Mothering_it #2 Stuck up, moaning and ignoring her kids. Andy hiding, eager to get rid.

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Can anybody explain why having a van with only 6 seats was so ‘triggering’?? 🧐
She says and I quote “it was really triggering, having all the kids and going on separate journeys” - what was triggering? Am I missing something?

Basically all that’s happened is the lease was up on the van so Andy has taken it back and swapped it for something bigger. Why all the drama?!
 
apprehensive drink said:
Can anybody explain why having a van with only 6 seats was so ‘triggering’?? 🧐
She says and I quote “it was really triggering, having all the kids and going on separate journeys” - what was triggering? Am I missing something?

Basically all that’s happened is the lease was up on the van so Andy has taken it back and swapped it for something bigger. Why all the drama?!
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And she totally did know about it like she knew Andy was taking over her office and moved her out
 
apprehensive drink said:
Can anybody explain why having a van with only 6 seats was so ‘triggering’?? 🧐
She says and I quote “it was really triggering, having all the kids and going on separate journeys” - what was triggering? Am I missing something?

Basically all that’s happened is the lease was up on the van so Andy has taken it back and swapped it for something bigger. Why all the drama?!
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I didn’t understand it either, bizarre phrase to use. Everything with her is so overdramatise.

I was half expecting the silence to be a build up to the horse being gone, I was glad to be wrong

Does heather perfectly imperfect have a thread, I couldn’t find it?
 
Jaynedoe said:
I didn’t understand it either, bizarre phrase to use. Everything with her is so overdramatise.

I was half expecting the silence to be a build up to the horse being gone, I was glad to be wrong

Does heather perfectly imperfect have a thread, I couldn’t find it?
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Yea it’s - the imperfectly perfect parent but all one word. She is a lot of why Emma does what she does she copy’s and this is also Emma’s “friend” have they ever actually met?
 
Trace said:
Yea it’s - the imperfectly perfect parent but all one word. She is a lot of why Emma does what she does she copy’s and this is also Emma’s “friend” have they ever actually met?
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They pretend to be friends. You know, enemies closer and all that. Heather isn’t keen and hates that Emma has been catching her up with followers. Emma is totally jealous that Heather has some good deals on Insta and always seems one step behind her.
Im surprised Emma didn’t move to Scotland!
They both copy each others waffle. The difference is, Heather has had past trauma, actual trauma. Also, she has money. Like proper money. Emma’s is all fake. The trauma and the everything’s on credit.
I’m sure they met up when Heather was down in Devon.
 
Facepalm1 said:
They pretend to be friends. You know, enemies closer and all that. Heather isn’t keen and hates that Emma has been catching her up with followers. Emma is totally jealous that Heather has some good deals on Insta and always seems one step behind her.
Im surprised Emma didn’t move to Scotland!
They both copy each others waffle. The difference is, Heather has had past trauma, actual trauma. Also, she has money. Like proper money. Emma’s is all fake. The trauma and the everything’s on credit.
I’m sure they met up when Heather was down in Devon.
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I don’t mind heather she’s quite funny and doesn’t seem to put herself out there for attention unlike Emma. Heather had time away from Instagram but didn’t make a song and dance over it which Emma had done. Emma said she feels Instagram has become a chore so she’s been away but will be back when and as so why since she’s said that has she shared the most pointless boring stories her kids eating and walking about in the “bus” it’s like “businesses I am here I’m still active come at me with ads please but to the rest of you that’s all your getting from me because I can’t be bothered I’m to stretched.
 
Right so, her dad lives in her garden and helps no end yet she publicly slates him for not teaching her how to respect her mum growing up and not being around.

Pretty sure she’s said it was her mum who didn’t look after her , not her dad. Changes her story more than her outfits
 
AbiLouX said:
Right so, her dad lives in her garden and helps no end yet she publicly slates him for not teaching her how to respect her mum growing up and not being around.

Pretty sure she’s said it was her mum who didn’t look after her , not her dad. Changes her story more than her outfits
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It seems like she had an happy childhood maybe that’s the driver to have a big family, I wonder how her and her dad reconnected to buy a house together, it’s a big move, I see my dad a lot and get on well, but I wouldn’t want to live with he again

Jaynedoe said:
It seems like she had an happy childhood maybe that’s the driver to have a big family, I wonder how her and her dad reconnected to buy a house together, it’s a big move, I see my dad a lot and get on well, but I wouldn’t want to live with he again
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*unhappy
 
AbiLouX said:
Right so, her dad lives in her garden and helps no end yet she publicly slates him for not teaching her how to respect her mum growing up and not being around.

Pretty sure she’s said it was her mum who didn’t look after her , not her dad. Changes her story more than her outfits
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It’s just all a load of nonsense. Back then when she was a child it probably was not a big thing Mother’s Day etc come on men are pretty useless unless reminded by there wives constantly and to be honest everything and I mean everything in life is now one big competition because of social media who got what whoes husbands/fathers are better than yours etc doesn’t mean he had to show you how to respect your mum that’s just silly
 
completely agree with you.
So funny that she says it’s my nature to mother, I find her the most unmaternal woman ever, her kids look awkward with her, nothing feels natural about her unless she is moaning and when she films herself with them she just stares at herself pouting, so strange she thinks she is selfless as to me she comes across as so selfish.
 
Facepalm1 said:
so I don’t get what happened in her childhood? What made it so bad? Her Mum who she never talks to except today now she’s suddenly great? Or her disrespectful father who lives with her now?
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There was a time her mum come to stay I’m sure it was around Christmas one year and Emma couldn’t bare to be in the same room as her mum she was upstairs feeding Ezra (like she does) Andy had to tell her to calm down as she was getting herself worked up. Said the kids don’t really know who she is and she doesn’t want the kids being confused. So whose done what? Today she’s gutted she doesn’t live near her mum and can’t wait to have her stay for a week once LD has lifted or her dad was the bad one but he lives in her garden and who she trusts to care for her kids more than she does as she can’t cope mothering her own brood or was Emma just a spoilt witch when she was young (nothings changed there) and just saw her sister as a favourite child as her sister is close to there mum and in Emma’s eyes this is trauma
 
She sad that she has a 9mth old baby but not been able to see anyone in person to tell her how amazing she is and how they don’t know how she does it and looks so good blah blah, it’s nothing to do with the kids, Emma just needs people to stroke her ego.... she might have to have another baby cause she missed all the attention she loves of having a new baby
 
Jaynedoe said:
She sad that she has a 9mth old baby but not been able to see anyone in person to tell her how amazing she is and how they don’t know how she does it and looks so good blah blah, it’s nothing to do with the kids, Emma just needs people to stroke her ego.... she might have to have another baby cause she missed all the attention she loves of having a new baby
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I really do think there will be another baby soon. It’s affected her more than anyone else the fact she spent not even the last 2 months of her pregnancy in a pandemic. She doesn’t have many friends or no family I highly doubt anything would be much different if life was normal she wAs always a bit of a loner.
 
I know I have asked this before but can someone please tell me what her job could be where you are suppose to be working in the evening but then don’t, how is that possible. She would never cope with a real time in time out job and being line managed with expectations on performance. Seriously she took time away from Instagram so that can’t be the job she is talking about, what is it. Maybe I need in on the action 🤷‍♀️
 
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