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Just watched this old video of mia’s and it’s funny how time has changed things... she still has the arrogant “my opinion is right” attitude but I feel like she used to not care so much about what others do and now all she goes on about is how right she is. I guess it’s her way of being defensive.

At 2:50 (roughly) the Baby wearing question - mia said she was against wearing the baby carrier thing when the baby is sleeping or wants to fall asleep because it’s a “bad habit” and will be hard for the child to drop the habit once they start doing it yet she’s done exactly that with Mabel in her swinging chair to get her to fall asleep.

At 3:40 mia was discriminating other people’s religions/beliefs about circumcision. You don’t have to agree with people but downgrading them and talking disgustedly about them is rude and disrespectful.

At 8:17 mia confirmed here that she never wanted to breastfeed and then after she had Mabel she turned on the water works saying she would’ve liked to breastfeed but couldn’t because of her traumatic c section. Not that a c section stops you from breastfeeding but I’m unsure of why she suddenly changed what she said.

At 8:57 she talks about a baby “crying it out”, she gave tit advice at 9:30. Mia said she was going to leave the baby crying for 10 minutes because it might just be for attention which is stupid to leave a baby under 6 months alone and crying when they most likely have a reason to be crying. At 6 months + is when babies start moving to their own bedroom and you can start sleep training them. Before that a baby will most likely cry because they’re hungry so ignoring them for 10 minutes will only make them hungrier (worse).

At 11:30 she talks about abuse, a child who has been abused wouldn’t say a “slight tap on the arm” is okay, they would be completely against violence towards their child as they know too well what it does to you.
At 11:50 mia says “when my dad wasn’t very nice to me, it made me want to retaliate more” which is basically the rebelling of a teenager. If she does the opposite to what her dad wanted or asked her to do or hit him back in any way then she clearly isn’t scared of him. When most people become afraid, they freeze and shut down. It’s almost as if she actually liked going against her dad because she liked the attention it got her. Obviously this abuse thing is ongoing and probably always will be but I don’t think she’s telling the full truth and if anything shows that then it’s this.

At 13:00 she talks about co sleeping. Says she is basically against it because it isn’t safe in her bed yet she brings Mabel in every morning for a lie in (so basically another nap). Again, she hasn’t followed her own advice because getting Mabel out of this “habit” will be difficult, something she even said herself.

At 15:15 mia calls people who don’t get their child vaccinations stupid, even if the parent has their own valid reasons. She should be less concerned about what others are doing and more concerned at the things she does. I could think of many things she could improve on so talking down about people and calling them names is disrespectful when no one is perfect themselves. As a mother, i think she should be supporting other mothers more seeing as she is so PRO CHOICE.
 
Lauren1994 said:


Just watched this old video of mia’s and it’s funny how time has changed things... she still has the arrogant “my opinion is right” attitude but I feel like she used to not care so much about what others do and now all she goes on about is how right she is. I guess it’s her way of being defensive.

At 2:50 (roughly) the Baby wearing question - mia said she was against wearing the baby carrier thing when the baby is sleeping or wants to fall asleep because it’s a “bad habit” and will be hard for the child to drop the habit once they start doing it yet she’s done exactly that with Mabel in her swinging chair to get her to fall asleep.

At 3:40 mia was discriminating other people’s religions/beliefs about circumcision. You don’t have to agree with people but downgrading them and talking disgustedly about them is rude and disrespectful.

At 8:17 mia confirmed here that she never wanted to breastfeed and then after she had Mabel she turned on the water works saying she would’ve liked to breastfeed but couldn’t because of her traumatic c section. Not that a c section stops you from breastfeeding but I’m unsure of why she suddenly changed what she said.

At 8:57 she talks about a baby “crying it out”, she gave tit advice at 9:30. Mia said she was going to leave the baby crying for 10 minutes because it might just be for attention which is stupid to leave a baby under 6 months alone and crying when they most likely have a reason to be crying. At 6 months + is when babies start moving to their own bedroom and you can start sleep training them. Before that a baby will most likely cry because they’re hungry so ignoring them for 10 minutes will only make them hungrier (worse).

