Her decor kills me - that table setting - jesus christ would be fine it it was at your grandma's house in the Scottish Highlands for Xmas day but for god sakes she's what - in her thirties?? 3 kids, lives near the beach, warm weather - chill out a bit! How about a beautiful white table cloth, some fresh flowers, real candles, white plates, modern glasses etc - all that tartan, fake candles, fake greenery, grandma's chrystal, those horrendous tall candle holders - I would literally change every single thing!! I would HATE to be sitting at that table for lunch. I bet no-one ever fills your glass up, she'd be telling the kids to sit up straight, there'd be some jingly music playing in the background - torture!!