Mrs Hinch #698 This is not just Any grief, this is extreme Hinch grief

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HereToTalk said:
My toddler twins are 252 and 240 months old,11.5 months between them, and I am guilty of dressing them the same (girls if that makes a difference), until they were about 3&4 (mind you this is 20 years ago) SOMETIMES! Like if we had a special occasion or in swimming costumes or if we went to a theme park so I could easily identity mine in a crowd or if one wandered off I could say what they were wearing, (totally got anxiety and on 3 meds for it) but come on Hinch, there’s 2+ years between yours, one if them is 5! Why are you still doing it! You can get lovely clothes nowadays with things on, bin trucks for the recycling loving kid, animals for the animal loving one, they surely are in to different things?
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They are completely different kids, she stifles their personalities. She’s also very wasteful, the shorts/trousers/pjs could be hand me downs but she doubles and personalises everything!!
 
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aaaaand she’s off again, Jesus Christ
 
Haven’t commented in ages because I have a loife hunnay

But what in under god is going on?? She needs sectioned. 1) if what she’s saying is true she isn’t mentally well 2) if it’s lies; she isn’t mentally well.

I don’t understand what relevance a familial death has to do with cleaning products or ‘farm life’ or any sort of business beyond notifying absence.

I maybe sound cruel, I don’t intend to, I am unable
To understand what she’s doing beyond holding up a sign saying ATTENTION I WANT ATTENTION.

Pity replacing love is a very unhealthy way to live.
 
Wonderwhispers2k19 said:
Haven’t commented in ages because I have a loife hunnay

But what in under god is going on?? She needs sectioned. 1) if what she’s saying is true she isn’t mentally well 2) if it’s lies; she isn’t mentally well.

I don’t understand what relevance a familial death has to do with cleaning products or ‘farm life’ or any sort of business beyond notifying absence.

I maybe sound cruel, I don’t intend to, I am unable
To understand what she’s doing beyond holding up a sign saying ATTENTION I WANT ATTENTION.

Pity replacing love is a very unhealthy way to live.
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You don't sound cruel, you talk perfect sense. This is a proper carry on and I suspect it's because she doesn't have any content, but wants to keep the sheep onside as she desperately tries to claw her way back. If she really is that miserable 5 months on she definitely needs help. And if she's pretending to be miserable to get the sheep's attention, she definitely needs help.
 
My husband lost his mother and father within a month of each other 4 years ago. Yes it knocked him for six and but he has to get up and go on. To be honest sitting at home thinking about them made it a lot worse. She's wallowing in self pity because she can ...she should think about the boys and stop all this nonsense on Instagram. I think if anything happens to Henry it will send her over the edge
 
I don't believe this is an act or a charade. I think she is struggling adly as she has nothing else to focus on. Most of us have to get back to work to be able to live. Working keeps our brains active and tired us out so that we are tired out to sleep and rest.

She is sitting about all day doing nothing which won't be tiring her out physically and mentally so her brain will be on overdrive.

She needs to get herself active and busy to give her another focus
 
Wikiwangocard said:
I don't buy any of this, no way.
"The happy mummy act drops", she's never bloody happy and especially when she has to be with her own children.
She is pretending and forcing all of this grief for attention. Her dad deserved better than this charade.
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But the Happy Mummy role isn't an act during grief. Everyone offered to take my kids fir me when I was grieving but I wanted to keep them close, they made me happy they made me realise that life does indeed go on. They were everything I needed during those early days. Grow the f**k up Sophie, you've 2 gorgeous boys who need a Mum who isn't wallowing in her own self pity and to realise the utter joy they bring
 
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