At 11:30 she talks about abuse, a child who has been abused wouldn’t say a “slight tap on the arm” is okay, they would be completely against violence towards their child as they know too well what it does to you.
At 11:50 mia says “when my dad wasn’t very nice to me, it made me want to retaliate more” which is basically the rebelling of a teenager. If she does the opposite to what her dad wanted or asked her to do or hit him back in any way then she clearly isn’t scared of him. When most people become afraid, they freeze and shut down. It’s almost as if she actually liked going against her dad because she liked the attention it got her. Obviously this abuse thing is ongoing and probably always will be but I don’t think she’s telling the full truth and if anything shows that then it’s this.

At 13:00 she talks about co sleeping. Says she is basically against it because it isn’t safe in her bed yet she brings Mabel in every morning for a lie in (so basically another nap). Again, she hasn’t followed her own advice because getting Mabel out of this “habit” will be difficult, something she even said herself.

At 15:15 mia calls people who don’t get their child vaccinations stupid, even if the parent has their own valid reasons. She should be less concerned about what others are doing and more concerned at the things she does. I could think of many things she could improve on so talking down about people and calling them names is disrespectful when no one is perfect themselves. As a mother, i think she should be supporting other mothers more seeing as she is so PRO CHOICE.
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I understand a lot of your points except the vaccination one. She’s going to be sending her little girl to nursery. She will be mixing with other children prior to having her 1 year jabs and will have no idea if they have been vaccinated or not. She has every right as a mother to have an opinion on this as if she is mixing with other children who’s parents have chosen not to vaccinate, this puts her child at higher risk too. Other than if your child has a condition meaning they can’t have the vaccination, I can’t see any valid reason why they shouldn’t have it.
 
“You guys know I make QUITE a lot of money..” ffs she really thinks she’s a millionaire and it makes me cringe so much 🤦🏽‍♀️
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Just watched Mia’s new video & noticed she said they only live 3 minutes away from Mabel’s nursery. I’m not very good at wording things so apologies but if they “only live 3 minutes” away, why can’t Mia walk there with Mabel in her stroller? Instead she just kept disturbing her mum who’s trying to work by making her drop them off. I understand Mia can’t drive so maybe if it was raining one day, she could ask her mum for a lift but I personally think always getting her mum to drop her off somewhere she can very easily walk to is a bit of a pisstake tbh x
 
HER FIRST DAY AT NURSERY | What I packed in her Nursery Bag! || Teen Mum Vlogs
  • Mia explains that her childcare is being paid for no matter how much she earns, and she can't help but add that "obviously she makes quite a decent wage from Youtube"
  • The kitten wees on her bed for the 3rd time in 3 days :sick:
  • Mabel is now having 3 meals a day because she's constantly hungry and drinking milk every hour or two
  • Mia puts something on TV in the background while she gets ready because Mabel "likes noise" - although it looks like Netflix, not a baby cartoon
  • She wants to put Mabel in a particular outfit but doesn't know if it will fit her yet because she's still "very very short" (it fits)
  • Mabel went to nursery for a couple of hours on her first day - Mia says she feels like she wasted her time while she was there but she's "not bothered".
  • She asked the nursery what kind of clothes Mabel should wear and realised she doesn't have any "crappy bits" for her to get messy in
  • She collects Mabel, brings her home and feeds her crisps
  • The next morning she recaps how Mabel got on at nursery - Mia stayed for half an hour to fill in some forms then left when Mabel wasn't looking. Mabel got upset when she realised Mia wasn't there and then starting crying when she came back to collect her. She was fed beans on toast but she didn't like the beans so just had toast.
  • They live a few minutes by car from the nursery
  • Mabel had a longer day at nursery on her 2nd day and Mabel "got stroppy" when Mia left
  • Then she came back home and watched Skins
  • Then she wrote a to-do list - make a thumbnail, tidy her room, record a video, edit it, do a voiceover because it's going to be a "snazzy" video
  • Says she's done the majority of her list but she hasn't done the voiceover or finished filming and editing
  • Mabel came home, has supper, a bath and went to bed
  • Says Friday-Monday she'll have all the time in the world with Mabel - I still think she's underestimating the amount of college work she'll have to do at home!!
  • She's ordered more clothes for nursery and there's a video coming about it
  • Says she feels sad that Mabel is growing so fast
  • Says sorry that the vlog was all over the place, as usual.....
 
