Misha Grimes #8 Content should be for only fans, reddits aware but she doesn’t care

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Remmingtonshade123 said:
I wonder if he’ll take compassionate leave to be by her side and support her
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The majority of companies only allow compassionate leave for your own immediate family member. For instance when my ex’s (we were together at the time haha) family member passed I used annual leave.

She’s not got her head in a work space at the moment understandably so as much as I can’t stand Jake.. surely he should be the one holding the fort in London and making sure the bills are paid so she doesn’t have to? Not risking his job for what in reality is not his family member so corporates like he works for don’t take it into account.
 
Cooksie said:
The majority of companies only allow compassionate leave for your own immediate family member. For instance when my ex’s (we were together at the time haha) family member passed I used annual leave.

She’s not got her head in a work space at the moment understandably so as much as I can’t stand Jake.. surely he should be the one holding the fort in London and making sure the bills are paid so she doesn’t have to? Not risking his job for what in reality is not his family member so corporates like he works for don’t take it into account.
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Yeah it seems unlikely his work would allow compassionate leave for this - but they may be a great employer. He might take holiday to be with her or she may not want him around all the time anyway and just to be with her mum and sister. It’s so hard to know or judge a situation when none of us are in it. I hope she gets proper support from therapists or however she sees fit though as well as from her family friends and jake.
 
Cooksie said:
The majority of companies only allow compassionate leave for your own immediate family member. For instance when my ex’s (we were together at the time haha) family member passed I used annual leave.

She’s not got her head in a work space at the moment understandably so as much as I can’t stand Jake.. surely he should be the one holding the fort in London and making sure the bills are paid so she doesn’t have to? Not risking his job for what in reality is not his family member so corporates like he works for don’t take it into account.
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Yes, in my experience you get compassionate leave for in-laws but not boyfriends/girlfriends. So you would have to be married or considered common-law (lived together over 1 year) in Canada, where i live, to be able to get compassionate leave. Unless you explain the situation and have a compassionate employeer. He may only be able to take leave without pay but that would be hard in terms of keeping up on the rent in the apartment
 
He won’t get compassionate leave. He works for Deloitte. They don’t do compassion. His own dad could die and he wouldn’t get compassionate leave.

source - husband has worked for them for 5 years, in the same area Jake works in (no he doesn’t know him, I did ask, the senior consultants don’t tend to meet the grad analysts unless they’re mentoring them)
 
Nixen said:
He won’t get compassionate leave. He works for Deloitte. They don’t do compassion. His own dad could die and he wouldn’t get compassionate leave.

source - husband has worked for them for 5 years, in the same area Jake works in (no he doesn’t know him, I did ask, the senior consultants don’t tend to meet the grad analysts unless they’re mentoring them)
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If only. You could have all the tea on their relationship 😂😂
 
Nixen said:
He won’t get compassionate leave. He works for Deloitte. They don’t do compassion. His own dad could die and he wouldn’t get compassionate leave.

source - husband has worked for them for 5 years, in the same area Jake works in (no he doesn’t know him, I did ask, the senior consultants don’t tend to meet the grad analysts unless they’re mentoring them)
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Thank you for sharing this - I’ll definitely avoid Deloitte in the future - nearly took a role there before! Some companies are gross but please stand by your legal entitlement and your rights. I started a new job and was unwell after a few weeks and just told my manager I wouldn’t be in the office (wfh instead which I can 100% do my role remote), other people were worried to do similar, but I would rather take the risk and as silly as it sounds, try find another role / take them to court if they were pricks about it. (Not for being unwell but if I needed compassionate leave I would take it regardless of their approval)
 
I was in Urban Outfitters in Bristol yesterday and saw Misha and Kasha in there. Both dressed up, full face of makeup, bright pink OTT outfits. They had a load of bright lacy corsets in-hand when I saw them first off and later on looked like they bought a lot. Both seemed in very good spirits. I know everyone grieves in there own way and it may have been a welcome distraction day out but surely this isn't the same image their portraying online at the moment? Furthered by how neither posted anything on stories about their day out, i'm thinking they wanted to fly under the radar with it?
 
