My Solo Journey to Mom #20 No wonder business is failing when her advice is to keep the babies wailing!

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woopwoop said:
If she lost some weight she would see a big difference in the reflux. Being overweight is a contributing factor. As is the tit food she is no doubt eating.
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I hope the doctor is doing more than medicating her after 2+ years of it tormenting her. There are many causes of reflux & it shouldn’t be dismissed as just being weight related without ruling out other possible causes.
 
Ellegee said:
I hope the doctor is doing more than medicating her after 2+ years of it tormenting her. There are many causes of reflux & it shouldn’t be dismissed as just being weight related without ruling out other possible causes.
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Agreed.
It can be an indicator of heart disease and it wouldn't be the only box she's ticking.
She's a prime bet for a heart attack at 40 and it's actually pretty sad
 
Darkside said:
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Pays no tax, drinks Pipsi max. Lives in the nightie isn't momming solo mighty.
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“Non solo momming” you mean. If she’s a solo mom then I’m Michael D Higgins 😂
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The pipppsi and Super Macs certainly aren’t helping the acid reflux that’s for sure. I’d be going back to the GP about that if I was her as it could be a number of things and at this stage would most definitely need investigating.
 
How unprofessional 🙄 oh my website isn’t working properly just dm me!! If I was dumb enough to give her €300 I’d want a bleeping professional reply, she either won’t pay the upkeep on the website or she’s trying to hide how much work she’s actually doing 🤔🤔
 
#obsssessed said:
How unprofessional 🙄 oh my website isn’t working properly just dm me!! If I was dumb enough to give her €300 I’d want a bleeping professional reply, she either won’t pay the upkeep on the website or she’s trying to hide how much work she’s actually doing 🤔🤔
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She doesn’t want anyone to see all the free slots. I doubt there’s a single booking in despite her saying what date she would be returning to ‘work’
 
Ellegee said:
She doesn’t want anyone to see all the free slots. I doubt there’s a single booking in despite her saying what date she would be returning to ‘work’
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I doubt it too. Sorry to derail but has anyone heard of “SleepyStars Ireland” ? She is a “sleep” woman also but also has 25yrs experience in midwifery and a nanny I believe ( I have to double check this) I’m just wondering is she legit and also does her packages work? I’ll be honest,I’m struggling with the whole sleep routine here and believe me,I’ve tried various routines and regimes at this stage! They’re always out every single day in the fresh air legging it around playgrounds and parks,they eat well ( only a small treat at the weekend,no take aways like our Lisa) we do the bedtime routine,the whole lot ( no white noise machines) and still awake at 11:30 ( like now… one is anyway! The others finally went to sleep 30 mins ago!) Also,this sleep promotes sleep…I am really doubting this rubbish,they have a nap they’re awake even later,they don’t have a nap they’re still awake but not as late as if they did nap! I’m half thinking of seeking some advice but not from sleep lazy Lisa,from someone who’s an actual professional in a way.
 
GPRena said:
I doubt it too. Sorry to derail but has anyone heard of “SleepyStars Ireland” ? She is a “sleep” woman also but also has 25yrs experience in midwifery and a nanny I believe ( I have to double check this) I’m just wondering is she legit and also does her packages work? I’ll be honest,I’m struggling with the whole sleep routine here and believe me,I’ve tried various routines and regimes at this stage! They’re always out every single day in the fresh air legging it around playgrounds and parks,they eat well ( only a small treat at the weekend,no take aways like our Lisa) we do the bedtime routine,the whole lot ( no white noise machines) and still awake at 11:30 ( like now… one is anyway! The others finally went to sleep 30 mins ago!) Also,this sleep promotes sleep…I am really doubting this rubbish,they have a nap they’re awake even later,they don’t have a nap they’re still awake but not as late as if they did nap! I’m half thinking of seeking some advice but not from sleep lazy Lisa,from someone who’s an actual professional in a way.
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I know a couple of people who used Sleepy Stars and raved about her. She has genuine qualifications and experience ever before starting the sleep stuff, unlike our Lisa who thought the pyramid scheme sleep course was her ticket to an easy ride.
 
GPRena said:
I doubt it too. Sorry to derail but has anyone heard of “SleepyStars Ireland” ? She is a “sleep” woman also but also has 25yrs experience in midwifery and a nanny I believe ( I have to double check this) I’m just wondering is she legit and also does her packages work? I’ll be honest,I’m struggling with the whole sleep routine here and believe me,I’ve tried various routines and regimes at this stage! They’re always out every single day in the fresh air legging it around playgrounds and parks,they eat well ( only a small treat at the weekend,no take aways like our Lisa) we do the bedtime routine,the whole lot ( no white noise machines) and still awake at 11:30 ( like now… one is anyway! The others finally went to sleep 30 mins ago!) Also,this sleep promotes sleep…I am really doubting this rubbish,they have a nap they’re awake even later,they don’t have a nap they’re still awake but not as late as if they did nap! I’m half thinking of seeking some advice but not from sleep lazy Lisa,from someone who’s an actual professional in a way.
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You're doing it all wrong, you need to feed them till they are full, then feed them a bit more, zero stimulation and absolutely no fresh air and they'll eventually pass out, off you go now and start on the pinwheels.
 
