I’m okay mom thank you for asking. I feel so lucky to have incredible family and friends around me for support and you guys
It was my first day back at work today and it went well. Just have the funeral to get through 
How are you?
I have so many unanswered questions about my nan’s passing and nobody in my family is doing anything about it. I want to ask the hospital some questions but I don’t know who to contact or how to contact them. Whenever I speak to my family about it they give me nothing back. She was more than just a grandparent to me, they know that and I feel like they don’t understand/accept that and think they don’t have to involve me. My nan told me specific things before she passed that she had in her will and they haven’t been brought up yet? But then I don’t want to bring it up because I don’t want to cause any problems. I can feel myself getting more and more stressed over it and I don’t know what to do 
Hey angel, I hope everything's going better now. Have you managed to sort things/get any answers? family deaths can always be the most stressful time for people because they tend to show people in a different light, unfortunately. I hope you've managed to get some answers to at least help with your grieving progress.My head is about to explode
Sort of, hopefully next week I will have all the answers I need
How are you doing? How are you loving your holiday?
I’m pretty basic but I always get coconut rice and any veggie dish (I’m vegetarian) I do have a soft spot for paneer. I also love a good cheese and garlic naan. What did you get?
Hope everyone’s doing well and having a good weekend xo
(Fellow vegan here! Well, 90% of the time haha). I’ve never had coconut rice but I always get a peshwari naan so I’m gonna try that one day! I could eat a peshwari naan any day at any timeI’m pretty basic but I always get coconut rice and any veggie dish (I’m vegetarian) I do have a soft spot for paneer. I also love a good cheese and garlic naan. What did you get?
off topic also but does anyone have any recommendations on good moisturisers; whenever it’s summer (and I’m tan) my skin is so dry - I usually use Vaseline because it’s cheap and cheerful but I find them a bit greasy. I was thinking of investing in the Sol De Janiero as I have the deodorant and it smells so good but it’s so expensive for a small pot. So any recommendations for nice long lasting, non greasy and nice smelling moisturisers would be amazing thank you
I got a side of saag aloo with mushroom rice, peshwari naan and a big onion bhaji 
But hopefully you find a good one
Saag aloo is so good! I’ve never had mushroom rice before so I’ll defo try it next time!(Fellow vegan here! Well, 90% of the time haha). I’ve never had coconut rice but I always get a peshwari naan so I’m gonna try that one day! I could eat a peshwari naan any day at any time
I have the Sol De Janiero bum bum cream and it’s lovely! I don’t use it very often because I’m lazy but when I do it leaves my skin feeling baby soft and smells incredible! I haven’t used any other moisturisers other than that and the Charlotte Tilbury one. I dunno I feel like no moisturiser is that stand out to me because I don’t really get dry skin
No drama llamas mom, hope you're doing good! definitely enjoying a break but not enjoying all the hikes because I'm so out of shape hahaha.
Hi mom, I’m so sorry to read your story. I actually had a mole removed last year which they found was melanoma. I had to have further surgery to remove more tissue but luckily it had not spread any more. I’ve never been on a subbed in my life nor been a big fan of the sun at all (I’m one of the palest bloody people you’ll ever meet).Hi moms, hope you’re all having a nice weekend so far
Sorry I’ve been a bit absent on here, I’ve been lurking a bit more than posting recently as the past couple of weeks have been a bit full on. Some good news, I got a promotion at work (yay!). It’s not a huge pay rise as I’ve only gone up by one band in NHS but I’m excited to be moving upwards regardless. That said, my health has been a bit tit and it’s completely overshadowed my good news.
I found out I likely have melanoma in situ which is being removed in a few weeks and biopsied. I’m so angry at myself for abusing sunbeds for so many years thinking ‘it’ll never happen to me’, yet here we are. The dermatologist is convinced we’ve caught it early enough that it’ll be a once and done procedure and it’s very unlikely to have spread beyond a melanoma in situ, but we won’t know for certain until the results come back. I feel so weird about it. One minute I’m fine and the next I’m hating myself for potentially giving myself cancer all because I wanted a tan. I’ve been avoiding baddie Maddie’s thread as well as I see she’s back to claiming she’s naturally tanned and I just can’t take it at the minute. My hypothyroidism and PCOS are all over the place too so my hormones are totally out of whack. I’m seeing a specialist nurse for that next week though so hopefully that’ll be under control again soon.
Sorry for the downer from me, just needed to vent a wee bit as I haven’t told friends or family yet.
Sending love to you all and hope you’re all well❤
Oh love, I’m sorry to hear that but I’m glad you’re ok!
How did you find the procedure? Mine will be on my back so a bit of an awkward place. It’s weird, I work in a hospital in a department where we see some skin cancers (not dermatology but another specialty) but as soon as I become the patient all my knowledge goes out the window!
Hey lovely, no worries at all!
but I was totally fine by day 3/4. I actually got the results back and it turned out to not be melanoma in situ but a highly atypical mole instead so I’m over the moon about that. Definitely a wake up call to start taking my skin health seriously but will now be having regular skin checks with the consultant to keep on top of things.
Thank you lovely, hope you’re keeping well
I don’t have any recommendations as I’ve only been once and it was a disaster
I ended up throwing up uncontrollably and having to ring for an ambulance but ended up going to A&E, waiting 4 hours and then leaving and drove home hahaha BUT I really want to go back so hopefully there’ll be some good suggestions I want to go to Harry Potter World sooo bad xxx