Mrs Hinch #698 This is not just Any grief, this is extreme Hinch grief

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Loopy83 said:
She needs to stop labeling her grief "extreme" grief like their are levels of grief and some are worse than others. It's like she's convinced herself that hers is some how worse.
Time to grow up soph
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That's the bit that bugs me most.
Yes we all grieve differently and I make no judgement of her grieving (it would be weird if she wasn't!).
I don't even really think I can judge her for having her nails done (total benefit of the doubt, maybe someone came to the house to do it for her if she "really" can't leave the house because she's so immobilised by sadness)

The thing that really bugs me though is this presentation of "no-one can possibly understand how sad I am - none of you have EVER felt this sad".
It's like when new mums think that noone else can possibly understand how hard it is to have a newborn....
 
It's all wanking off the dogs ears, "i hate my kids", "my dad (who I barely acknowledged before hand) is buried under the pergola at Greyskull."

Has anyone seen or heard from Jamie, cos, how much (more) do you reckon he would put up with? The money can't be that good anymore, and I doubt he's been allowed to touch her bumbuminnit whilst she's doing her whole Queen Victoria style grieving? What if she's not just mourning the loss of her dad but the fact she's realised her marriage is also dead as well as her career? She was quick to sniff around Molly-Mae's breakup- perhaps it's Soph's last career move- getting rid of the mrs & the hinch.
 
I’ll give her therapy for free …
Try thinking of others and quit being
Self absorbed
Self centred
Selfish
Narcissistic
Guilty
You cannot change what’s been but you can use that negative energy and channel it into something good.
How about some volunteering at a homeless shelter or DV facility for a couple of months you know to gain some perspective on the enormity of your privilege that should help you a lot Hinchy.
 
Shoot me if you disagree, but I don't think anyone needs to see a therapist/counsellor during the 1st year of grief. Grief is hard, it usually means you've lost someone who meant the world to you. IT IS NORMAL TO BE SAD, you're sad because someone died. No amount of therapy will bring them back and so you will remain sad.... just allow yourself to grieve without thinking the doctors have a magical fix for it. What you need our Soph, is to stop being f**King babied, realise to love is to grieve, and stop thinking you are the first person to experience it. You haven't lost your husband or child. Parents naturally die before children, it's the natural order. So yes it's really sad, but Sophie THIS IS LIFE AND THE REAL WORLD, tit happens, GET. A. GRRRRIIIIPPPP
 
LittleMissRuby said:
Shoot me if you disagree, but I don't think anyone needs to see a therapist/counsellor during the 1st year of grief. Grief is hard, it usually means you've lost someone who meant the world to you. IT IS NORMAL TO BE SAD, you're sad because someone died. No amount of therapy will bring them back and so you will remain sad.... just allow yourself to grieve without thinking the doctors have a magical fix for it. What you need our Soph, is to stop being f**King babied, realise to love is to grieve, and stop thinking you are the first person to experience it. You haven't lost your husband or child. Parents naturally die before children, it's the natural order. So yes it's really sad, but Sophie THIS IS LIFE AND THE REAL WORLD, tit happens, GET. A. GRRRRIIIIPPPP
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Maybe its because she's holding a lot of guilt over the way she treated Weepy that's made her extra sad. She might need therapy for that I suppose and hopefully it will make her realise what an abysmal human being she is. But other than that you're completely right, the grieving process is in stages and completely normal to feel sad. What's not normal is to use a parents death to garner sympathy on social media. That's just attention seeking
 