GPRena said:
I doubt it too. Sorry to derail but has anyone heard of “SleepyStars Ireland” ? She is a “sleep” woman also but also has 25yrs experience in midwifery and a nanny I believe ( I have to double check this) I’m just wondering is she legit and also does her packages work? I’ll be honest,I’m struggling with the whole sleep routine here and believe me,I’ve tried various routines and regimes at this stage! They’re always out every single day in the fresh air legging it around playgrounds and parks,they eat well ( only a small treat at the weekend,no take aways like our Lisa) we do the bedtime routine,the whole lot ( no white noise machines) and still awake at 11:30 ( like now… one is anyway! The others finally went to sleep 30 mins ago!) Also,this sleep promotes sleep…I am really doubting this rubbish,they have a nap they’re awake even later,they don’t have a nap they’re still awake but not as late as if they did nap! I’m half thinking of seeking some advice but not from sleep lazy Lisa,from someone who’s an actual professional in a way.
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I've heard someone use her but was a couple of years ago. She's expensive. They loved the sound of it so signed up but ultimately found her inflexible and she was about cry it out, non gentle. Even though none of them promote that way 🙃
 
Just like ourselves a smallie is their own personality and will have good and bad nights...I think we are conditioned on this whole sleep thing.. when you think about ...trying to train a baby is crazy ....unless you are keeping them up all day ...or doing something terribly wrong sometimes it's all about time ...I'm 3 kids in ..finally I've two good sleepers...3rd is the worst but they will get there too ...its an industry based on using vulnerable parents to make money ...I've no time for any of it ...

Also to add I bought Internet programmes and books etc ..I was desperate too and none of it worked ...maybe small tips help but you cab Google those ...these sleep experts are yapping on the phone and never even meet thr kids ...its a scam...
 
At the end of the day her content is boring lazy and uninspired. She rarely grid posts, no reels nothing to up her engagement. She puts up crap stories about plaits in hair or scrambled eggs for breakfast. Then in the same day expects people to flock to her for sleep advice.
All the vulnerable followers who fell for it at the start have run out and she has nowhere to turn.
Still can't understand if those girls sleep so well and she has so much help how she hasn't got more about her all we see is the big round unwashed head and the dirty nightie and now the dirty bra same camera angle. Wash your hair get a ring light do something!!!!!
What the hell does she expect???
 
GPRena said:
I doubt it too. Sorry to derail but has anyone heard of “SleepyStars Ireland” ? She is a “sleep” woman also but also has 25yrs experience in midwifery and a nanny I believe ( I have to double check this) I’m just wondering is she legit and also does her packages work? I’ll be honest,I’m struggling with the whole sleep routine here and believe me,I’ve tried various routines and regimes at this stage! They’re always out every single day in the fresh air legging it around playgrounds and parks,they eat well ( only a small treat at the weekend,no take aways like our Lisa) we do the bedtime routine,the whole lot ( no white noise machines) and still awake at 11:30 ( like now… one is anyway! The others finally went to sleep 30 mins ago!) Also,this sleep promotes sleep…I am really doubting this rubbish,they have a nap they’re awake even later,they don’t have a nap they’re still awake but not as late as if they did nap! I’m half thinking of seeking some advice but not from sleep lazy Lisa,from someone who’s an actual professional in a way.
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Put Lisa talking on her stories on. It’ll fix the problem .. they’ll be bored to sleep 🤣 sorry I know it’s tit when they’re not sleeping and agree with below poster saying like adults we too have bad sleep. I think the heat doesn’t help at the moment the bright evenings. I don’t know what age your kids are or if they’re taking bottles but I know a lady who swore by “Lullaby Milk” you can get it in the fridge in SuperValu or Aldi where regular milk is. It’s just milk but helped her ? Hope they go back to normal for you soon. It’s really draining when it happens but it does happen every child. All these gurus on social media would make you feel they should close their eyes the moment they hit the pillow at 7 pm and not open until 7 am
 
I don’t mean to stir up and I’m not aiming This
question at any specific person/family.
i do understand that a person is entitled to go about fertility treatment and have IVF etc solo or as part of a couple or whatever.
what I don’t understand is why then she is entitled to all the benefits of a single parent?
Before anyone starts eating me, I mean in the sense that she chose to do this alone, she chose to spend a lot of money on doing so.
Myself and my husband have 2 children and our childcare costs are over 1500 a month!
I guess I can’t really understand why she is entitled to more because she is technically single ? Even tho she chose this and has more help than most couples with children.
 
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