with this hospital stay and all sunshine and light.
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Yeah i noticed when they were sat on the bed together with the wigs he moved his hand to support her back.i hope he has some support outwith Nicky and her family, he needs some normal people in his life to help him navigate this.
 
BettyCrockerr said:
Yeah i noticed when they were sat on the bed together with the wigs he moved his hand to support her back.i hope he has some support outwith Nicky and her family, he needs some normal people in his life to help him navigate this.
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You can see the concern and worry in Alex’s face now as you say Betty, I hope he has support too, his own family seem normal and nice (from the snippets we’ve seen they don’t seem into SM , well done to them) hopefully they will be a tower of strength to him behind the scenes now.
 
She's delusional and clearly not coping. To put "look how happy my dad is" in her story, when his daughter who has terminal cancer is in hospital and her husband is pushing her along in a wheelchair speaks volumes.
Her instagram is starting to resemble some weird netflix film, that you don't really want to continue watching, but feel you have to as you've watched so much of it. I feel like a horrible person for saying that, and I don't like her, but what a terribly sad situation for her whole family.
 
BettyCrockerr said:
Yeah i noticed when they were sat on the bed together with the wigs he moved his hand to support her back.i hope he has some support outwith Nicky and her family, he needs some normal people in his life to help him navigate this.
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I likr to think his family are there for him, it really must be taking its toll. As much as she annoys us his life has been on this awful rollercoaster for years. I still think she was ridiculous for going to Disney, she always comes back and this happens within a couple of weeks.
 
I'm sure she will be planning the next holiday, it's all she seems to live for. I really do feel for Alex, he seems to just go along with it. It must be so difficult, he's got to deal with the drama, the erratic behaviours, I should imagine many meltdowns and tantrums, and constantly appease her, whilst also take care of her. I hope he has support, he will definitely need it more over the next few months and I can't see her family being able to offer it.
 
Dix99 said:
I'm sure she will be planning the next holiday, it's all she seems to live for. I really do feel for Alex, he seems to just go along with it. It must be so difficult, he's got to deal with the drama, the erratic behaviours, I should imagine many meltdowns and tantrums, and constantly appease her, whilst also take care of her. I hope he has support, he will definitely need it more over the next few months and I can't see her family being able to offer it.
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Yes, he's got a lot on his plate there and I don't just mean the endless roast dinners. She's regressing - if that's possible - further towards childhood as the days go on.
 
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