MOD & FOD #30 Comments from Yoda: A tw*t, you are

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heretoreaditall2019 said:
Omg my love firstly thank you for sharing your story with us, it’s not one you often hear from the inside so it’s a privilege to hear it from the horse’s mouth (I hope that makes sense / isn’t offensive?). It’s so lovely to think of him sat in the room next to you now, god this post has actually made me teary eyed and feel incredibly grateful for a lot of things. Life is tough and so unfair, but you are clearly tougher 💪🏻 and sound like an amazing woman & mum.

It does make you think about how his (and other parenting influencers) “oh god my kids it’s all sooOoOoO awful” schtick translates for the IVF community? Not sure if that’s what it’s called but I know they’re super active on insta (I started delving into it last year after getting unwell & thinking it was inevitable for us) - but it is tone deaf.

Sending lots of love to you & fam though ❤
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It isn’t offensive at all and it makes perfect sense!
I very rarely get angered by it all nowadays but I do have my moments (like today!) - at the unfairness of it all, the irony that these people can moan about things that I would have literally given a body part for, just for instagram likes is so maddening but I am also aware, day to day that it CAN be hard and it can be tiring sometimes but I can look back and remember what it was like not to be in such a lucky position.
I am involved in many different infertility groups both on and off line and there are couples coming to terms with never having their own biological child and it’s just soul destroying. That’s only way I can describe it. It leaves you bitter.
But I am lucky, I kiss and cuddle and laugh and play with my lucky charm every day and I am so grateful!
 
judsmum said:
The bush headed bleep has really got my back up today. 25 isn’t insanely young to be having a child.

At 25 years old I was knee deep in buserelin and hormone stimulating injections, I was shoving progesterone pessaries up my arse, I was taking prednisolone steroids to suppress my immune system whilst simultaneously injecting myself with anti-coagulants to thin my blood every bleeping day just to have a sniff at having a baby.

I had already lost 2 babies by 25 years of age and would lose another 4. I would have to have 6 cycles, all self funded (that bastard would probably have gone on the beg for it) of IVF with immune therapy just to get my ONE baby. That affects your mental health you greedy fucker.

Don’t dare cry your showman’s tears because you had to ‘endure’ a beautiful baby at 25 years old. I had to hold my husbands head in my lap while he sobbed because he had held it in for so long trying to support me and he had reached the end of his strength and he didn’t need to run away on his bleeping Push Iron to do so.

While my child sits in his colourful bedroom, that we paid for, with his colourful toys and his colourful books that we paid for, eagerly awaiting the return of his extra curricular activities and mind enhancing trips, breaks & holidays, that we pay for, I know that his young life (that we paid over £60k for) is so much better than the materialistic, bland, grabby, shameful and humiliating existence that you offer up for your poor children. Imagine reading on the internet that your mum and dad dreaded the thought of your arrival at first. FOD, you are first class twit but you have arrived at a new destination in twattery for me today.
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Big hugs to you @judsmum 😘❤️
 
judsmum said:
The bush headed bleep has really got my back up today. 25 isn’t insanely young to be having a child.

At 25 years old I was knee deep in buserelin and hormone stimulating injections, I was shoving progesterone pessaries up my arse, I was taking prednisolone steroids to suppress my immune system whilst simultaneously injecting myself with anti-coagulants to thin my blood every bleeping day just to have a sniff at having a baby.

I had already lost 2 babies by 25 years of age and would lose another 4. I would have to have 6 cycles, all self funded (that bastard would probably have gone on the beg for it) of IVF with immune therapy just to get my ONE baby. That affects your mental health you greedy fucker.

Don’t dare cry your showman’s tears because you had to ‘endure’ a beautiful baby at 25 years old. I had to hold my husbands head in my lap while he sobbed because he had held it in for so long trying to support me and he had reached the end of his strength and he didn’t need to run away on his bleeping Push Iron to do so.

While my child sits in his colourful bedroom, that we paid for, with his colourful toys and his colourful books that we paid for, eagerly awaiting the return of his extra curricular activities and mind enhancing trips, breaks & holidays, that we pay for, I know that his young life (that we paid over £60k for) is so much better than the materialistic, bland, grabby, shameful and humiliating existence that you offer up for your poor children. Imagine reading on the internet that your mum and dad dreaded the thought of your arrival at first. FOD, you are first class twit but you have arrived at a new destination in twattery for me today.
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Oh my love. This made me weep. So much love to you and your husband ❤️ Ive lost many babies over the years, my first at 21. By some absolute miracle I concieved twins naturally, but was told all the way through my pregnancy that I likely wouldn't be home with both babies. I spent 40 nights in hospital on bed rest to keep them in for as long as possible, they're now almost 4 months old and the smiliest little balls of chub. They're my world. Seeing how mod/fod have pimped out their twins hurts my heart.
 
judsmum said:
The bush headed bleep has really got my back up today. 25 isn’t insanely young to be having a child.

