Missgreedyshome #6 Thinks shes an insta sensation. Warn your Nan she’s after her pension

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Nuttywidow said:
Yep the ‘ Glyndwr’ plaque was took down in Enzo’s room obviously after Greedy had been reading on here 🥴
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Was it? I didn’t notice it was taken down. Just seems so strange to me, why would you want your child associated with that? Its all going to be brought up when those kids are in high school. You know what kids are like these days. Its so easy to find information out online now. How easy could we find all the details of what happened. Shes not helping the situation by trying to push herself in to the public eye on instagram
 
Veracosy said:
It is a heartbreaking situation. I feel for the grandparents, but I don't & can't feel for her.
I just feel for the hundreds that were conned, had their savings taken.
I cant feel for someone that has just paraded her grandparents on insta for the sympathy and 'like' vote.
Shes a Greedy con woman. Why didn't she look after her grandad to prevent him going into a home? It's not like she has a job.
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I'm really sorry but I must take umbridge with your comment about why didn't she just look after him.

I work with older adults, sometimes the ONLY option is a nursing home. To keep them safe, to keep their relatives safe. Very few people (some do want to be cared for, different strokes for different folks ofc) choose to go or put their family member in a cared for facility. There simply isn't always the option to keep them at home.

If Greedy's nan is able to still live at home and look after herself with or without care and other help, then there must have been some monumental reasons for him leaving the house and living in a cared for facility.

I say this only because when I talk to family members about this at work, the amount of guilt and shame a lot of them feel is massive. Sometimes it's just not do-able safely. Care at home only goes so far, so if someone needs supervision constantly and assistance with all their daily tasks, it's not going to be enough. It's not an easy option in any circumstance and it really grates on me that people assume that you can 'prevent' people going into a home. They exist for a reason; to keep people safe and well when they cannot be kept safe and well in their own homes with their own family.
 
WeepingCassandra said:
I'm really sorry but I must take umbridge with your comment about why didn't she just look after him.

I work with older adults, sometimes the ONLY option is a nursing home. To keep them safe, to keep their relatives safe. Very few people (some do want to be cared for, different strokes for different folks ofc) choose to go or put their family member in a cared for facility. There simply isn't always the option to keep them at home.

If Greedy's nan is able to still live at home and look after herself with or without care and other help, then there must have been some monumental reasons for him leaving the house and living in a cared for facility.

I say this only because when I talk to family members about this at work, the amount of guilt and shame a lot of them feel is massive. Sometimes it's just not do-able safely. Care at home only goes so far, so if someone needs supervision constantly and assistance with all their daily tasks, it's not going to be enough. It's not an easy option in any circumstance and it really grates on me that people assume that you can 'prevent' people going into a home. They exist for a reason; to keep people safe and well when they cannot be kept safe and well in their own homes with their own family.
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Well said, totally agree.

Also she has two young kids who need to come first and it's not her responsibility to look after elderly relatives because she doesn't work. And it's ridiculous to think it is tbh.
 
WeepingCassandra said:
I'm really sorry but I must take umbridge with your comment about why didn't she just look after him.

I work with older adults, sometimes the ONLY option is a nursing home. To keep them safe, to keep their relatives safe. Very few people (some do want to be cared for, different strokes for different folks ofc) choose to go or put their family member in a cared for facility. There simply isn't always the option to keep them at home.

If Greedy's nan is able to still live at home and look after herself with or without care and other help, then there must have been some monumental reasons for him leaving the house and living in a cared for facility.

I say this only because when I talk to family members about this at work, the amount of guilt and shame a lot of them feel is massive. Sometimes it's just not do-able safely. Care at home only goes so far, so if someone needs supervision constantly and assistance with all their daily tasks, it's not going to be enough. It's not an easy option in any circumstance and it really grates on me that people assume that you can 'prevent' people going into a home. They exist for a reason; to keep people safe and well when they cannot be kept safe and well in their own homes with their own family.
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Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
I have worked in the nursing sector for over 25 years, in the community and hospital based.
It is possible to keep dementia patients at home, I've done it myself.
There are many elements to look at, but the support is there of this is the route that the family want.
I've looked after patients at home with severe dementia and managed to provide a safe and controlled environment, it is possible .
 
Veracosy said:
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
I have worked in the nursing sector for over 25 years, in the community and hospital based.
It is possible to keep dementia patients at home, I've done it myself.
There are many elements to look at, but the support is there of this is the route that the family want.
I've looked after patients at home with severe dementia and managed to provide a safe and controlled environment, it is possible .
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I am directly involved in discharge planning on a care of the elderly ward. I completely disagree. You have no idea about what her Grandad's needs are, what her family can manage and what is practical in the environment he was living in. Shaming people for keeping their relatives safe is the absolute opposite of what we should be doing as healthcare professionals.
 