LittleMissRuby said:
Shoot me if you disagree, but I don't think anyone needs to see a therapist/counsellor during the 1st year of grief. Grief is hard, it usually means you've lost someone who meant the world to you. IT IS NORMAL TO BE SAD, you're sad because someone died. No amount of therapy will bring them back and so you will remain sad.... just allow yourself to grieve without thinking the doctors have a magical fix for it. What you need our Soph, is to stop being f**King babied, realise to love is to grieve, and stop thinking you are the first person to experience it. You haven't lost your husband or child. Parents naturally die before children, it's the natural order. So yes it's really sad, but Sophie THIS IS LIFE AND THE REAL WORLD, tit happens, GET. A. GRRRRIIIIPPPP
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I agree. I lost my dad suddenly. He was only 57, so young. The first year goes by in a haze but you do get on with it and as time goes by the pain lessens. There are some times even 20+ years on where I miss him as if it were the first day all over again, but it passes. She was so sheltered by her parents and spoilt by them too that's her problem. I had to get back into work a week after the funeral or I wouldn't have got paid. That is the reality of it all. She is a grown ass woman with two kids. She needs to wake up back into reality. She is babied by her husband too though. You would swear she was the only one to ever lose someone. Now, it it where your child it would be different I think. Because it is not natural to lose a child. You are meant to go first as the parent.
 
ChastityDingle said:
Exactly.
Also some people find bereavement counselling more helpful when a bit of time has elapsed - although it varies, I am sure.
And not every client and therapist click instantly either. It's a process that needs time, and work. It's unfair to be throwing that message out there, imo. 'Oh it didn't work, tried it once, didn't like it.' 🙄

And may I ask, is it that easy to get to see a psychiatrist? Now maybe it is, I have no idea tbh.
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I waited a year to see a psychiatrist on the NHS after telling my doctor I had overwhelming thoughts of self harm/suicide and couldn’t keep up with my mood swings. I honestly didn’t know whether I was coming or going. I was given a crisis team number, told to go to A+E if I did anything and then waited. I’m assuming she would want to see one privately so I don’t know what those time frames are like or if that’s a thing like it is with a counsellor/therapist.

ETA: the year long wait was after a change to my anti depressants because I had been on them for years by that point.
 
She needs to stop this tit now. Its beyond ludicrous! She's actually becoming a laughing stock.
I don't believe she's as bad as she's making out. I think its because she has zero content and she's ALWAYS wanted her very own grief train to drive. She's going to drive it till the fuel runs out, and then some.
All aboard! Choooo choooo !
 
It’s like anything you have to distract yourself it’s the same when you don’t feel great ( not extremely ill) having a bath or watching a movie just takes your mind off it and makes you feel a bit better.
Hinch is wallowing in her own self pity and that gets you nowhere she’s obsessing and yeh the first month it’s expected but life has to go on especially when you have kids and a career that’s just the way it is so at some point you have to think enough is enough and start getting on with 💩.
 
clearly wasnt a good psychiatrist because he would of had her sectioned under the mental health act
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ChastityDingle said:
Exactly.
Also some people find bereavement counselling more helpful when a bit of time has elapsed - although it varies, I am sure.
And not every client and therapist click instantly either. It's a process that needs time, and work. It's unfair to be throwing that message out there, imo. 'Oh it didn't work, tried it once, didn't like it.' 🙄

And may I ask, is it that easy to get to see a psychiatrist? Now maybe it is, I have no idea tbh.
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not on the NHS no, and on the NHS a psychiatrist wouldn't see you for grief it would be a CBT therapist via talking therapies and theres no way she would of been seen already, the waiting lists are HUGE
 
Guys she doesnt cry in the dog bed anymore, shes moved onto the outdoor bin area 🙄
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RubySky478 said:
Makeup friend went into London last night with her mum and her best friend. I wonder who the best friend was..?
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She tagged her friend Faith so I assume it was her. I’m wondering it YMU have invited Hinch to the NTAs along with Sticker Sister. Can she drag herself from the bin area long enough for a night out in the spotlight?

The problem with therapy for a hinch is that it requires your to be honest about your life and your feelings. She is neither of those so it will be wasted on her
 
Hun_tea22 said:
She tagged her friend Faith so I assume it was her. I’m wondering it YMU have invited Hinch to the NTAs along with Sticker Sister. Can she drag herself from the bin area long enough for a night out in the spotlight?

The problem with therapy for a hinch is that it requires your to be honest about your life and your feelings. She is neither of those so it will be wasted on her
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Will Brad Pitt be at the NTAs? Or maybe she can talk alpaca vagina (that would make a good bot name) with Ant & Dec
 
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