scoobie said:
HER FIRST DAY AT NURSERY | What I packed in her Nursery Bag! || Teen Mum Vlogs
  • Mia explains that her childcare is being paid for no matter how much she earns, and she can't help but add that "obviously she makes quite a decent wage from Youtube"
  • The kitten wees on her bed for the 3rd time in 3 days :sick:
  • Mabel is now having 3 meals a day because she's constantly hungry and drinking milk every hour or two
  • Mia puts something on TV in the background while she gets ready because Mabel "likes noise" - although it looks like Netflix, not a baby cartoon
  • She wants to put Mabel in a particular outfit but doesn't know if it will fit her yet because she's still "very very short" (it fits)
  • Mabel went to nursery for a couple of hours on her first day - Mia says she feels like she wasted her time while she was there but she's "not bothered".
  • She asked the nursery what kind of clothes Mabel should wear and realised she doesn't have any "crappy bits" for her to get messy in
  • She collects Mabel, brings her home and feeds her crisps
  • The next morning she recaps how Mabel got on at nursery - Mia stayed for half an hour to fill in some forms then left when Mabel wasn't looking. Mabel got upset when she realised Mia wasn't there and then starting crying when she came back to collect her. She was fed beans on toast but she didn't like the beans so just had toast.
  • They live a few minutes by car from the nursery
  • Mabel had a longer day at nursery on her 2nd day and Mabel "got stroppy" when Mia left
  • Then she came back home and watched Skins
  • Then she wrote a to-do list - make a thumbnail, tidy her room, record a video, edit it, do a voiceover because it's going to be a "snazzy" video
  • Says she's done the majority of her list but she hasn't done the voiceover or finished filming and editing
  • Mabel came home, has supper, a bath and went to bed
  • Says Friday-Monday she'll have all the time in the world with Mabel - I still think she's underestimating the amount of college work she'll have to do at home!!
  • She's ordered more clothes for nursery and there's a video coming about it
  • Says she feels sad that Mabel is growing so fast
  • Says sorry that the vlog was all over the place, as usual.....
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I hate how she's called comfy clothes 'crappy bits'. She just needs to get Mabel some simple tops and leggings. Of course Mabel will cry when Mia leaves, she's not being stroppy, she's just not used to being left yet. I work in a pre-school and we've just started the new term and a couple of children have cried when their parents left but the staff will distract her and she'll soon be fine once she gets used to it. What does she mean by wasted her time on the first day (may watch the video to see but sorta cba with her attitude). Also Mabel probably ate the toast as that's all she fed at home, toast and crisps.

I'm glad Mabel is in nursery as it will help with her social skills and lots of different toys to help with her development and stimulation and also help build confidence. She'll learn other skills off the other children too.
 