WeepingCassandra said:
I am directly involved in discharge planning on a care of the elderly ward. I completely disagree. You have no idea about what her Grandad's needs are, what her family can manage and what is practical in the environment he was living in. Shaming people for keeping their relatives safe is the absolute opposite of what we should be doing as healthcare professionals.
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Like I said everyone is entitled to their own opinion. You also have no idea what her grandads needs are.
Think we should agree to disagree on this one, or you could go start a rave thread for her.
 
WeepingCassandra said:
It's nothing about Greedy herself. It's about the fact that there are likely to be people reading this thread, who have had to make that really awful decision themselves, felt that guilt and shame that the people I work with day in day out tell me they feel, and then here you are loudly proclaiming that they just didn't try hard enough. That is what I take offence at. You have no idea of his needs either - so how can you cast aspersions too?
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Woooooh listen, don't try putting the guilt card on me for having an opinion.
You as a healthcare professional should know every patient's case it different and every package of care is person centered.
Shame on you for putting every dementia patient in the same bracket.

I THINK GREEDYS FAMILY ARE IN THE BUILDING GUYS 🤣
 
DaimIt said:
Yup and doesnt seem to care to help herself much other than to say oh i hope an upswing is coming . Like girl wake up 2 out of 7 days you are " ok " ish . thats not good.
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I completely agree. She knows what triggers her, and that's binging on alcohol days and weeks on end. She had a full blown what, 4 days? Of excessive alcohol consumption and food in London, she knows she has downwards spirals days or weeks after indulging herself like that. So why put yourself through it. She is very quick to highlight to everyone she has bpd but doesn't change her lifestyle to make it slightly manageable for herself. I have no idea if she takes medication for it, but if she does then that's just a recipe for disaster.
 
Veracosy said:
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
I have worked in the nursing sector for over 25 years, in the community and hospital based.
It is possible to keep dementia patients at home, I've done it myself.
There are many elements to look at, but the support is there of this is the route that the family want.
I've looked after patients at home with severe dementia and managed to provide a safe and controlled environment, it is possible .
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I saw the difference in both my grannies (one stayed at home and had carers, one went into a home). I found the care home situation really stressful. She was constantly left alone, crying for a drink (literally begging for water) and wanting her mummy (this is my memory of my last visit with her before she died and I swear it has scarred me, I find it really hard to think of the good times before then😞). My granny who stayed at home and had carers was like the complete opposite. Both had the same brain deterioration. I just found the care home staff to be quite unpleasant and too busy laughing and joking with each other all the time. Of course there are some lovely care homes but not round our parts. I do understand that there are elderly folk who have no option but to enter a care home, but I do agree that some can stay at home til the end.
As for Greedy, it’s an utter joke that she was sitting in her car crying about her grandparents, when people just like them had their lives wrecked by the actions of her partner (and likely she was in the general ‘know’ at the very least).
 
Let's not bicker amongst ourselves....Greedy will be slurping laughing her head off at us.
It's that agree to disagree thing and I'm sure no one set out to make anyone else feel guilty. But can see the points made as it's a very sensitive subject. Comments are only made because she's put it out there for all to see and have an opinion on. She should have just absolutely kept this part of her life to herself. It's a very sensitive and difficult time for any family so I'm sure they wouldn't want it broadcast to thousands of people.
Or if you do broadcast it do it for the right reasons like raising awareness or raising money for charity. That's what these 'influencers' should be using their influence for...not swipe ups for bloody drink air freshener shite!
 
liltatling said:
Let's not bicker amongst ourselves....Greedy will be slurping laughing her head off at us.
It's that agree to disagree thing and I'm sure no one set out to make anyone else feel guilty. But can see the points made as it's a very sensitive subject. Comments are only made because she's put it out there for all to see and have an opinion on. She should have just absolutely kept this part of her life to herself. It's a very sensitive and difficult time for any family so I'm sure they wouldn't want it broadcast to thousands of people.
Or if you do broadcast it do it for the right reasons like raising awareness or raising money for charity. That's what these 'influencers' should be using their influence for...not swipe ups for bloody drink air freshener shite!
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Well said. Whatever the situation is, I imagine her grandparents wouldn't willingly choose to have their private business broadcast on SM for thousands of strangers to see. I wouldn't even share something so personal on my own SM which is private and where I know everyone of my followers personally...the whole 50 of them.
 
liltatling said:
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these links need adding to her wiki.
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Her grandparents personal life should not be plastered all over social media. I have two grandparents with dementia and would never post about them like that on social media. Sharing charities, help and support links and even making donations would be a much better thing to do.
 
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