At 25 years old I was knee deep in buserelin and hormone stimulating injections, I was shoving progesterone pessaries up my arse, I was taking prednisolone steroids to suppress my immune system whilst simultaneously injecting myself with anti-coagulants to thin my blood every bleeping day just to have a sniff at having a baby.

I had already lost 2 babies by 25 years of age and would lose another 4. I would have to have 6 cycles, all self funded (that bastard would probably have gone on the beg for it) of IVF with immune therapy just to get my ONE baby. That affects your mental health you greedy fucker.

Don’t dare cry your showman’s tears because you had to ‘endure’ a beautiful baby at 25 years old. I had to hold my husbands head in my lap while he sobbed because he had held it in for so long trying to support me and he had reached the end of his strength and he didn’t need to run away on his bleeping Push Iron to do so.

While my child sits in his colourful bedroom, that we paid for, with his colourful toys and his colourful books that we paid for, eagerly awaiting the return of his extra curricular activities and mind enhancing trips, breaks & holidays, that we pay for, I know that his young life (that we paid over £60k for) is so much better than the materialistic, bland, grabby, shameful and humiliating existence that you offer up for your poor children. Imagine reading on the internet that your mum and dad dreaded the thought of your arrival at first. FOD, you are first class twit but you have arrived at a new destination in twattery for me today.
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Reading this I’m so happy to see at the end you have a lovely child. x God what you’ve written puts his whole winge into perspective... And so galling for all those people out there who have never managed to have a child.
And don’t get me started on the bereavement, yes it’s bloody awful that happened but don’t drag it up for sympathy.
If I laid out bare all the trauma, abuse, death... that I’ve experienced so far in my life starting from a very young age, you probably wouldn’t believe it. But I don’t because it’s private and it’s not an excuse for my behaviour or the way I parent my children, in fact it makes me want to protect my children more and respect their privacy and ensure their safety.
Reading between the lines, he’s not a happy man, he seems trapped in a ridiculous, online life that may be impossible to relinquish. The best thing for him to do for his mental health would be to step away from the intent and focus on his family and be present in his real life.
 
Oh @judsmum I hear you. Again, a bit like with the Jack Monroe threads, we’re there because we’re disappointed with them. They could be so much more grateful for the things they have, things that we might have experienced - and they think it’s all just a way to sell tit.

I broke myself to get my kids, and not one penny, or like, or tile, or bleeping Hunter welly would give me reason to consider selling their childhoods. I also would never ever moan about them on any kind of public platform. Ever. Or humiliate them, or shame them. Even one tiny thing that I’ve maybe read something about might hurt a child psychologically or emotionally, I have to be convinced of the right path and run myself in circles to do what’s best. The SODs know and have been told repeatedly, of the damage they’re doing to their children and they don’t give a shiny tit!

I seriously still think I get pains from progesterone injection sites, they were awful! I swear there’s some sort of muscle damage. None of it ever really goes away. I think that’s why these kid sellers enrage me so much. I can’t believe the way they treat something so precious.
 
judsmum said:
The bush headed bleep has really got my back up today. 25 isn’t insanely young to be having a child.

At 25 years old I was knee deep in buserelin and hormone stimulating injections, I was shoving progesterone pessaries up my arse, I was taking prednisolone steroids to suppress my immune system whilst simultaneously injecting myself with anti-coagulants to thin my blood every bleeping day just to have a sniff at having a baby.

I had already lost 2 babies by 25 years of age and would lose another 4. I would have to have 6 cycles, all self funded (that bastard would probably have gone on the beg for it) of IVF with immune therapy just to get my ONE baby. That affects your mental health you greedy fucker.

Don’t dare cry your showman’s tears because you had to ‘endure’ a beautiful baby at 25 years old. I had to hold my husbands head in my lap while he sobbed because he had held it in for so long trying to support me and he had reached the end of his strength and he didn’t need to run away on his bleeping Push Iron to do so.

While my child sits in his colourful bedroom, that we paid for, with his colourful toys and his colourful books that we paid for, eagerly awaiting the return of his extra curricular activities and mind enhancing trips, breaks & holidays, that we pay for, I know that his young life (that we paid over £60k for) is so much better than the materialistic, bland, grabby, shameful and humiliating existence that you offer up for your poor children. Imagine reading on the internet that your mum and dad dreaded the thought of your arrival at first. FOD, you are first class twit but you have arrived at a new destination in twattery for me today.
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❤️ To you and your family .
 
heretoreaditall2019 said:
Looks like Simon’s following in line with the budget, where are the artisanal tile crafters here??

