CharlieSmith96
Well-known member
I absolutely hate to defend Mia but I remember hearing people say how hard it is to have a baby but it’s a hard you just can’t comprehend until you actually have a baby in your arms. Like pre baby I would’ve told you that I was exhausted because I only had 7 hours sleep instead of 8 but looking back I genuinely did think I was shattered. You can’t really wrap your head around things that you’ve never experienced yet.I hate it when people say “why does no one talk about…” eg why does no one talk about how hard having a newborn is. Eh, that’s literally ALL people with newborns talk about. They’re the same kind of people who when you do try to talk to them about how things will be while they’re pregnant, they say they don’t need the negativity in their lives.
I’m not saying she could’ve done more preparing and reading and research etc before having the baby but I think for her to come online and suggest she’s struggling she must really be in a bad place. Everything is always perfect and rainbows and butterflies and constantly trying to show the perfect picture so I can only imagine how bad it must really be.