Minx66 said:
I was in Urban Outfitters in Bristol yesterday and saw Misha and Kasha in there. Both dressed up, full face of makeup, bright pink OTT outfits. They had a load of bright lacy corsets in-hand when I saw them first off and later on looked like they bought a lot. Both seemed in very good spirits. I know everyone grieves in there own way and it may have been a welcome distraction day out but surely this isn't the same image their portraying online at the moment? Furthered by how neither posted anything on stories about their day out, i'm thinking they wanted to fly under the radar with it?
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So?! When my dad died I went out and about still a week or so later. What else do you expect? To sit at home in misery? Reserve judgement. A small day of feeling ok and acting normally after 2+ years of knowing what’s going to happen and caring for a loved one. Just curious, what time frame is acceptable for you for them to be sitting at home not showing their faces? They obviously don’t feel like doing shopping updates on SM. So bloody what?!

ETA social media is their job so of course they can take time off social media when they’ve lost their husband/ father. Honestly, this was so snide and unnecessary.
 
I’d be surprised if he got leave. A family member of mine died the same time as misha’s dad. His daughter’s 8 months pregnant and has a little girl who’s 3 and her boyfriend was told that because they aren’t married that the wouldn’t get leave, luckily his boss was extremely understanding and let him change his days off for it, so he got two days off, so doubt Jake would be allowed to take it, end of the day it’s not his family member unfortunately.

I don’t think we can judge how misha or her mum choose to handle the death of her dad, everyone deals with things differently, I mean a lot of people cannot cope with it and just decide to block it all out and act like nothings happened, for all we know they might have been getting clothes for the funeral, I mean I can’t speak for them because I don’t know, but her dad was ill for a while now, maybe in a way it brings them so peace knowing he’s not suffering anymore and that’s he’s free from it all.

Just seen she’s posted about going back to London for a few days, I think with all this happening it’s either going to make or break that relationship with them both, when misha is obviously going to be spending all her time at home with family and Jake being in London alone, I think this possibly could be the thing that makes Jake realise he wants to be single, it’s easier to have a relationship in lockdown when you cannot go out getting drunk and doing all those single guy stuff, but now lockdown is over and nightclubs are opening again, feel like it’s only a matter of time, or maybe it will be misha who breaks things off, but I’d surprised if the relationship lasts
 
Minx66 said:
I was in Urban Outfitters in Bristol yesterday and saw Misha and Kasha in there. Both dressed up, full face of makeup, bright pink OTT outfits. They had a load of bright lacy corsets in-hand when I saw them first off and later on looked like they bought a lot. Both seemed in very good spirits. I know everyone grieves in there own way and it may have been a welcome distraction day out but surely this isn't the same image their portraying online at the moment? Furthered by how neither posted anything on stories about their day out, i'm thinking they wanted to fly under the radar with it?
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I actually can’t believe this comment.

Grief is so complicated, sometimes you feel okay, then you don’t. Sometimes you want to spend all day in bed, the next day you want to go out to the shops. So what they fancied a day trip out to take their minds off things?
They will be grieving their loss for the rest of their lives.

What would you have preferred? To see them in all black crying?
 
Dwightschrute said:
I actually can’t believe this comment.

Grief is so complicated, sometimes you feel okay, then you don’t. Sometimes you want to spend all day in bed, the next day you want to go out to the shops. So what they fancied a day trip out to take their minds off things?
They will be grieving their loss for the rest of their lives.

What would you have preferred? To see them in all black crying?
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Honestly it’s so rude. “Seemed in bright spirits” “buying bright Lacy corsets” the implication is that somehow they are gleeful?! It’s just so, so… cruel to speak like that. Did the poster expect them to be in widows blacks and veils for a set period of time? How do we not know they were both going out of there heads sitting at home surrounded by flowers and condolence cards and just needed a change of scene? I know that’s how I felt. And then saying they are portraying something different on SM… like i said, of course they do, it’s work for them. This is none of our business and it was a pretty crappy thing to post.

ps I love Dwight.
 
EllaEm87 said:
Honestly it’s so rude. “Seemed in bright spirits” “buying bright Lacy corsets” the implication is that somehow they are gleeful?! It’s just so, so… cruel to speak like that. Did the poster expect them to be in widows blacks and veils for a set period of time? How do we not know they were both going out of there heads sitting at home surrounded by flowers and condolence cards and just needed a change of scene? I know that’s how I felt. And then saying they are portraying something different on SM… like i said, of course they do, it’s work for them. This is none of our business and it was a pretty crappy thing to post.

ps I love Dwight.
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Yes yes yes yes to all of this 🙌🏻

This will be the same people to in a year/ two years time when she brings up her grief who say she needs to move on and stop talking about it 🙄

Ps. Dwight loves you x
 
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