Also my jaw is still on the floor from what I’ve just seen on another thread so I have to tell you ladies. An influencer is going on about taking a mortgage break after having bought a hot tub, high end bike, £200 pizza oven, daily luxury feasts she cooks on stories, etc over the last 2 months or lockdown. It’s like the SODs isn’t it just the audacity of this lot pushing premium goods onto people as if it’s entirely normal, when they’re receiving theirs for free, but now during covid it’s unravelled and they’re actually telling us they can’t even afford the bleeping mortgage?!!!

This isn’t judging anyone taking a mortgage holiday at all as we all have different circumstances but I find it utterly reprehensible from the Insta set. Like think of your legions of loyal fans who clicked through & you got the aff spend on their financed purchase, and now not only do they have the mortgage & council tax money to sort out they’ve also got an array of monthly payments they were encouraged to take out by YOU!

Surely covid must be the end of all of these lot?!!! Surely!!!!!
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Who ?
 
Mrswifey1 said:
Who ?
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Callie Thorpe the other day was particularly tone deaf & who I was referencing here. She used to be really sweet & I really liked her until lockdown tbh! She’s got a thread on here, she’s also been complaining she’s bored as she’s not worked in 10 weeks 🥴

allybongo said:
On a lighter note - have you noticed that Multitool is still commenting on every single one of Sly’s posts, and Sly is still ignoring him 🤣
Just throw the poor fucker a crumb Sly, for the love of FOD!
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omg I meant to share a print screen of that bloke - the CRINGE one with the yellow background and overly graphic designs everything? He always comments under FOD’s tit? Clearly trying to vacuum up that horny bored middle aged mum market, FOD doesn’t follow him back or ever engage he must haaaaate him 😂
 
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So this here photo on Foddy’s page - complete with a patronising, ‘Marriage Tips For Dummies’ caption.
They either got one of their daughters to take a picture, or they set a timer. Either way, they are lying there in manufactured poses of relaxation - FOD’s even pretending to be ASLEEP, seconds after either giving an instruction or setting the timer.
You utter melts.
 

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💗 to all you lot posting on here about your lives. I had a major blow up on here last time FoD took the piss by trying to jump on the mental health bandwagon. Living with depression all my life, with the effect it’s had on my career, relationships, friendships, parenting, I find it hard to appreciate some shallow, facile little public school boy telling me how hard his life has been and preaching about mental health.

Losing his friend is very sad but this stuff happens to all of us, and worse. That is what happens in life.

I see he’s lost over 400 followers today so I don’t think this has hit the spot.
 
OhMyWord said:
I’m obsessed with my bookshelves. I spent 3 hours re-organising two weeks ago to make them look better. Titles showing out was at the heart of it (as I said to my husband, I didn’t study Ancient Greek only for nobody ever to see the damn translation books!). And in that vain, I love seeing what books people have at their houses - not in a remotely highbrow way, as it may sound, I also prominently display my 90’s Babysitter Club books and the whole Me Before You series, among others.

@heretoreaditall2019 Nail on the head there. Mortgages, loans, credit etc is SO important! Financial planning, investing, pension schemes; the only influencer I’ve ever seen discuss any of this is Jillian Harris but it’s very Canada specific as she partners with TD Bank. Or do most just live in the moment, or assume they’ll receive big inheritances?
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Catching up on 9 pages of FOD just to get to today’s comments about his stories but had to quote - the BSC, yesssss 🙌🏼 All still lovingly kept at my Mum’s house, I was obsessed 😅 now got the TV show theme tune in my head right before bed.
Axatogrind said:
I've started making my peace with the "batches of 3" postings, after realising their engagement is probably getting diluted as a result, and it must be a pain in the arse for them to review similar comments on 3 posts every time. All for the sake of maintaining a 3x3 logo which, frankly, looks crap :LOL:
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I LOVE YOUR USERNAME 😄

PS duck off Clammie on the grid post, you are not welcome back on insta. Your lights are tit too. Shoo now.
 
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They look like two strangers in that photo, their arms touch but MOD in particular is almost rigid and there Is nothing to show there’s any affection between them.

The photo is another staged fake. FOD’s not happy with his life is the impression I got from his story earlier today, he seems full of resentment. MOD always seemed full of resentment. Neither can seem to get pass the fact that they were relatively young having their first child.
 
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