Hi🙋🏻‍♀️ I’ve just been watching for quite a while but after watching Mia’s video the other Day when she mentions she pays for mabels Full day nursey so she’s going to use it, or something along those lines. I dm’d her on Instagram just mentioning a grant the government do (I know this because I too was a teen mum and the grant payed for my childcare) just in case she wasn’t aware. And In tonights video she mentions she gets the grant. Come on girl make up your mind, you either pay for it or you get help from the gov 🤷🏻‍♀️😂 I don’t know if she even read the dm just seems a bit of a coincidence to me that she brings it up now after already claiming she pays for the full day🤷🏻‍♀️
 

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Doyoureally? said:
People often change when they have a baby in how they feel/what they do compared to how they think when pregnant (especially for your first!). I wouldn’t hold her accountable for her opinions before just because now she’s doing things different to what she said then.
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Idk if I agree with this personally. Yeah it’s normal to change because you have no idea how hard motherhood is until you do it. However, going from having your head screwed on, focusing on your child, making an effort to bond and spend time with them to suddenly talking to them like rubbish, acting bitter towards them, never taking them out and being excited about them and choosing your own hobbies over them definitely isn’t a normal change to me..
 
Beccaf24 said:
Idk if I agree with this personally. Yeah it’s normal to change because you have no idea how hard motherhood is until you do it. However, going from having your head screwed on, focusing on your child, making an effort to bond and spend time with them to suddenly talking to them like rubbish, acting bitter towards them, never taking them out and being excited about them and choosing your own hobbies over them definitely isn’t a normal change to me..
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I read a post where someone appears to list things Mia said before the baby that contradicts what’s she’s consequently said/done. like breastfeeding, sleep training, co sleeping. Just pointing out that most first time mums I know think they will do things one way and it all changes once baby is here. Sometimes in a positive way sometimes not. I just don’t necessarily think someone’s a liar or being deceitful as this happens often. I completely changed my views on lots of things I thought I was very set on before.

I didn’t say if I thought her parenting was ‘normal’ or not, or if she was doing a better job earlier on or now. But I understand when things are written they can be interpreted in different ways.
 
Doyoureally? said:
I read a post where someone appears to list things Mia said before the baby that contradicts what’s she’s consequently said/done. like breastfeeding, sleep training, co sleeping. Just pointing out that most first time mums I know think they will do things one way and it all changes once baby is here. Sometimes in a positive way sometimes not. I just don’t necessarily think someone’s a liar or being deceitful as this happens often. I completely changed my views on lots of things I thought I was very set on before.

I didn’t say if I thought her parenting was ‘normal’ or not, or if she was doing a better job earlier on or now. But I understand when things are written they can be interpreted in different ways.
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Ah ok, my bad, I see what you meant now! Yeah I agree on that, I’m guilty of changing my original thoughts when I was pregnant also. I don’t think most people have an issue with her changing her mind, I do wish she’d be more honest about it though. She seems to make excuses a lot (not that she needs one) but then constantly changes it and will blame others or lie (like saying she wasn’t allowed to breastfeed) and contradict herself which is why it always seems like she’s lying about things rather than just saying “yeah I wanted to do this, didn’t work, so now I’m doing this” if that makes sense 😂
 
As I was watching today's vlog I was waiting for the part where she showed and explained what she packed. As he title said Her first day at nursery. What I packed in her nursery bag. Did I accidentally skip a bit? In sure I didn't see this

caitlincross123 said:
did she actually show what was in mabels nursery bag like the title said because i honestly can’t remember seeing it. maybe my memories just shite lol
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I thought the exact same
 
Beccaf24 said:
Ah ok, my bad, I see what you meant now! Yeah I agree on that, I’m guilty of changing my original thoughts when I was pregnant also. I don’t think most people have an issue with her changing her mind, I do wish she’d be more honest about it though. She seems to make excuses a lot (not that she needs one) but then constantly changes it and will blame others or lie (like saying she wasn’t allowed to breastfeed) and contradict herself which is why it always seems like she’s lying about things rather than just saying “yeah I wanted to do this, didn’t work, so now I’m doing this” if that makes sense 😂
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Totally makes sense, I don’t follow Mia, just the thread as it’s one of the more active ones and I enjoy reading it. 😂 That’s why my comments are more general as I can’t form an opinion on most of what’s discussed as I just get my info from here. She does sound very defensive, I think if she was a bit more open like you’ve highlighted people wouldn’t be as critical. I’ll get back to Lurking! 👀
 
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